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10 Steps to Attract the Life You Want

“What you seek is seeking you.” - Rumi

By Simon NgPublished 4 years ago 6 min read

Would you call me insane if I told you that you could create the exact type of circumstances you desire?

What if your thoughts could cause ripples of change that affected more than just your life...

...but what about those around you?

But, in reality, getting started is surprisingly simple. Simply follow these 10 Super Simple Steps to Attract Everything You've Ever Desired:

Step 1: A little thankfulness goes a long way.

The first thing you should know about the Law of Attraction is that it is an energy-based system.

To be more specific, YOUR energy.

Everyone brings a different kind of energy into the world, and it affects them in ways they don't always notice or appreciate.

The secret is in the FREQUENCY of a person's energy, which you must increase in order to change your life.

Consider your unique energy to be a gas that fills the space of your reality. Whatever "gas" or "energy" you emit into your immediate environment will define your existence.

So, if you want to invite great things into your life, you must first lay the groundwork. And you can do so by leading with the appropriate energy.

That is why being grateful and appreciating what you have is such an effective way to re-calibrate your frequency.

Most people don't feel this way until they get what they want. But, as the saying goes, putting the cart before the horse.

When you LEAD with gratitude, it sets the tone for everything good that comes after.

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I like to begin each day by making a list of things for which I am grateful. If I forget something, I save it for later and add it to my list at the end of the day.

And when I go through my list this weekend, I'll be able to see exactly how much good stuff I've accumulated.

This has a snowball effect and helps me attract even MORE good stuff in the future.

Step 2: Give generously.

Some people may find this difficult if they believe there isn't enough to go around.

But if you go out of your way to SHARE whatever you can without expecting anything in return...

... you'll generate the kind of energy that attracts prosperity for all...

...which includes YOU.

Once again, the Law of Attraction is at work.

Try giving your time, talents, and material wealth to those in need; you'll soon find yourself attracting blessings without even trying.

Step 3: Imagine your future.

What amazes me about children is how powerful their imaginations are.

You can see in their eyes how REAL their games are to them when they role-play with other children.

This is something that adults have lost, and it's critical to reclaim the ability to imagine the kind of reality you want.

The Universe enjoys playing games with us; the better you visualize, the more you will be rewarded.

As previously stated, a certain type of energy attracts a certain type of reality.

So, if you focus your energy and thoughts on that dream job or the car you've always wanted, you'll raise your frequency to ATTRACT those things.

Step 4: Allow the negativity to pass.

When the bad times come and you feel like dirt, it's sometimes best to step back and let nature take its course.

It's natural to have negative thoughts and emotions, but you don't have to fight them all the time.

You can simply acknowledge what's going on in your inner world and then CHOOSE to continue moving forward regardless.

Allow this negative energy to pass through your system as if it were a bad case of gas. The sooner you let it do its thing, the sooner you can get back to your work.

Step #5: Never stop learning.

A daily routine is beneficial to your life, but not at the expense of your personal development.

Most people are so set in their ways that they are terrified of trying something new.

Then they moan about their mundane lives or how some people "have all the luck."

Breaking out of your comfort zone is never easy, but it is a necessary step.

Find some time in your schedule, no matter how hectic it is, to do things that will help you grow.

Taking an online course, joining a community, or picking up a hobby is a powerful way to attract new and exciting things into your life.

Step 6: Stay away from the "toxic" crowd.

Some people appear hell-bent on dragging others into their world of misery.

You should avoid them, whether they are attempting to alleviate their own pain or simply enjoying themselves.

Choose people who will have the opposite effect on your mind. A person's energy not only attracts circumstances, but it is also CONTAGIOUS.

So surround yourself with people who will inspire you to achieve greater things rather than bring you down with apathy or inaction.

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Step #7: Permit yourself to succeed.

Most of the world's most brilliant minds have been snubbed in some way.

Someone told them somewhere along the way that they'd "never make it" or were "destined to fail."

Certain people in your life have attempted to discourage you in some way.

They may have tried to put you down when you were younger, or it could have happened just last week.

It makes no difference.

What matters is that you understand that NO ONE has the authority to label you.

And, more importantly, they will NEVER give you permission to achieve your life goals. That is something you must do for yourself.

Do not allow their words to define your "story." You don't have to conform to whatever petty narrative they're attempting to impose on you.

Step 8: Be confident in who you are.

Instead of believing the lies that others tell you, make today the day to begin living your truth.

Create statements that embody the truth that you want to be AND live in.

This happens all the time.

Be truthful with yourself and recognize the things that REALLY matter to you.

You are aware of it, as is the Universe.

The key is to do it on a daily basis. For instance, if you know deep down that you want to make a better life for yourself, you can say something like this:

"I may be struggling right now, but I know deep down that I have what it takes to make things better in my life." I see myself evolving into a happier, wealthier individual who brightens the lives of others."

When you operate from even the smallest sliver of truth, you can build a powerful force overtime.

Step 9: FAIL BRILLIANTLY.

Here's something most people don't realize about the Law of Attraction: you have to crash and burn before you can enjoy success and true happiness.

It's better to go after what you want even if it means risking failure than to play it safe and not try at all.

To bring order into your life, you must first accept the chaos that precedes it.

This is where you'll find the true lessons, even if they're a little painful.

(Or, in some cases, quite a bit.)

Consider yourself to be the beautiful Phoenix of legend.

Consider burning off bits and pieces of yourself that you no longer require. As you rise from the ashes, you become a NEW YOU.

That's how evolution works. It's an imperfect and unpleasant process, but the end result is well worth it.

Step #10: Remove your MOST IMPORTANT OBSTACLE TO SUCCESS.

People fail to recognize that their greatest impediment is their own mindset.

They may express a desire for something to occur, but they do not truly believe it.

For example, someone may want to lose weight but not in a strong enough way.

Worse, they may not believe they can lose the weight. A part of them refuses to even consider the possibility of it happening.

This is essentially why people never seem to attract the things they desire in life.

You must change something within yourself in order to remove this barrier.

You must delve deep to understand WHY you don't want it as much as you claim.

Are you afraid of going through the pain of getting what you want?

Most people are turned off by this because they are unable to deal with the discomfort that comes with growing up.

At the same time, you must address the reasons why you believe your desired reality is impossible.

It could be some deeply ingrained beliefs influenced by past events or childhood experiences.

Once you've sorted this out, you'll be free to do whatever you want without being limited by pre-programmed beliefs.

These ten steps we just discussed will get your foot in the door. When you start doing them on a regular basis, you'll notice incredible breakthroughs you didn't think were possible.

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About the Creator

Simon Ng

My passion and experience are people development, training, and consultation. So I would like to share my people development skills and experience on how to enhance, improve and inspire you to become a better version of yourself.

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