10 Most Effective Ways To Make A Man Fall In Love With You
It is believed that a man takes the first step and conquers a woman. But initially, the woman prepares the space for the man to notice her and take these very first steps.
1. Open poses.
It may sound hackneyed, but nothing is more repulsive than unnaturalness. Pay attention to how you sit, how comfortable are you? Do you remember in this article I talked about the fact that true emotions are read subconsciously, in an instant? Therefore, study exactly which postures indicate openness and readiness for interaction. Practice at home, take one of them and feel what has changed in your inner state?
2. Sincerity.
It seems to be the same, such an old phrase “be yourself”, but it does not lose its relevance. If you have a sports interest, and it’s just important for you to fall in love with yourself, this is one thing, but if you like a guy and you want a relationship, you shouldn’t play and invent something. Feeling embarrassed? Then don't act like a vamp at the moment, but just say directly that you are embarrassed, not forgetting to smile at the same time.
Too much falsehood and far-fetchedness are not very appreciated, not only by representatives of the strong half of humanity, but many women are also tired of pathos. In addition, having started to play a role, in the future you will either have to stick to it or open cards that you are different ...
3. Smile.
This is the best love spell that disarms and disposes to itself. There is a secret that if you smile and at the same time look into the guy's eyes, or at the lips, it instantly conquers him.
4. Humor.
If you remain serious during the entire communication, then warm, tender feelings, interest, and excitement are unlikely to arise. Men love it when they laugh at their jokes, especially if the girl herself takes the initiative and is able to subtly joke, even at herself. These are the first signs of a high level of intelligence, moreover, it may well defuse the situation when tension has accumulated and its retention only harms communication.
Have you noticed that after laughing heartily, we become more relaxed, confident, and positive?
5. Interest.
If you really liked him, do not hold back your interest, ask questions that concern you, find out about his life, dreams, attitude to something, tastes, preferences, and so on. We all love attention, and often it doesn’t matter to those around us what is happening inside us, what fears and anxieties poison our thoughts or vice versa, what dreams inspire us to live. Such deep conversations create a foundation of trust, a sense of intimacy, and as a result, can evoke love.
6. Touch him.
Slightly, by chance, it will cause the effect of slight excitement in him. If you are suddenly frightened of something - grab your hand, or take it under your elbow when you cross the road together, remove an eyelash or hair from your face, this will cause tender feelings.
The main thing is to do all this by chance, unobtrusively, as if it could not be otherwise. Such behavior can even return the former if you continue to just communicate.
7. Be a woman, weak, who needs male support.
For example, the fact that you know how to change the lock in the door yourself, you don’t faint at the word “punch” and you made repairs in the apartment with your own hands is, of course, wonderful, and it helps a lot in life, but you shouldn’t brag about it next to a man. After all, he is strong, and only he can change a burned-out light bulb because you can’t even imagine how this is done.
I am exaggerating this, but in fact, it is important for a guy to feel that there is a fragile girl nearby, who is important to protect and protect. Therefore, you should not lift something heavy with him, open the door yourself and show your strength and coolness. How can he fall in love with you if you provoke competition, and not inspire care?
8. Compliment.
Yes, the representatives of the stronger sex also love compliments. Just do not flatter, but declare what you really like about him. This will cheer him up, give him more self-confidence, and, accordingly, the desire to communicate with you longer and more often.
9. Find something in common.
You should not argue and notice the moments in which you hold different opinions, leave them for later when the relationship is formed, and you will be able to hear and appreciate each other's opinions. And now it is better to take care of those moments that can bring you closer. These are fail-safe and win-win tricks because if you have common interests and hobbies, there will be more chances to conquer them and draw more attention to yourself. Just focus on what makes you feel similar feelings, sensations, and thoughts.
10. Be polite and considerate.
And the best thing is to learn to catch the balance when it is worth sharing your story or something about yourself, and when it is better to remain silent and try to hear the interlocutor. This is a very subtle science, and how to understand what you like, or vice versa, what exactly alerted the companion?
About the Creator
Michail Bukin
Creative Writing Expert and Ambitious Stutterer



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