The rest of my life is long

What is the most unbearable thing in this long life? I think many people would say that it is to live this life with someone who does not understand you, barely.

You say the sea is blue, he says the water is deep; you say the mountains are majestic, he says there will be mudslides; you say the flowers are fragrant, he says they will attract bees ......

Your thoughts are not in a band, two people who do not understand each other together, the day is like a torment, so you feel sad every day.

Understand you, what does it mean?

It means that many things, you do not need to explain over and over again; it means that you do not need to think about excuses for a long time before you do something; it means that you can enjoy doing what you want to do without worrying about someone not understanding you.

This life is so hard, the rest of your life is so long, don't spend it with someone who understands you.

The red world is full of people who have to make choices from time to time.

It's like like a person, but that person doesn't necessarily like you, you can give up liking, or you can hit the wall back again. Make a different choice, and suffer a different life.

Like a person, does not mean suitable together, like is like, suitable is suitable, the two can not be confused.

The two are not necessarily the same.

In the beginning, both people feel very suitable, but those who like to accommodate, after all, are not their own real like, the days will feel very tired.

Because like, so do not say break, so the two began to be silent, enthusiasm also day after day waning, the two are tortured.

It's like a person loves watermelon because it's sweet, and the person who likes her also eats watermelon for her, and he also says it's sweet.

Because the person who likes to love watermelon, so also said they love to eat watermelon, but that is ultimately not their real favorite, one day will be boring.

Once bored, all the previous reluctance will be more prominent, and the two only look at each other speechless.

Because I like it, so I feel happy to be forced. When the passion recedes, and then look back, only to find that the two ends of this force with a thorn, hurting themselves, but also hurting others.

The mask is ultimately a mask, wearing a long time is not their original appearance, one day will be taken off, accommodated party is very tired, was accommodated party is also very tired, because not understand each other, so like also become a burden.

The basis for two people to be together is to like each other, maintaining this like also needs to be accommodated.

But this life, not by the accommodation can go to the end, if not know each other, this like is ultimately not survived the trivialities of life.

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not familiar with you, like a chicken and a duck, you say that the road to the east is flatter, he said to explore the road to the west.

They are most familiar with each other, but also can not understand each other's heart think, minds guessing around, and how can not guess right.

The soul remains alone in the drift, nowhere to stop, constantly tormented in like and exhaustion, a heart just tossed back and forth to be tortured, bitterly grasping everything in front of them, the heart room is still barren.

You said you were tired and wanted to sleep, he thought you were sick, so he brought medicine, because of the so-called like, you will drink the medicine, bitterness spread from the mouth to the heart.

If you want to stop, you need to find a compatible another half.

When you meet someone who understands you, it's like finding someone whose soul is compatible with you, no matter what you do together, you will feel immense enjoyment.

Because you know, so you can go back to the most real self like is like, hate is hate, do not have to make yourself perfect, no matter what you look like, in his eyes are just right.

The fact is that you'll be able to get to know what you're thinking about and easily get into your barren heart, and then make it colorful.

The wandering soul gets to rely on, everything and has the same perspective to observe the exchange, and everything becomes easy and pleasant.

When you're with someone who understands you, you don't have to pretend to be yourself, and you don't have to condescend to cater to the pleasure of others. Your sincere in return is also sincere, no longer a mask of accommodation.

The real understanding of your people, know that you are full of a smile under the tears, but also know that you are happy behind the hidden sadness.

The "heart has a heart" is only four words, but how many people can do it?

The things you do, everything you experience, no need to ask why, he will understand.

So, with someone who understands you, you will feel at ease, because you know that each other's hearts are connected, no matter what you do is not a person.

The rest of your life is so long, on the road to eternity, you will encounter a lot of difficulties, but also a lot of painful moments.

At this time, if the person around you understands you, he will be able to bring you strong support and unlimited courage, so that you can continue to move forward to face the unknown everything.

However, when the other person does not understand you, you will feel that the courage to take a step forward is not.

If you are a tree and it's raining, the person who likes you will hold up an umbrella for you to cover the raindrops because he thinks it will drench you, so as soon as it rains, he will hold up an umbrella for you, and you will only feel a moment of peace, but you won't be able to grow until one day it withers.

The person who understands you will also hold an umbrella for you, but he knows that you grow up also need this rain.

So, when the light rain is dripping, he holds the umbrella in his hand and stands beside you, encouraging you to meet the rain.

When the rain pours down, he will hold the umbrella over your head, for you to hold out a side of stability.

So, you are not afraid of the wind and rain, and eventually, blossom, and live the most wonderful life.

The warmest thing in the world is that no matter what time it is, there is always someone looking at you with a smile when you turn around.

The most important thing is to know when you will turn back, so give yourself a smile at the right time and continue to walk with you.

The rest of your life is long, please be sure to look at the flowers along the way with a person who understands you.