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SIX TYPES OF MEN YOU WILL ALWAYS STRUGGLE WITH

Six types of men you should be cautious in relationship

By paul KinyanjuiPublished 2 years ago 2 min read

Title: The Six Types of Men You Will Always Struggle With

Introduction

Welcome! We are delighted that you've taken the time to join us today as we delve into the subject of the six types of men who might bring challenges to your relationship. Drawing from our extensive experience in relationship counseling and marriage therapy, we have identified certain personality traits that can pose difficulties in long-term partnerships. Regardless of appearances, wealth, or social standing, these specific types of men can lead to struggles in a marriage. Before committing yourself to such individuals, we urge you to carefully consider these factors.

The Violent Man

Never settle for a violent man, even if he possesses other admirable qualities. Unfortunately, some individuals may resort to physical violence, even before marriage. Such behavior is unacceptable and should not be excused under any circumstances. If a man shows signs of aggression or attempts to blame you for his violent actions, it is a clear indication that this relationship will be fraught with difficulties and danger.

The Sucker

Beware of the sucker, a man who constantly drains your emotions and resources without reciprocating. Such men might be charming and attractive, but they lack the willingness to contribute to the relationship. If a man shows reluctance to pay for basic expenses or displays a mindset of your money being his but his money being his alone, it is a significant red flag that your relationship may suffer due to financial disparities.

The Uncommitted Man

The uncommitted man is indecisive and hesitant about taking the relationship to the next level, even after years of being together. No matter how much you love him, forcing yourself upon him will only lead to heartbreak. It is essential to be with a partner who is genuinely committed to building a future together.

The Lazy and Irresponsible Man

Avoid getting involved with a man who lacks ambition and responsibility. While God is the ultimate provider, he expects men to fulfill their role as providers for their families. A man who constantly avoids working or takes advantage of your resources without contributing himself will lead to struggles and financial strain in your marriage.

The Man Who Doesn't Believe in You

A partner who does not support your dreams and ambitions will hinder your growth and happiness in the relationship. Avoid getting married to someone who discourages your goals or belittles your aspirations. A healthy relationship requires mutual belief, encouragement, and support.

The Cheater

A man who cheats, whether with or on you, will bring turmoil to your relationship. Infidelity is a breach of trust that can erode the foundation of any marriage. A relationship built on deceit and unfaithfulness will inevitably lead to struggles and heartache.

Conclusion

As you venture into relationships and marriage, keep in mind the types of men discussed here. These traits, if present in a partner, should serve as warning signs and encourage you to reevaluate your compatibility with them. Remember that a strong and successful relationship requires open communication, mutual respect, and shared values. By being cautious and discerning, you can increase your chances of finding a loving and fulfilling partnership.

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About the Creator

paul Kinyanjui

Experienced male marriage counselor, Paul, fosters open communication and trust, guiding couples to lasting, loving connections.

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