Marriage or celibacy, just a way of life, as long as it suits you

If a person who has never had any emotional experience might think that normal and happy people must be married, but this is not necessarily the case -- many people are unhappy because of marriage. And a lot of single people, in fact, also very happy.

Why get married? In fact, not many people have really thought about this problem, marriage seems to be just a fixed formula, as if this life if not married, abnormal, will be regarded by others as different; Of course, many people choose to get married in order to find a partner who can accompany them all their life, because people are afraid of loneliness.

If the relationship and marriage are absolutely happy, then everyone will choose marriage; However, in reality, love and marriage create too much pain, torture and entanglement for people, so many people have to end a relationship, looking back, they will think, had known so, better not to get married.

Actually, if you have not experienced the relationship and marriage, how can you reach such a conclusion?

What this experience means to a lot of people is that by trying it out, you learn what kind of lifestyle might be right for you.

People who have never been married want to get married. Married people, many want to divorce - divorced people, after the real divorce, either constantly looking for a suitable person, or accept that single is the right life for them.

Marriage, single, have their own happiness, also have their own pain, continue to look for people, more to see the side of happiness; Those who choose to be single, on the other hand, see more misery. But the people who continue to search are often the ones with inner insecurity; Those who choose to be single are usually those with a relatively healthy heart.

It is often said that you will never find a better match than the original one -- this is certainly too absolute, but it is also true that the investment you make in your relationship is often the most important one. Many people in the middle of the divorce, if looking for someone again, will be a lot of reality, feelings will be mature a lot - and that kind of romantic feelings, in fact, need is pure, even naive.

More where, get along with actually very tired, you have to know a person again, understand a person again, run in with each other...... I'm tired of thinking about it. There is a line in a movie: "In fact, it doesn't feel anything, anyway, in this world, no one can always accompany who, I also don't need".

In fact, not need, just feel, looking for the process, get along with the harmony, really too tired.

It's not that easy to find someone you can talk to -- so it's not that easy to find someone who's right for you after a divorce.

Whether you are married or single, what kind of way you choose depends on whether you are happy -- this happiness is relative. If you have a happy marriage, cherish it; If the marriage is not happy, divorced, live their own, in fact, any way can make people feel happy, and the destruction of happiness is often, do not cherish the happiness of marriage, or can not bear the loneliness of single.

Can adapt to single life, probably how many are "fear marriage", this may be a relationship on leaving his Achilles' heel, but no relationship, they will feel at least, single is also a kind of stable, don't have to accompany care, suffering from injustice, being about the mood, every day a person can be quiet, although the dull and lonely life, but, At least they're under control.