LOVE IS THE ABSENCE OF JUDGMENT

I hope this finds you good wherever you are and feel the presence of love.

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. Fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. J:4:18-19.

In the purest sense, unconditional love is about caring about the happiness of another person without any concern for how it benefits you. It is also sometimes referred to as compassionate love.Unconditional love is a noble relationship goal since everyone wants to be loved for who they are and without conditions. By its narrowest definition, however, unconditional love can be difficult, if not impossible. 

Firstly,we have to understand what unconditional love implies.

In order to understand it, we have to break down our ideas that we often hold about love. We are used to thinking of love in terms of another person, and we frequently confuse the qualities and characteristics of that person, with the love we hold for them. As we step aside from our own egos, however, we have an opportunity to love more deeply and more strongly than ever before. When we do not judge (either ourselves or the other person), we allow ourselves to taste the ecstasy of true, unconditional love.

This love does not have any boundaries or limitations. It is the act of seeing another person as the being of love-light that is at the core of each of us, without paying attention to whatever conditions or circumstances are appearing before us in the physical world.

This is the heart of love and compassion, and is a practice worth cultivating, every single day, whether we are interacting with our friends and family, or a stranger on the street.

Loving unconditionally comes with selflessness – you start thinking about how to support your partner. It leaves you with an ultimate desire to see your loved ones flourish and find contentment in what they do. 

You love them wholeheartedly and try to share every happiness with them. You are upset when they are not in the best form and happy when they are happy. It is a deep feeling that can’t be seen, only felt

Wholehearted love is not something that can be seen. You simply share your heart with a person and let them bask in the affection you have for them.

Research tells us that the parts of the brain that light up during unconditional love are similar to those involved in romantic love and maternal love and are linked to the brain's reward system. This suggests that unconditional love may be rewarding without receiving anything in return.

EMBRACING UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IN RELATIONSHIP.

Everyone deserves to be loved, in area of Better Relationships, better Work, we reveal how removing judgment and extending unconditional love can revolutionize both personal connections and workplace interactions.  Love without boundaries is a beautiful and transformative experience. It requires us to let go of expectations, communicate with compassion, respect boundaries, and choose forgiveness. By embracing unconditional love in our relationships, we create a safe and nurturing space where love can flourish and grow. It is through this type of love that we can truly experience the depth and beauty of the human connection.

LEARN HOW TO CULTIVATE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

Cultivating the courage to love unconditionally and increase intimacy is a lifelong process. It's a commitment to try our best to remain strong. Unconditional love is daring. It’s bewildering, breathtaking, exhilarating, exquisite, magnificent, life-affirming — and completely terrifying! All of us want to love and be loved. Love is the foundation of life. The more we love, the happier, healthier, more connected we feel. Barriers are built with good intentions, but they don’t serve us. If we want to open our hearts and enrich our lives, we have to remove them. Unconditional love is our birthright. It’s innate, and, despite the myth, isn’t acquired in the external world. However, tapping into its rich supply isn’t straightforward. We all protect our hearts to varying degrees, a common defense mechanism in response to the heartbreak and hurt life throws our way. Perhaps our parents neglected us. Our peers teased us. Our one true love rejected us. Our dreams fell apart.

It takes courage to be open-hearten. The path of least resistance is to cut ourselves off, to retreat, to create a shield of protection from the intensity and uncertainty of the outside world. But these barriers are a prison, enhancing our sense of separateness. Removing them is scary, because the floodgates are wide open, and we can’t selectively experience love without also experiencing the full emotional spectrum.

Heartbreak and hurt is really felt. Sadness and grief consumes. To blossom we have to forgive those who have hurt us, and forgive ourselves for hurting others. We have to relinquish control, to encounter trauma, embrace uncertainty and face our fears head on. Yet when love pierces through, its radiance is transformative. Its healing power and unlimited scope is understood.