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How To Attract Happiness And Drive Negative Waves Out Of Your Life

Everyone can be happy in all areas of life

By Daniel GermainPublished 4 years ago 4 min read

Happiness is defined as a stable and long-lasting state of perfect satisfaction. To be happy, it takes more than a fleeting feeling of contentment. Extreme happiness is not the same as happiness. It's the same with ephemeral pleasure. Happiness lasts a lifetime.

Recognize that happiness is available to everybody who desires it. Don't put it off; don't persuade yourself that you'll be happy only if this or that happens, or if you have a certain amount of money. You have every opportunity in front of you to draw pleasure into your life while also chasing away all bad vibes. To be happy, you must open yourself up to all positive waves and accept whatever life throws at you: love, forgiveness, compassion... Here are techniques to attract ultimate pleasure to yourself!

DO NOT BE CONFUSED BY THE NEGATIVE

Let me explain: It is natural to experience poor morale from time to time, and it is equally common for our loved ones to experience difficulties. This, however, is not an excuse to savor it. I'm not encouraging you to give a damn about any of their problems; I'm just saying you can't afford to carry the weight of this person's negative energy. Instead, use this time to refocus on compassion, providing love, and being positive.

MAKE SURE YOU LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES

Making mistakes is human, no matter how serious or impact they have had in your life. They are not to be neglected. Learn from them so you don't have to do them again, but above all because behind each of them is a lesson that will make you grow, mature and make you even happier.

BE IN HARMONY WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD

Nature is your best friend. It is the link between you and the Universe, you and the outside world. Nature is greater than us, what was created to make you feel at peace, so don't deny yourself these moments of connection.

DO WELLNESS EXERCISES

Your body needs relaxation, movement and strengthening. We must find exercises, movements, gestures that allow us to find a certain connection with our body, like Yoga for example. It is very important to know yourself and to know your body, the two are one.

LOVE AND BE SINCERE WITH THOSE YOU LOVE

Love is the key that unlocks a plethora of options and doors. Also, don't be hypocritical or overly reserved; speak what you believe and feel honestly. People aren't in you; therefore, they can't always guess how you're feeling. It's critical to emphasize this because it's what will cause you to grow and expand in your relationships.

Because it is a shield for many of us, you will undoubtedly feel vulnerable and possibly weak. But keep in mind that it not only shields you from disappointment, but it also prevents you from all the joy you are entitled to.

SET THE LIMITS

When you need to be alone or don't want to do something, learn to say no. Set "positive" limitations for yourself, in the sense that if you don't, you'll end up doing things you don't want to do, and you'll have no control over it. If you surround yourself with the appropriate people, they will realize that you are not working against them, but rather for your own good.

EXERCISE YOUR SPIRITUAL ABILITY.

"You don't have to say anything. There are just two things that can bring you happiness: believing and loving. "

Once a day, engage in spiritual activity such as meditation, writing, or simply taking a 10-minute break to refocus; be kind and compassionate to yourself as you perform this exercise.

EXCEED THE TRIALS OF THE PAST

The past, like mistakes, should serve as a guide, not a roadblock. Don't be afraid to forgive, and don't be afraid to go forward. It doesn't mean you agree with what happened; rather, it implies you've made the decision to move on.

APPRECIATE THE MOMENT

"Where should you look for happiness? Right now, of course."

Live in the moment and don't worry about what's happened or what's coming up: live day by day and savor each moment as if it were the last. The present is crucial; it exists right now and cannot be replaced.

IN EVERY SITUATION, SEE THE BEST IN IT

Look for the bright side! In everything you accomplish or experience, there is the excellent. Of course, it's difficult, and it's always simpler to give up than to fight; but keep in mind that the ordeal is nothing in the end, regardless of what you do or achieve.

LISTEN TO WHAT YOUR BODY IS TELLING YOU

"I chose happiness because it is beneficial for your health," Voltaire.

It's astonishing how much good it can do for you if you choose to respect and obey your body. Stopping for an hour or two after a long day and doing yourself a favor by taking care of yourself can make it simpler to discover contentment.

You now have all the tools you need to be happy and prioritize your happiness. It's now up to you to transform into the best version of yourself.

Nothing is really free in life, and sometime we need perseverance, efforts and actions to make our dreams come true.

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About the Creator

Daniel Germain

I have been the co-owner of a residential center for people with loss of autonomy for over 20 years. I am interested in all areas of health, but especially nutrition and mind power. You can visit my website at http://healthymagiclife.com

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