HOW TO WIN THE BREAK UP

Did you ever heard the Maisie Peter’s Song, “Lost the breakup?” well if you didn’t what are you waiting for! But in this article, we are not going to talk about that certain song, we’ll going to talk about how to win a breakup. It is evident that after breaking up we think that we hit rock bottom, you may feel like crap, you don’t feel confident, and you feel ugly because of crying. It may hard for us to move forward, and it is more painful to see your partner moving on fast compared to you, seeing other persons, posting on social media, it is frustrating right. But the thing is you can also move forward and continue life, winning the breakup isn’t about plotting petty revenge on your ex-partner, it is all about learning to move on glowing in and out, and showing them that they made a mistake the moment they let you go.

And Here are what we’re going to do:

1. Do not plot any petty revenge.

They might have hurt you, but do not plan any petty act such as posting them on social media, or saying bad things about them, it is not just classy. Also do not confirm anything from irrelevant people, just keep them wondering.

2. Do not drink because of him.

You might think that alcohol is the solution, well I’m telling you, it is not. If you get drunk because you’re still hurt, then it will be more likely that you might drunk call or text them, letting them know that you still not over them, do not do this especially if they already seeing someone new, keep it classy girl!

3. Do not reply to his flirty message.

I know how tempting it is but just don’t, if you really want to move forward and begin again stop reading his message, ignore him completely.

4. Be casual around him.

If you are in the same friend group and you know that you’ll often see each other, do not be awkward, act as if you moved on, talk to him as if he was just nothing, fake it till you make it.

5. Focus on yourself.

Build a good relation for yourself, it is the time to spend time alone, read books and learn a new makeup. Evaluate yourself, think about what goes wrong, with this you can learn something valuable.

6. Focus on your health.

Now that you aren’t thinking of anyone else, focus on your health, if you take care of your health, you can see the changes physically and mentally. Do workout, it doesn’t have to be HIIT workout just move your body, learn a new healthy recipe, nurture your mental health by reading books and sleeping early.

7. Invest in the things you love.

Now that you no longer need to save money to buy him gifts, you can use it for a new set of skincare, clothes, shoes, and jewelry. Invest in good quality and use them regularly.

8. Do the things that you can’t do when you are with him.

Go to the coffee shop he hates, wear the dress and heels that he deprived of, go get your nails done, your hair done without him saying that is just a waste of money, be carefree and enjoy your freedom.

9. Romanticize being alone.

Being alone doesn’t equate to being sad. You can go to a café and read the book you love, enjoy the surroundings, you will be surprised how much peace and tranquility it may give you.

10. Do post on social media if you like to.

Other may say, that if you keep on posting on social media, you may not be happy inside, but in my own experience that is completely false, there is nothing wrong in sharing your progress and little achievements online, it is up to your followers how will they perceived that. Be unapologetic in doing things you love.

11. Learn new things.

Explore hobbies and ideas, it may distract you from thinking about him and it can also help you to widen your skills.

Healing takes time and breaking up is painful but use this period of your life to learn to love yourself more, to give yourself the kind of love it deserves. You must rely on yourself on finding your won happiness and if you did that you’ll glow in and out and with that you can say that “I won the breakup.”