Immediate Resignation from the Role of Self Saboteur
I'm Not Her Anymore

To Whom It May Concern,
Effective immediately, I resign from the role of Chief of Self Sabotage, the version of myself who listens to my inner critic. Moreover, I resign from the Council of Pretending, also known as the role of pretending that my past self holds any power over the future and who I am becoming.
I am also part of many councils, groups, societies, and clubs as part of this role, and I resign from all of them. This includes:
- Club of Rumination, which encouraged me to stress about the past and disrupt my sleep with its feelings of constant anxiety.
- Society of Wanting, which helped me live in constant agony that the future I wanted for myself was painfully out of reach.
- Group of Shame, where we’d meet once a month to list all the things that happened to us that has brought us shame.
- Council of No Future, where we’d celebrate our lack of direction, drive, ambition, and fear that the future isn't what we want.
These are just a few of the groups I will be quitting as part of my resignation from the role of Self Saboteur, and I feel excited to report that none of this will be missed. I’m not that girl anymore.
Allowing my inner critic to dictate my life is something I no longer do. Instead, I step into a new future of self-compassion, personal clarity, and conscious choice, where I’m grateful for all the good things that come my way, and I magnetize the future of my dreams.
My new position as the Chief Visionary of My Becoming is an exciting one, and I can’t wait to get started. This is a role rooted in faith, happiness, and authenticity. This role aligns with the version of myself who not only thrives in the present, but steps into a beautiful future.
In this new role, I no longer listen to my negative inner critic, whose voice has ruled my previous role. As Chief Visionary, I dedicate my life to silencing my negative inner voices, and rather than dim my inner light to fit the mold people have created for me, I step into the life that I craft for myself.
Gone are the moments where I feel beaten down and berated, where I can’t stand the image reflected back to me when I look in the mirror. Gone are the wasted minutes spent deciphering hidden meanings in the things people say to me, second guessing my always accurate but often ignored intuition, or apologizing for my choices, wants, and desires.
None of that matters anymore, not while I’m attracting a beautiful, visionary life that allows me to thrive.
One thing I’ve learned is that I was always meant to thrive and let my light shine forward. As soon as I realized that I let my inner critic rule my life and that I let my past dictate how I felt about my present and future, I knew that I had to make a change.
And so I did.
I created the role of Chief Visionary of My Becoming the moment I realized things needed to change. I no longer let these old stories rule who I will be. I no longer let it prevent me from manifesting and magnetizing the beautiful things that life has waiting for me.
I no longer prevent my breakthroughs from occurring. I feel excited by what’s ahead and for the changes that I will make to create the future I always wanted. To step into this future, I know I needed to take on a new role. I can't accomplish any of this as the Chief of Self Sabotage.
Even though I am not that girl anymore, I am forever grateful to her for allowing me to eventually see how unhappy I was. The lessons I learned in this role have been invaluable, and they ultimately helped me step into this new role as the Chief Visionary of My Becoming.
I see now that those old narratives, the ones I thought were the absolute truth, were just lies my inner critic wanted me to believe simply because she thought it was protecting me. The truth is, I didn’t need protecting, I needed to shine.
As part of my new role, I promise to speak to myself in the most positive ways possible. I vow to give myself grace and compassion rather than criticism. I celebrate myself always because I know that even in the imperfect moments, I am a beautiful woman who always has the potential of learning from these errors. There’s nothing to fear and there’s no reason to be unhappy. Life is what I make of it.
As Chief Visionary of My Becoming, I vow to step into a future that allows my radiant light to shine so that I can uplift people to do the same for themselves.
Sincerely,
Katherine Tsoukalas, Former Chief of Self Sabotage
P.S. Please forward all correspondences to my new office, which is located inside my heart, where my inner wisdom, intuition, and happiness resided all along.




Comments (2)
So beautifully written ♦️♦️♦️
Self -sabotage is one the worst enemies. I love how you named your new position. I wish you all the best with it! ❤️