You are unique, no one can replace you

An incomprehensible fact is that some people hate the rich while laughing at the poor.

There are many things about human nature that cannot be explained theoretically. This is the paradox of human nature and the complexity of human nature. Paradox is unreasonable, and complexity is unreasonable on top of unreasonable.

The complexity of human nature is sometimes not profound, but elusive. Of course, the core of being jealous of the rich and looking down on the poor is money. In this sense, it is the enchanting and confusing money that makes people so crazy and confusing.

Vanity may be the only explanation. The vain person worships the rich too much, and lacks the necessary sympathy for the poor. Therefore, they hate their existence and laugh at their non-existence. A vain person, no matter what stage of the material world they reach, will be a poor man in the world of personality.

In this world, it is difficult to find a pure good person or a pure bad person. It can only be said that, on the color palette of human nature, what is the main color, who is the person. It is perfectly normal to see a little bit of human ugliness in a good person, or a bit of human beauty in a bad person. Additional richness and clutter are allowed on this board.

It is a single color that makes people feel awkward and weird, especially the self-proclaimed single and conceited clean. In history, how much pure white has covered the unwilling to show the black, until time tore apart all the mottled land, we can see the initial cloud and rain from the deception and deception.

There is a kind of high point in life, once you go up, it's not easy to come down. No matter whether you are suffering or happy, in short, you have to stand there.

If there is any victory at all, holding on means everything. Rilke's words are most appropriate here. Because there is a kind of peak pain, you can only know it coldly and warmly. You can't say it, it's inconvenient to say it, others don't understand it, and you may even be laughed at.

It's a willing self-hijacking. Willingly, it means that there is the scenery and decency that you want. Self-hijacking means that you have forced yourself into a dead end. At the beginning, the scenery is the risk, and the decency is actually for the face.

It was only when I reached a high position that I realized that people are not free anymore, but even less free. No longer simply live for yourself, but more often for others. If it is said that it is an indescribable coldness in a high place, however, going back to the past, deserted and lonely will be another bleak wind and rain with no end.

The liveliness of the world has spoiled itself. A flashy heart, from now on, it is difficult to go to the cold.

In other words, you can't do it if you don't want to play. Just in the admiration of others, grit your teeth and endure it. No matter if you are around you, whether you are shouting in front of you or being prosperous and luxurious, this road is destined to go to the dark alone.

How high is the height, how deep is the loneliness.

At the level of communication, self-categorization seems to be an instinct of ours.

For example, it is natural to classify yourself as poor, as powerless. And such a categorization inertia can easily make oneself humble or even cowardly. Because, consciously being humble, will make a person accustomed to seeing other people's faces, accustomed to obeying others' orders, accustomed to lowering his eyebrows, and accustomed to obedience. Day after day, the confidence and strength of life gradually loses its strength.

That is to say, before others can nibble on the whale and fall, it will start from the self bit by bit.

It is true that the rich and powerful have more resources and control more initiative. All submission and flattery are because we have lost our equal right to speak. However, it is not the fair tilt that gives the headache, it is the soul falling.

Because, we learned to say helpless. What is even more frightening is that everyone secretly recognizes this helplessness in their hearts, and normalizes and rationalizes it. As a result, the skewed fairness will continue to skew. Life runs on you to be weak, and you make yourself weak.

That is to say, you are always weak, and you can only look at the fairness that is never within your reach. Some griefs are man-made griefs; some tragedies are self-created tragedies.