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Why Most Relationships Fail?

An honest advice for everlasting relationship

By Muhammad SaadPublished 2 years ago 2 min read
Why Most Relationships Fail?
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In the early stages of a relationship even a glance from the partner feels like a breeze from heaven: cool, calming and arousing.

But as the time passes the chemistry between the couple deepens to such an extent that the love slowly and gradually transforms into understanding. Before in the start where happiness was linked to the love shown but after understanding becomes the pillar of smiles.

Boredom is a most common sentiment used when a couple spend a long time together and then they say that they are bored of each other but unfortunately they don't know that there a stage comes when relationship is not only about saying some words like “I love you” to each other but it's about proving it.

We know that we are happy when things are new but as the time passes due to habituation we don't feel that much excitement with that particular thing. So at that time instead of thinking and running after something new isn't it better to spend time with that old thing that you have earned with love? Or thinking about all the emotions aroused when you finally achieved it after all the wait. In the same manner love is aroused and increased when we struggle for it. It's not as easy as it may seem

If a man/woman keeps on changing partner's like clothes then there is no difference between a dog and him/her.

If both the members in a relationship truly wants to lead a happy life together then developing a better understanding with each other and eliminating dumb psychology like considering each other boring is something to avoid

Most women dislike it when men prohibit them for certain things they like the most. It's important to note that not all men have male ego. Most of the times when men go outside meet with their friends and stuff so they know what are the things or qualities in the women that the men are attracted to. Just because of that he inhibits her from doing those things but she only thinks bad about him.

If a couple truly develops a better connection between them by supporting each other in all the circumstances than both the members will never feel an urge to break the relationship and search for a new partner.

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About the Creator

Muhammad Saad

I don’t know how to enclose 19 chapters of my life into short bio, but I do know that I love to write, and I hope so, you love to read.

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  • Dharrsheena Raja Segarran2 years ago

    Hey, just wanna let you know that this is more suitable to be posted in the Humans community 😊

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