Why Do We Fall In Love?!

If we do an opinion poll with 200 people, surely 198 of them will answer that love is the most beautiful feeling on the planet, the two being either frustrated or hypocritical, or ignorant of love. But why do we fall in love? Why do we put our soul in a relationship?

Why do we attach ourselves to the person next to us, with whom we share the bed, the house, or the plate of food and we no longer conceive life without his presence, and if something happens to him we feel that we are dying inside? Why do we miss him if we don't see him for a few days or if half a day passes and he didn't call us?

What exactly is love ?! A simple tingling in the stomach or can it be explained on a metaphysical or medical or mental level ?! Nothing is certainly more beautiful than pure love, which fulfills you as a human being, if it is shared with you, of course, and if not, all you have to do is fight, take what is yours and if you don't win, go for it. far away.

Why do we fall in love with our loved ones?

Love certainly brings us health in the soul, body, and mind being an even more beautiful feeling that a person can have in his whole existence, without this feeling we would not see the colors, and not so many poems would have been born, not -there would have been so many plays and there would not have been so many dramas, without love there would not have been so many harmonious songs and there would not have been so many passionate crimes. Yet why do we fall in love? What causes us to resort to this method of approaching our fellows?

Love tends to be an experience that two people share, and its metamorphosis differs depending on characters, couples, perceptions, and circumstances.

Many researchers have entered the forbidden realm of love wanting to make discoveries from a psychological point of view, discoveries that would have cataloged the feelings and would have given them some definition.

But it all comes down to the same conclusions: we fall in love with people who attract us first on a physical level, who then satisfy us on an intellectual level and are compatible with us on various levels and more than that, a man without feelings can not exist, but a man without beautiful feelings certainly does.

Love can sometimes even be an ugly feeling, it's not just a feeling dressed in harmony, rainbow, full of colorful flowers and sparrows flying in the air. How does it feel? Simply when it causes us pain, because it is not shared.

It is said that every human being has his half on earth, a theory from which the myth of Yin and Yang starts, the two halves that give harmony to the universe and create a unitary whole without which practically the earth would not be round or the rain would not it would fall from the sky.

This means more precisely that everything would be upside down and would no longer make sense precisely because what provides stability to the environment is based on feelings: ugly and beautiful.

Who do we fall in love with?

Surely everyone is aware that we cannot fall in love with who we want, we do not choose but the heart or… hormones, just as we cannot choose in which family to be born; what we can choose in life are only friends, habits to learn, work, school and many other things related to decisions thought and chewed long before.

We love people who attract us physically in the first phase, and the moment they stimulate us intellectually, love becomes more acute, more indispensable, and much needed. Man needs feelings to exist. People fall in love with people they consider as close as they like tastes, who would fit in perfectly with their lifestyle and who in turn offer the same feelings.

Our body responds without our knowledge to these stimuli and we easily respond to feelings that can hardly be revoked. When we feel that the person chosen by our heart can respond in one way or another to our feelings, then we are prone to a good opinion of ourselves, given that we can attract another person and when that other person rejects us, we tend to we create a bad opinion of ourselves because we were not liked, which makes us humble.

Although many have tried to answer this question "why do we fall in love" many believe that it is in vain to look for an answer. It would be much better to live the meaning of the question and not try to split it into four parts. Sometimes some questions didn't even answer…