Where the 1% Go to Find Love: Dating Secrets from a Top Matchmaking CEO

If anyone knows where exceptional people meet their match, it’s Emily Lyons — the founder and CEO of Lyons Elite, one of the world’s most exclusive matchmaking firms for successful singles.

With over a decade of experience pairing CEOs, entrepreneurs, and high-net-worth individuals, Lyons has a front-row seat to what modern love looks like at the highest levels. And while dating apps may dominate the headlines, the truth is that the world’s most discerning singles aren’t swiping — they’re strategically placing themselves in the right rooms.

“I always tell clients: if you want to meet someone impressive, go where impressive people go,” says Lyons. “Love doesn’t happen on your couch. You have to participate in life — intentionally.”

So where exactly are high-caliber singles spending their time? Lyons breaks it down by city:

New York City

A global capital of finance, art, and influence — and one of the best places in the world to meet successful singles if you know where to look.

Best spots to meet someone exceptional in NYC:

Casa Cipriani (Lower Manhattan): A private club filled with power players, creatives, and international executives.

The Nines (NoHo): Upscale piano bar with old-school elegance — ideal for organic conversation over cocktails.

Little Branch (West Village): A low-lit speakeasy frequented by the artsy, intelligent, and quietly wealthy.

Soho House New York: If you can get in, this is where creative elites and ambitious entrepreneurs mingle.

Equinox Hudson Yards: Yes, even the gym — but this one feels more like a networking lounge with dumbbells.

Toronto

The financial and cultural heartbeat of Canada — and one of the most underrated cities for meeting incredible people.

Best spots to meet someone exceptional in Toronto:

1 Hotel Toronto (King West): The lobby bar and rooftop lounge are buzzing with founders, influencers, and visiting executives.

Evviva (Financial District): A weekday lunch hotspot for Bay Street professionals.

Clio (Yorkville): This private arts and social club attracts a sophisticated, connected crowd.

Bar Piquette (Queen West): Low-key but high-quality. Great wine, great energy, and interesting conversations happen here.

The Good Press in Yorkville: Early mornings attract health-conscious achievers before they head to their offices.

Whole Foods Yorkville: This upscale grocery store isn’t just for organic produce — it’s a quiet hotspot for well-dressed professionals picking up dinner or a post-work smoothie. Mornings and early evenings tend to draw a polished, health-conscious crowd.

Othership (Adelaide Street): More than just a bathhouse — it’s a curated wellness experience that attracts high-performing entrepreneurs, creatives, and conscious daters. The energy is intentional, the conversations meaningful, and the vibe unmistakably elevated.

London

Fast-paced, international, and filled with refined energy. London’s dating scene blends tradition with modern edge.

Best spots to meet someone exceptional in London:

The Ned (Bank): A sprawling members’ club and hotel that draws in the city’s brightest minds and most stylish players.

Chiltern Firehouse (Marylebone): Still a hotspot for celebrities and creatives — and surprisingly approachable.

Annabel’s (Mayfair): Private and exclusive. If you’re in, you’re already playing in the right circles.

Daylesford Organic (Notting Hill): A cozy café-meets-market where well-heeled locals linger midweek.

Soho House 76 Dean Street: Artsy, elite, and always full of energy. An excellent spot for casual connection.

Final advice from the matchmaker who sees it all:

“Put yourself where quality people naturally gather — not to chase love, but to expand your world,” says Lyons. “The people you meet while living fully are often the ones who fit most naturally into your life.”