Where's the Stories About Mean Guys?

Watching mean girls has been a fan favorite for many years. Watching this can make you wonder: is there just no mean guys and they are only seen as chill? No, there are many stories about mean guys, but they aren't as much for a comedy movie, they are more so shown in horror and crime documentaries.

Mean guys are shown in stories as stalkers or CEOs with too much power and thought that they could never be taken down. They are shown within instances of domestic violence and coercive control. Telling others in power the narrative they need that will automatically be believed because of the circumstances. They sit too cushy at their high point until they come to realize they may be sitting in the leaning tower of Pisa. I definitely see a world built on performances, power trips, and lies as an already crumbling foundation.

If they use their money to hurt and use others, they will tell people that person was actually after their money instead of the correct way around. That person who is already being used by the mean man will then gain even more hurt for a terrible situation that is already difficult enough to deal with. They will tap into dark psychology tactics and turn your worst pains against you. They will threaten someone and when that person reacts with protection, they will do anything to use that reaction to make it seem as if they were in the right for threatening them.

They will never make you feel seen or heard because they will have a plan in place to make you seem like what you are trying to tell the world about them is not credible. They will isolate you into loneliness so that you feel as if you need to rely on them. They will try to strip you of your worth so that it will seem as if they are the ones who are too good for you instead of the other way around.

Mean women can be terrible and hurt our feelings. This is not to minimize the impact of them, especially the ones who can come to gaining a similar type of power the mean men can. Usually mean woman are in the toxic feminine of light of laughable copying, jalousies, and pettiness. A focus on looks, attention, and going after the "coolest" man.

This can sometimes make the issue where the mean girl ends up marrying the mean man. She can become his sidekick in meanness when he needs her to. This can go as far as bullying the woman that gains his attentions when he becomes a cheater even though the problem should be with the man who wants to cheat instead of attacking the woman that doesn't have a vow within or pertaining to their relationship.

The irony of mean men is that they want to be seen as masculine, but much of the time when masculinity turns this toxic, it can no longer be much masculine anymore. When their hand of leadership is sending you into crashing and sinking ships, sometimes a female will then need to take the lead and hand of initiation that the mean man is not properly representing. This makes it where they have to take a step back and become the one who ends up in the submissive role because of how their leadership was not of what someone could follow or trust. The world needs more positive masculinity from men. More speaking out against the ones who are causing harm so that the best men can rise and the mean ones can fall and slop into their pool of cruel tears.