"When You're not Together, You're not Together!"

Dating someone after the Narcissist Series:

"When You're not Together, You're not Together!"

It’s not always easy to let go of someone, I've been trying to myself.

Why are you letting them get away with it though?

Why are you letting them still talk to you when you know they’re only telling you things that get you to think they’re up to no good or chasing someone else now?

They must be! But Why let it affect us?

Because they haven’t done anything to you.

We’re only Jealous and assuming the “Worst for Us”.

It’s true we’re all guilty of doing this. We get jealous and assume too often.

What would you do if you found out the person

you’re in Love with was actually not out trying to hurt you with someone new?

The question is very real.

If you suspected they were lying to you, and they weren't,

And they did go where they said they were going... then what would you do?

Would you believe that just by not believing in them you're already accepting the false reality that they were doing something wrong.

You have to have Faith in them.

Faith that comes from within you.

If you ask someone what their plans are, they don't have to even tell you,

but if they take the time to tell you, you need to believe them.

Being in Love means that you feel this way because of the feelings that you have for someone that are very real. To be so courageous takes strength from inside of you that is from substance that's going on on the outside that is actually happening around you or has. The real life things they do happen are what’s got you feeling in love.

This person can't be a whole clown, you can not be in complete doubt

about them ever. Keep your feelings from projecting out hallucinations of a reality that doesn't exist.

If she said she was going anywhere tonight, be happy that she is

getting out and just visualize her enjoying her time and let it go.

Tonight I’m writing this content outside under the stars with my cell phone on flashlight.

I said I wanted to let some things go to the moon and get them off my chest and one of them is doubt.

I want to not doubt the person I'm in love with.

I want to accept that we’re not together and still be as strong as they are, to

say something and actually do it myself.

I want to cast off the disbelief, the extra things I believe might have happened...

I want to be thankful I don't know of them.

They don't bring me any real fears.

I remember when I felt this way a long time ago when I was much younger, just out dating, and I love it.

It's a wonderful feeling to leave out the speculation and jealousy. That's Love.

I know it's love because even when I got a little upset about it I was able to shake those feelings off.

Disillusionment is the continuous belief in something fantastical to be real.

It's lying to someone if you tell them you love them and you allow

yourself to doubt them.

LOVE IS kind and it endureth all things. We don’t even know that it is Love yet, but it feels like it might be. You need to remember you sin in what you do and it what you fail

to do, to yourself and others.

Trust the one you love as faithfully as you have trust in your Faith in God.

If it becomes doubtful to you at all, Love or the belief in someone you Love, then you're not being strong enough in your Faith.

Strengthen your mind. Focus on better things.

What did you say you were going to be doing though? Exactly!

Hurry up and go do that and don't let your Faith be waivered tonight for anyone.

You’re letting them get away with nothing, you just don’t know for 100% sure about their whole night and that's got you feeling anxious. That's normal.

If it were more and you needed to know it, they would tell you.

That's Honesty you can believe in and live by.

Now that you're learning about aligning yourself with Faith, Belief, Love, and Setting your intentions take more time to practice some discernment in areas of doubt. It might not be a bad idea.

It's not wrong to say how you feel.

It’s right and more productive to show it in your actions that you meant what you said.

You aren’t together.

Let's be honest about it. We weren't sure if we liked being left out of their plans tonight, it's real, but that's really not all too bad.

Being a little jealous is a sure sign of Love. I read that in a 14th Century book on Courting. Let that little frazzle be more of an excitement. That you heard from them or that I’m entertaining the idea of even spending the time elaborating on the idea that they should be talking to you after they said they couldn’t be with you anyway. It's not an ideal situation, but it’s real and I’ve been there myself, so we do have hiccups moving forward sometimes, all of us.

Don't forget your blessings like hearing from them. There are a lot of people who are in love with someone who doesn't even know that they exist.

If anything they're showing you they want you to know they are doing something they're proudly sharing with you… Believe in this person and keep in mind it's not your journey, it's theirs that they’re sharing with you. Let that just be comforting to you.