The Two Months Rule on Seeing Someone

Dating someone after the Narcissist Series:

The Two months Rule on Seeing Someone .

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If you've been seeing someone, going out with them on dates,

and starting to get intimate it's time to ask for a commitment .

If the commitment doesn't come with a title it's just a sparkler

to a Firecracker Situation... you're not looking for a little fizzle are you?

Okay so what do you want from them?

Is it a pyro-technic display over Disney's Magic Kingdom or are you just asking the person to stay the night after sex and maybe call you baby once and a while?

If your wondering when to ask for what you want then it does depend on that want.

Lets start with just the commitment of monogamy, and that is at it's longest no longer than 2 months of a waiting time max.

If they haven't hinted at it yet, then you should ask, even if you haven't thought to yet, you should now.

Why should you ask if you weren't planning on it?

Because you're reading this and you've asked the question is a good enough reason.

It being the right timing is a better answer and it's morally and socially acceptable to expect. If you really want to know a man knows instantly just like a woman knows if you could be his everything, but two months is plenty of time to court you and make sure before he commits.

It's when you're desiring it that you want to ask about it being more to them too. You wait any longer and it becomes a want and no longer a romantic alignment between the two of you naturally.

So before it gets to an attachment, just ask them directly if they will be yours after the two months of going out has passed by. The most anyone could say is Yes! The least they could tell you is that they are not ready for a relationship.

If they say they’re not ready, be prepared to let them go.

If someone isn't ready to be with you after eight weeks of treating you like a Princess then something is wrong.

Do you think another eight weeks is going to make it happen?

Not a chance if there isn’t something blocking your paths you can easily fix . If you don't hit the brakes and say “no more until you mean more” then you’re only going to go through struggling with them when they aren’t there yet.

The time apart means just that too.

You need to stop seeing them, not go to being "Just friends"

Yes you might want to tell your friends and family that you've stopped seeing them. You need to. They'll be there to hold you to your commitment to let them go and keep you well while you adapt to it.

If you weren't planning to walk away this is especially true that you need to have the support of people who know you and want to see you happy while also looking out for you.

Realigning should be easy if it’s only been two months max that you’ve been seeing this person.

That’s just how dating is, you need to realign now.

It may take two to four weeks to get them out of your system, but it shouldn't have to take more than 2 seconds.

It's not your choice, it's there's, all you're doing is accepting that they aren’t ready and letting go to be happy because 'You Are Ready'.

This is how we align ourselves to where we need to be.

We ask. We accept. We make it known.

Just Letting it be known is the centering part. The Universe will answer back in abundance since you're willing and accepting of other options out there for you.

You're speaking to yourself the Truth Facts.

Feeling better?

Now that your consciously accepting this into Your Truth

Your next actions will make the difference in realignment.

What's on your mind and your actions before bedtime are going to affect you the most, so keep your routine but shift it up by spending the time at a friend's house or in public during your evenings these next couple of nights.

Texting and calling them will only cause you dysphoria.

Bedtime should be peaceful.

During your sleep your subconscious will set your next day's Intentions into action as you Manifest Spiritually into your thoughts that which will be on your mind before you Manifest it Physically.

Before you know it, you'll be starting another eight weeks with someone new and you'll need to be ready to do that soon.

It's important you be accepting of the abundance of Love in the right way, openly and in all of your honesty, that's how we find the one that's ready for the kind of long term relationship that we are looking for.

Keep your heart and mind balanced always and in all ways take care of your own self first. That's the key to making someone else's choice to love and value you easier to decide, knowing your own self worth, and putting a two month rule into effect is a way of showing your time is valuable.