When life is not as it should be, try to restart

　　1

　　The other day there was a super moon, which is said to be a rare occurrence. I was busy during the day, but at night, after catching up with the drama, I lay down on my bed in my dorm room and started to brush Twitter as usual. I saw a photo posted by a friend: a super full moon, hanging in the quiet night sky. The friend was standing on the road, his back was deep, and he also attached a poem "The sky is a color without dust, the moon is alone in the sky".

　　This is a great idea.

　　I don't look up for a long time during the day, I was not interested, but looking at the moon in this circle of friends is extraordinary, one of the heart, suddenly want to go to the rooftop to see.

　　I mentioned this idea, the roommates laughed at me and finished playing with their phones. I followed good advice and finally succeeded in persuading Xiao Yun, who was in the opposite bunk, to go to the rooftop with me. So, at eleven o'clock at night, we both wore pajamas and slippers and ran upstairs with great enthusiasm.

　　Of course, the hope was dashed. The rooftop was empty, the super moon? Long gone! The night sky was a grayish orange color.

　　"Beware ......" words did not finish, Xiao Yun a foot in a puddle of water, a cry of misery. I did not tense, unkindly laugh out loud.

　　The moon did not look into, ate a face wind. Once again lying in bed, but the heart is very happy, as if lost a long time the vitality has returned.

　　2

　　I told amy that for a long time, I seemed to be living life to death. Yes, it seems to be in a kind of dead cycle, every day in the life of repetition, no novelty, and no life. In the morning, all I could think about was what to eat for lunch and what to eat for dinner.

　　In the morning, all I can think about is what to eat for lunch and what to eat for dinner, and in class, the teacher is speaking in front of me with the dense English on the blackboard, and my head is buzzing. When I go out, I see people coming, and I just want to avoid them. I can't sleep at night without swiping my phone until twelve o'clock.

　　As I approach graduation, my dissertation and my job are coming up one after another, so I am inevitably restless. I've been busy and resisting in all kinds of things, and how can I say it, I'm not interested in the things around me, and I'm not looking forward to the good things.

　　The pace of life is fast, we do not consciously adjust their own frequency, rushing to do with the world to connect, trying to walk in front, afraid to fall behind. But in the rush to turn into a gyroscope, slowly, lost the enthusiasm for life, life became a little worse.

　　Once I saw a test in the forum, a survey on the satisfaction of the current living conditions. Click in to see, the results show that up to eighty percent of people are dissatisfied with the current state of life. Thousands of comments, complaining about much the same content, no more than work, family, relationships, the three aspects.

　　For example, Ami, early twenties, after graduation in a private enterprise work, 9 to 5, living in the company to run on both sides. She is a newcomer, on experience, compared to the company's senior staff; on the emotional intelligence, but also than the "old people" savvy. When the initial desire to show their ambitions was the reality splashed cold water, can only hold the idea of hard work can make up for the clumsy, dedicated, overtime, tired like a dog. Each month's salary in addition to food to pay the rent, but there are few left. Sigh life is really hard.

　　For example, Zhuang Zhuang, more than thirty, around the age of similar people basically have a family and a job, but they have no intention to get married, thinking that it is good to let nature take its course. However, the family is forced to go on a blind date. But the girlfriend from the blind date, and not the slightest feeling of heart, the heart can not help but feel very sorry for others and themselves.

　　There are also breakups with the other half, cheating, divorce, work is not as good, the future is uncertain, all kinds of ......

　　The first time I was pessimistic, I thought, "Why do other people's lives seem to be so happy, but I'm so miserable? Now it seems that everyone's life will not be smooth sailing, behind the surface of the scenery there are countless times when you can not hold on.

　　3

　　My good friend Chacha's life was also very bad at one time. During that time, the job was not available, and coincided with a change in the family. "The house leaks when it rains at night ah." Chacha said, when unlucky really feel a mouthful of water are stuffed teeth. She successively submitted dozens of resumes, most of them sunk in the sea, have been to the interview, the back also did not land.

　　"Urgent need of money, life is tight, the heart is anxious, and do not know how to get out of this strange circle." Such was the state of tea at the time.

　　But soon, she regained her composure. Can not find a job, the big deal is to do part-time work temporarily. Chacha is a bold girl, took two jobs at once, a day two runs. At the same time, she reflected on the reason why she could not find a job, foreign language is not good is a big reason. So, in her busy life, she squeezed out bits and pieces of time to, every second, remember the words, practice speaking. After a while, she was able to make some progress.

　　"Well, at the time, I found it particularly difficult." Chacha said, however, in their own efforts, she found the original enthusiasm for life, everything began to develop in a good direction. Although slow, but in progress.

　　Today, she joined a company with a good reputation, as expected, in their own satisfaction in the position of silent struggle, the family's situation is slowly improving.

　　You see, life is fair to everyone, and only those who take it seriously will be sweetly rewarded.

　　"Of course, occasionally there are still times when things are not as good as they should be. The face of life from time to time the dead state, each time I tell myself, why not reboot to try." This is Chacha's experience.

　　The computer has the option to reboot, life does not have a button. But when life is a mess, may as well reboot to try. Here the so-called reboot, is to adjust your life state in time.

　　4

　　First of all, you must maintain a passion for life. People who maintain enthusiasm for life in their hearts are more likely to get out of a bad situation.

　　Enthusiasm for life is nothing more than retaining a heart that perceives the beauty of the things around you.

　　When you are ten years old, you look up and see a butterfly and get excited; when you are fifteen or sixteen years old, you hear about a meteor shower and wait on the rooftop until late at night; when you are seventeen or eighteen years old, you fall in love with someone and defy the odds.

　　We need to set aside a little time to spend on something beautiful that makes your heart happy. For example, a walk along the river after dinner, the breeze curling, the water is not rising. Sunset at dusk, after the rain, everything is beautiful and thrilling. The worries of life are naturally thrown away.

　　For example, listen to songs, flowers, friends who like to write can also buy the occasional practice of the word posters.

　　Throw your enthusiasm for life into concrete things, find your own bit of fun in a busy pace, and thus always maintain an optimistic attitude towards life. Having a passion for life is the only way to have the mindset to actively deal with setbacks.

　　The second is to make a reasonable plan.

　　A life without a plan is like a headless fly, and it is likely that all the efforts you put in are in vain. Refuse to follow blindly, to develop a clear and feasible goal for themselves, we must stop self-hatred, save their own defects and deficiencies. Have a small plan for the future as early as possible, and then choose the proper way to accumulate forward.

　　Also, simplify your life.

　　The Japanese rule of heart-thumping organization is popular: when you go through all the items, keep the ones that you need and that make your heart thump, and then organize them.

　　This method can also be applied to your life. Life itself is a huge container, but with more stuff in it, it can seem cluttered. Clear out the things you don't need in your life in a timely manner, while simplifying the relationships around you, keeping the connections that matter, and removing those interactions in your daily life that make you feel uncomfortable. In this way, you will find that not only do you have more space to live in, but you also have less inner irritation.

　　A clean and tidy external environment can create a good state for you, a refreshing and peaceful mind space will give you inner satisfaction, and a simple life is more likely to achieve the desired results.

　　So, when life is a mess, we might as well reboot to try.