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When a man shows these two words in front of you, it means he really likes you

Love is an elusive thing, many people struggle on the edge of love, but always can't find the way to love.

By zhaostartsPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
When a man shows these two words in front of you, it means he really likes you
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Love is an elusive thing, many people struggle on the edge of love, but always can't find the way to love.

There will be a thousand variations on love, everyone in the state of love is not very the same, so it is difficult for us to use a unified standard to identify love, love, such as people drinking water.

But even if there are many differences, there will still be some commonalities in love, even if it is good at camouflage, once a person moved the heart, there will still be some common signs exposed.

In many people's minds, men are relatively unfeeling existence, they are good at playing emotional games, in love like a duck to water, but also easier to leave.

Most of the time they do appear to be absent-minded, and rarely do they show that they have to be. But, if you only see this side of them, you are not completely loved by a man.

Again like a man in the water, in the face of their love for the woman, will become not so skilled, become a little awkward, and careful, and will derive a "fear" of the sincere feelings, and these two words are exactly a man to a person move the key.

Be afraid to be too enthusiastic for fear of revulsion

Behind the extreme enthusiasm, there is a truth hidden: that is not enough love. The more in the middle of love to display open, all kinds of love routines are one by one to play the man, women must be careful.

There are a few women who always abandon men do not understand amorous feelings and do not understand romance, but what you want to know is the so-called romance is the result of "predecessors planted trees later generations enjoy the shade".

And sometimes the so-called romance, as long as the money can, and "true" can not be hooked.

In "XiaomIN's FAMILY", LIU Xiaojie was moved by Xu Zheng's elaborate romance but was finally suffocated by his desire to control. If a man gives you overwhelming romance at the beginning, it is probably for ulterior motives.

It is said that the most direct expression of true love in a man is "timidity". Because of love, he will worry more, not dare to attack directly, not dare to expose too obvious, for fear that his excessive enthusiasm will make you afraid, for fear that some of his efforts will provoke you.

He will not even speak in front of you, because he cares, so frequently make mistakes, will appear a little clumsy, very careful, on the one hand, want to close to you, on the other hand, will act very awkward, even if see um also do not know what to say, how to do, is very tangled.

That concern and worry are often on behalf of true love. Because of care, so afraid. Of course, fear does not mean that it is not active, still active, still close.

Fear that you will be angry, will be all over your feelings

The person who likes you will pay attention to all the details of their relationship with you will care about your feelings very much and is afraid of doing something wrong and making you angry.

People who don't care about you, you will find that he always thinks about their feelings and never cares about you. You are never in any of his plans.

He would rather give his time to colleagues, to friends, to games, as long as you ask him to accompany you, he will dislike you too clingy.

He knows his ambiguous behavior with the opposite sex, you will be jealous, will be angry, but still do not know how to control, and will blame you for being too pussy.

The person who does not like you will put all kinds of faults on you. It is clear that he has hurt you repeatedly, but you have self-doubt so that you can not feel the warmth of being loved in this relationship, only disappointed and sad again and again.

Really like your man, he will be a little afraid of you, in front of anyone is a pair of ease and ease, rarely timid, only in front of you will have "fear" this side, precisely because of excessive care, so will panic.

Do not want to see you angry, more does not want to see you sad, he will love you dearly.

The fear of not being able to afford the life you want and leaving him one day

Some men have no ability, but always abandon women material. Put their own do not seek progress, mediocrity with a "woman is too material", in an attempt to pick themselves clean.

Such a man only loves himself, not for you. He just sees you as his appendage, and wants you to obey him completely, once out of his control, will reveal their true nature.

On the one hand, with his lazy let you see hope, the unknown life is full of fear, feel at ease to put rotten, on the other hand, has not been able to bear your leave, as long as you leave, will push the fault to your body, leave a spoony name for yourself.

Say love you, but do not go to pay action, all his love just stay in words, never have any plan for your future, do not be deceived by the man's rhetoric, treat such a man, timely leave is the right way.

If a man loves you, then he has already fantasized about your future many times in his heart, and not only talk about it, but also start to plan his career, become ambitious, and want to rely on his efforts to give you a better life.

He won't think you want too much, won't think you love to spend money, will only be afraid of their ability,

Afraid that one day you'll leave. It is not that he does not believe your love for him, but because of the deep love, so often worry about gain and loss.

"Fear" is a man completely in love with someone the most real reaction. It's an instinct born of love, and it can only be triggered if you like it.

Because I care too much about your feelings, so I am careful because I am afraid that you will leave, so I worry about gains and losses.

He will fully care about your feelings, not willing to let you sad, sometimes because of too much care, and will appear a little uncomfortable, a little at a loss, but do not blame, him because he like you.

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