Someone secretly loves you as a friend, what will happen

A friend is probably the closest way to a person in this world. In the name of a friend, you can naturally stand by the other side, accompany her joy, accompany her sorrow, and accompany her through the vast years.

Friends are more reliable than lovers and more long-term existence when you hold a true heart to love the person, may not be able to get a reciprocal response, you give all to a person, maybe finally can only be a lesson, two people will go their separate ways because of a little thing.

But friends will not, we will refuse a person to throw the olive branch of love, but will not easily refuse a person's friendship, friendship will be more long-term than love, after all, the expectation will be reduced, along with more scruples.

Therefore, "friends" also become a cover for many people who want to love and dare not love. They are afraid to say that their love will be rejected, so they stand by each other in the name of friends.

Just how many people can be willing to that affection has not been exposed time? Even if repeatedly comfort themselves: when a friend is also very good, but still can not help but fantasy, if you confess to him, is there a chance to change the identity to accompany him?

And like this thing, how can be easily suppressed? Even if you try to calm it down, you can't help but give yourself away.

When someone loves you as a friend, there will always be some unconscious manifestation.

Too much care for you, as long as it is your thing can't be rational

It is easy to define whether a person is just a friend to you or has ideas about you that are more than just a friend.

After all, love and friendship are still different, friendship can be the rain, and love can only be the only.

A person is a just pure friendship to you, then you will find that he has no difference to you and other members of the opposite sex, and always meet many people in the occasion, will be together with the ruckus, will not have any exception to you and different.

Even if you have anything, it is just some indifferent greetings, there will be no anxious mood, between you get along, is completely popular performance, there will be no difference.

And love is the existence of "differentiation", like a person, she and others will have a very obvious difference, as long as it is her things are always no way rational, as long as she needs will be in, beyond her ordinary friends care, that keen care, only love will sprout.

Love will make people lose the sense of propriety, even if you are just ordinary friends on the surface, as long as it is her thing, always can't help but become anxious, and give her more than anyone else's care. If there is the opposite sex around, you care too much it is obvious that you like it.

Interfering in your social life and being extremely wary of the opposite sex around you

Really to a person after the heart, is not able to do magnanimous, treat her side of the opposite sex, will keep a hundred and twenty vigilance.

Even if she pretended to be generous on the surface, the presence of a man of the opposite sex close to her always made her uneasy, and the jealousy would be exposed from time to time.

On the one hand, I wanted to pretend that nothing had happened, but I was a little upset because I couldn't see her and other heterosexual friends.

Pretending to ask her about her schedule now and then, unconsciously or unconsciously, inquiring about their progress, and showing some very awkward behavior. For example, they may act overly enthusiastic and contact you frequently over some time just to avoid dating the two of you alone.

Or you may be constantly involved in your relationship, judging him or her, criticizing your relationship too much, and perhaps making unfair comments about your partner out of jealousy.

Or he will suddenly alienate you, even if you take the initiative to contact him, will deliberately angry ignore you, this uncomfortable behavior because love will trigger out.

His interference with you, all the other side of the heart, is because he is not just a friend, but secretly like you.

Give you a long time to accompany, has been stuck to the friendship with you

Frankly speaking, I believe that there is a pure friendship between the opposite sex, but I don't believe that there are people of the opposite sex who keep close contact with each other for ten years.

When we establish a friendship, often are holding to go a lifetime of psychology to get along with, but hope is always good, reality is often very cruel.

If you think about how many friends we've lost along the way, a lot of people who thought they were going to go on forever, split up before you know it.

Later recall, there is no contradiction and dispute between each other, so quietly between the connection.

Again good same-sex friends will have broken the possibility of connection, let alone opposite-sex friends. When two people each have a significant other, it is natural to reduce contact, even disconnection.

If an opposite-sex friendship lasts for many years, it's probably because one partner secretly likes it as a friend and is trying to keep it together.

"Heart" inside the exhibition Xiang is such, he fell in love at first sight with Gu Qingyu, after ten years as a day to accompany her side, for her to do a lot of changes, just want to become the type it likes.

The same is true of Qian Feng in "Xiaomin's Family". He has been accompanying Liu Xiaojie for more than 10 years, in the name of a friend, but just because he likes him, so no matter how long, as long as she needs, he is there.

If a person of the opposite sex gives you a long time to accompany and has no regrets accompanying you, nine out of ten is like you.

Being a friend is a good status that gives many timid people a chance to be close to the person they like.

But it also sets the tone for a relationship where you secretly love someone in the name of a friend and they just see you as a friend.

So if you love, please be bold, don't use friends as a cover to accompany, because you can't do it just treat her as a friend.

Maybe if you try it, it will make a difference.