What to Do if You Have a Relationship With a Girl Who Already Has a Boyfriend

Do you have a relationship with a girl who already has a boyfriend? First of all, how do you know she had another boyfriend? Did you hear, saw conversations, messages from which you realized this yourself, or did someone tell you?

Or did she tell you that she was going to end up with the other one soon? In the first case, you have to face it as soon as possible and make it your choice - there is no point in continuing this situation. In the second case, the situation is even more complicated!

Usually, a girl does not start a relationship if she already has a boyfriend unless she wants to end it, but she has doubts or if she is simply in the mood for something new! But you, do you want to be the third one, her "usurper" or even her "toy", the one who only gives her sensations?

What to do if you have a relationship with a girl who already has a boyfriend:

Who's winning? He told you that he was tired of her relationship, that he wanted to end it, that for her the relationship was already over - but that she still had to tell him that? Well, don't get me wrong - the relationship isn't over until we both know it! The other may naively believe that everything is fine.

Did he tell you he was just waiting for the right time to tell him it was over? That means he has doubts! You have to realize that if she has been in a relationship for a long time with another boy, but she gets bored and goes out with you, that doesn't mean she will end the other relationship. He needed something else, something new and exciting, and you were there.

But if he refuses to finish with the other one, if he still postpones that "right moment", then you might lose. It will be much more difficult for them to end a long-lasting relationship than to not go out with you! So you have to make her choose - but don't expect to be the winner! Even if she cheated on him with her, she may still have feelings (which is why it's hard for her to end up with him).

Never underestimate the power of attachment and getting used to a person - only they can make a relationship last over time, overcoming difficulties.

Self-esteem and pride. It's not nice, but you should know that just as a girl who goes out with a boyfriend is considered "easy", "bad", "subversive", untrustworthy, so are you as a boy who has a relationship with a girl who already has a boyfriend, you are anything but a guy! What about your pride - are you content to have it as long as the other person doesn't have it, to share it?

Besides, you're the one who stole another boy's girlfriend - what about male solidarity? Even if you are not the one who started things or if you did not know at first that she has another boyfriend, you also fall as the culprit, the one who stole it. Therefore, you do not have to accept this situation for a long time.

Game? But she, how does she feel, why does she accept this situation? If it's too hard for her to tell her old boyfriend that it's over, she probably won't. But there may be another explanation: do you somehow feel that she is not even bothered by the state of affairs, that she is amused? Well, girls can be weird and bad in this way: they can feel really good, attractive, fatal, sexy when they "juggle" with two boys at the same time.

Take a closer look and see if this is the truth - who are you dating? Is she attracted to you, is she attracted to you, or is she attracted to being with two at the same time? You have no idea what the girls are talking about! They can boast of their conquests - and who wins, if not the "fatal woman" who conquered two?

If you find it impossible, you are naive - many beautiful girls do this (and even the least beautiful) because it is an easy way to strengthen their self-esteem and feel valuable. If you don't understand, this is another question - who will ever understand women?!

So, look at her, talk to her, try to get to know her, and see if this is the situation, and if that is the case, run as far as you can! In addition, it may come with you like a game of revenge - if your boyfriend was unfaithful to you or if he neglected her (so you're just a tool)!

Why do you have a relationship with a girl who already has a boyfriend? Analyze your feelings for her! Do you have feelings for her and the fact that she has someone else doesn't affect them? If she leaves the other person and stays with you, will you ever be able to trust her?

Because without trust, you won't be able to have a normal couple, so you better finish it now (at least you had some fun)… If you have real feelings for her and you think you can have something together, how does she feel?

The simplest thing is to simply ask her and force her hand - to explain that you can no longer accept being the third in this "game". If she fell in love with you, she might not end up with the other person because she's afraid of his reaction (and that may be a reason - but it's not a good enough reason to continue like this for a long time).

Encourage her, assure her that you are with her, that you will stay with her, that you care about her, but that she must choose once and for all. Do it as fast as possible, because the longer you continue this "game", the more likely it is to end badly.