What Gentleman Desire

Gentlemen, they want simplicity. We crave way more than our toxic society and traumatic upbringing has conditioned us to bottle them up to “be tough”. Lets be honest here, Gentlemen are softer than what we have portray. We have feelings too, we have dreams, we want the beauties that this world has to offer. See, men are not that complex. It’s the way we have been trained as a kid with who we are, to hide our emotions, to react instead of responding. Not all men have had these experience, but I have come across many that have this upbringing. You know, society portrays a true man needs to be burly, strong, little to know emotions. Why do we have to condition men to be somebody? Why do we have to be conditioned to be a toxic character in this narrative that The All has written? You see, we want a woman, not a club goer, gossiper, liar, untrust worthy girl. We need a woman that will stand right next to us, threw heaven and hell. Because we will experience both. But the idea is to work everything out like adults, not like its back in high school.

Well, simply put we all have our own paths that we had agreed before coming into this physical realm. What makes it horrible the actions of it. When we go through all this ideology of how a man should be, act. This is why men lose their minds because we have no one to open up to, we have no shoulder for us to cry on. We have tears that need to be shed’ as well, its not just the ladies. You see, when a gentleman is at the point in his life when a beautiful woman comes along. He will date to marry, not just to date. What you will find, he is waiting for that trust to be built upon a beautiful foundation that can not be broken. When a male hits this level of thought, they just want that one partner, When that trust gets built on a shady foundation, it becomes hard for that individual to trust that person again. We week growth, when that trust is given because that male sees a future with you, he sees something in you that really draws him in to you. We love deeply, we hurt badly and yes, we cry. But, at the end of the day. We are the gentlemen that walk around, quiet, accomplishing our goals, and doing what makes up happy.

The reason being is that they have opened their heart to you just to be smashed. Why? Then we stay confused for months trying to figure out if it was us. Simply put, our trust means the same to us as it does you. Do not think anything different, we are just conditioned to process life differently. So why are treated differently? This is crazy. We need to stop having little boys running around. They need guidance but, we can only teach those that want to be taught. So. If questions come about, do not be afraid to always learn to better yourself. Yes, that is directed to any males that read this. Being the masculine energy, we have to stand up and protect the feminine yes. The thing is though we have to know how to allow both to flow evenly and or know how to truly be sympathetic, empathetic. There are traits that the male community needs to learn yes. But this is for the women that can not seem to find a good man, look at your habits. That will tell you the type of partner you feel you deserve.