What are the games in love?

1. The distortion of human nature is: the more domineering and confident you are, the more people will respect you. The more polite and kind you are, the more people will take you seriously.

2. Don’t try to please anyone with a humble face. The more you lower yourself to approach others, the more others will think you are worthless, even think that you have no personality, no self-esteem and ulterior motives.

3. Our lives do not exist to please others.

4. If you want to keep your relationship with anyone, don't take it too seriously. As long as you take it too seriously, you are bound to lose it. It's like, if you love someone too much, that person will definitely not love you. Humans are so strange to want to be valued, but to be afraid of being valued too much.

5. Don't help others just because of their poor experience, and give them things for free. Essentially - all people who like to reach out for money and things are not good people.

6. Stupid people are rampant, smart people are always polite.

7. Many women's eyes after marriage are one-third of their family's land, and all they can see are their husbands, children and endless family trivialities.

8. The most important thing in life is not to please others, but to please yourself. When you live well enough, someone will naturally appreciate you, someone will naturally want to get close to you, and you don't need to keep it deliberately, and they won't leave at all.

9. A person's liking for another is based on appreciation, not because of your humbleness. So, if you want a person to stay with you for a long time and like you all the time, then you have to make yourself the person that the other person admires, and do the following two things, live well and live independently.

10. The purpose of human life is to make oneself richer and happier, not to live according to the standards of others, not to fight to the death with whoever says it is unsatisfactory. Go your own way and leave the gossip to the little people in the market.

11. Most of the blessed people have the following characteristics: They do not compete with others, but only seek to improve themselves. Patience but not cowardice, intelligent but not arrogant.

12. Why are there people in the world who always like to pick on other people's faults? Essentially they are dissatisfied with their own lives and dissatisfied with their abilities. Don't think that those who pick on you seem to be superior to you, but in fact they are a group of people with a very bitter heart.

13. Once people put their minds and expectations on others, they will become weak. Are you concerned about what other people think of you? But the lion never cared about the opinion of the sheep.

14. Strong people live for themselves, weak people always meet the needs of others, live for others everywhere, and as a result live a life that others don't need, and suffer for a lifetime.

15. Think like a leader whenever and wherever you are. Even if you don’t have a company or a team, you are your own leader.

16. Some people are negative energy. You will find that with these people, you will go bankrupt, your income will drop, and your future will be delayed. Generally speaking, the wicked are free and the wicked grind, you just need to stay away from them.

17. The rich all have leadership thinking and the thinking of the strong, while the thinking of the poor is that they have no thinking. They always like to go with the flow and live by it. They have no goals for wealth and no plans for the future.

18. If you work hard where you are troubled, it will not benefit you or others except to increase your troubles.

19. If time is used indiscriminately, it is equivalent to selling one's most precious things cheaply, which is not only a waste, but simply self-harm.

20. Poultry are kept by the owner, and they wander around the owner all day long, regardless of whether the owner's purpose is to eat their meat or sell their meat.