Want to Make a Declaration of Love and You Don’t Know How?

How do you make an effective and impressive love statement? First of all, with sincerity! There is no need to insert donuts just to impress her because you will most certainly use clichés that could have the opposite effect! If you don't feel it, you don't feel it… But the problem may be different: you feel it, but you have no idea how to express it beautifully, appropriately, and openly!

When it comes to making a declaration of love, many men may be in trouble because it is not in their nature to say sweet and syrupy things! But remember that a simple statement that is (or at least seems) sincere will have an impressive effect on your girlfriend and will be more meaningful than an expensive gift.

As for women: don't forget that your boyfriend needs words too, not just you! If you complain that he doesn't offer you words of affection often, think the other way around: how many times do you tell him nice things, how many times do you make nice gestures, how many times do you tell him clearly how much you admire and appreciate him?

What to remember about making a declaration of love to your girlfriend (and why not, boyfriend):

"I love you". Some simple words, common, but so special when you hear them from your loved one… But a simple "I love you", even from the heart, is not always enough… Maybe you think "what else does he want from me, nothing That's enough for him! Well, she (but he too) wants you to open up, to tell her clearly how, why you love her, to make the statement more personal!

Avoid clichés. Anyway, you're probably terrified of the syrupy stuff you sometimes find written on hearts and extra teddy bears! The good part: you don't even need such syrupy clichés, in fact, you better avoid them altogether!

They don't seem sincere, they don't seem personal, they don't seem to come from the heart! No trivial things, which can be written on any greeting card, such as: "You are the one for me", "I will love you forever", "I will never find anyone else", "You are the most special girl", " The first time I saw you, I wanted to spend my life with you. "

Many of these frequent statements also sound stupid, not to mention that it is obvious that you did not bother your brain to find them!

Do not steal! When you think about how to make a declaration of love, you may be tempted to look for something on the Net, in books, in magazines, or even to buy a card already written! Try to avoid the temptation to steal, because the most important thing in a statement of love that impresses is authenticity.

Personal. Try to think of a declaration of personal love, strictly related to the two of you - about something that happened to you, about a place where you were, about a word she said, about a dear memory. It sounds hard, but it's not! Simply recall the most beautiful moments between the two of you and use one of those memories in your statement.

This will make her personal, just for her and she will know that you are honest! Think about what you two experienced in particular: where and how you met, where and how you got engaged, where and how you first kissed, made love, said "I love you"… to memory like this you create a simple statement, but which says more than a sec "I love you".

Compliment. When you think about how to make a declaration of love, here is a tip for success: integrate into your statement a small compliment: nothing too boastful, but something simple and sincere.

Think about what you appreciate and admire most about your girlfriend (your boyfriend): eyes, smile, sense of humor, intelligence, sociability because many girls have big breasts, bulging bottoms, long and beautiful legs. However, in some contexts, there is a mention of these physical qualities, as long as they are surpassed by something else, so don't forget to say something profound…

Signed up? Usually, when you think about making a declaration of love, you think of a spoken word. But it's not often the best idea: first of all, don't feel comfortable hearing yourself say such things! Second, you may not be able to find the right time and keep postponing it.

Third and most importantly, you will most likely forget everything you wanted to say and you will be working in vain to create a perfect statement! So sometimes a written statement may be a better idea. In addition, the written statement (in a greeting card or simply in a note) gives the girlfriend a fond memory and stays with her. And it's much simpler: all you have to do is give it to her and kiss her and turn her on her back!

Place and time. Choose the time and location carefully: when you are alone, first of all. Otherwise, it does not have to be a special place unless it is a special declaration: for example if you offer him a ring with the declaration of love.

How many times? The good thing about these sincere and personal statements is that they have a long-term effect: if you impress her with a few words that come from you, not from the Net, she will be happy for a long time. So you don't have to bother finding new statements frequently, but it still helps to say a nice word or a compliment from time to time!

Example. Remember, you have to do it and it's not that difficult: all you have to do is remember a special moment, think of a quality that you appreciate in your girlfriend and form a sentence, two! Just as an idea, to see that they should sound different from the usual clichés, here are two different statements:

"You have a few things that make me jump: you are too jealous, insecure about yourself, and anxious after shopping! And yet… I will always be by your side because it happens that you, with all your flaws and qualities, are perfect for me! As you are… and I see you for many, many years, even after you will not have such a great ass!

Always be funny, pretty and good - the girl I love "- a more extraordinary statement, because it starts with some flaws! Maybe you think you'll annoy her! It's not true - as you can see, the flaws are small, and they are meant to be honest. And after these defects, the effect of the statement itself will be intensified (beware of such a statement only if your girlfriend is extremely proud and a little narcissistic)!

Some time ago (integrates the date), a boy saw in a cafe (integrates exactly the place) such a beautiful girl, whom he would have been afraid to approach normally because he thought he had no chance; but, amazingly, she smiled at him and he still doesn't know why…

Even more amazing, one day (integrates exactly the day or after how many days) she kissed him! But the most amazing thing is that she endured it for so long and that she still endures it with her! I love you!" - this statement is effective because it specifies exactly the place of the meeting because it seems that you say how you felt then and that you appreciate the fact that you are together!