Twin Flame Sacred Union

My Twin Flame journey began with me longing for another piece of me. I was longing for a deep psychic and spiritual connection within a relationship. I'm not even quite sure if I knew what that would look or feel like, but my soul certainly did. I would lie awake in bed and cry at night, like a part of my soul was missing.

Little did I know I had already met my Twin Flame. I was out with some friends one night at a bar. I was drinking, dancing, and just having fun with my friends. That's when I saw these piercing bright icy blue eyes peering at me in the dark. His eyes pierced right through my soul, I could never forget what they look like. They are the most beautiful blue eyes I have ever seen.

I kept looking around the bar trying to figure out what this guy was staring at. Surely, it wasn't me! I finally walked right up to him and asked him what he was looking at. He casually answered that he was just doing his job, but that he thought I was pretty. I gave him my number by the end of the night.

If you know anything about Twin Flames, you know there is a runner and a chaser. I spent a good amount of time running, refusing to go out with him. He didn't fit the mold I had created in my mind for what my husband should look like. His job didn't fit the cookie cutter career type I thought my husband would have. He certainly didn't have dark hair and dark eyes like each and every one of my ex-boyfriends. He has blue eyes and blonde hair! He was nothing that I thought I wanted for myself and everything my soul knew I would need. Finally, I gave in and went out with him. We spent months casually seeing one another before we really came together.

I remember him asking me later on in our relationship when I knew I loved him. I answered, "Always. I've always loved you. There was no beginning and no end." I always tell him, "For Eternity. I will love you, for Eternity."

That is what our relationship feels like energetically and spiritually, like there was never any definitive beginning or end. That is what I feel like, that there is no place where I end and he begins, we are one.

Twin Flames are a soul that was once one that reached a level of ascension and split into two. We are one, no matter how polar opposite we may seem, feel, or act. This is partly what makes this type of relationship feel so severe.

In my experience, Twin Flame couples can look alike in some ways, but are complete and total opposites. They may face some kind of adversity because of these differences. That is an important piece of the journey, these obstacles must be overcome. Any box anyone confined you in (including yourself), must be broken down and re-structured.

Twin Flame relationships can be toxic, just like any other relationship. However, what makes a relationship toxic is a lack of trust, boundaries, respect, love, and mutual understanding. What separates a Twin Flame Union is that there is unconditional love for one another. You see through to one another's core, the true essence of their soul or being and who they truly are. There is nothing one or the other could do to make that unconditional love or bond go away.

What also separates a Twin Flame Union is that this relationship will push your buttons and cause your trauma to surface so that the two of you can heal together. Many times, I was met with unconditional love and a safe space by my twin. Other times, it took us some arguing and days in between to come to an agreement, but the overall outcome is healing.

A Twin Flame Sacred Union is not for the faint of heart. It takes work, day in and day out, more so than a regular relationship. We are constantly pushed to do better, be better, and experience frequent breakthroughs. Part of our essence and the reason we are here is to crush and heal generational curses and karma, snap familial cycles, uplift, activate, and teach or heal others.

Twin Flames are for Eternity, whether within a Union or separation in this life time or others. This Sacred Union defies any and all the odds stacked against it and is nothing short of a miracle.