The Strengths of a Successful Marriage

"Tips for a Successful Marriage" seems to be the key to a perfect marriage. But life offers nothing concrete, it only offers ways and means by which we can achieve happiness, based on concrete things and not on dreams.

Many times, especially the woman dreams and superimposes on reality various images taken from movies, books, magazines. To confuse dreams with reality often has the effect of disappointing and ultimately failing a marriage.

There are no perfect tips for a successful marriage, but there are some guidelines and otherwise teamwork from both partners. Usually, the first years of marriage are the happiest.

At first, the intense, sometimes passionate love between the partners seems to be enough to sustain a marriage. But gradually love transforms, matures. A marriage that is not based primarily on a very close friendship between spouses, absolute trust, respect, sincerity can not stand the test of time.

The strong point of a happy marriage must always be sincere communication between the partners. You should never feel ashamed to express your feelings, feelings, thoughts (even the most hidden ones) to your half. If you can't do that, it means you don't trust him.

But there is a paradox: the woman tells them too much and the husband doesn't tell them too much. But the reality is different. Most of the time the man says everything and the woman said nothing. How do we deduce this fact? You don't just need words to communicate. For example, just because your husband doesn't tell you he loves you every day doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

Most of the time the man communicates not through verbal language, but nonverbal and para verbal language. Instead, the woman talks a lot but does not communicate the essential things, or if she communicates them, most of the time she communicates them using a tone that is either too high, or with the tone that suggests reproach, or trying to dominate or offend.

In the above situation, who is wrong the most? Both partners. In a marriage in which happiness has long since passed, one cannot speak of a single culprit: the husband not talking or the woman saying too much. Both partners are wrong.

Not communicating effectively, refraining from sharing their thoughts, feelings, a chasm is gradually formed between the two, which deepens day by day. Gradually, instead of feelings of respect, love, there are feelings of frustration, dissatisfaction, feelings of reproach.

Thus the precipice deepens even more. The result: instead of trying to get closer by communicating, reproaches begin, and an inefficient communication, a communication of reproaches, of frustrations.

To communicate effectively means to send the message, to be received by the other person, and to have a response that translates into deeds, actions, etc.

One proverb says "Silence is golden" or another proverb says "There is a time to be silent and a time to speak." If we respect each other and love each other, we will communicate effectively and in the light of the fact that we will take care to choose the right moments to address certain topics. Or if we notice that your partner is negatively charged during the day and we would like to blame him for something, it would be advisable to refrain or wait for the right moment.

Another secret or tip for a successful marriage is to keep the passion of the flame alive. A romantic dinner prepared to surprise our husband or a pleasant surprise can rekindle the fire of passion. Remember that any fire is extinguished.

The man, although he represents the "hard sex", is a soul that always longs for attention and affection. But most of the time it is observed that a few years after the marriage the spouses take for granted the marriage. The woman is no longer flirtatious, she no longer has that veil of mystery, her husband's problems are no longer so interesting, her sex life seems monotonous and she often avoids it. The husband ignores or does not respond to the woman's wishes. Sex life becomes monotonous for both of us.

Remember, men always long for affection, both emotional and physical. If you deny him this pleasure for various reasons, gradually "happy marriage" will be a forgotten and closed subject, he will look out of court called marriage. This does not mean that there is no risk of the wife cheating. In such situations the chances are equal.

Nobody says being married is easy. But if we consider that things will go by themselves and we do not continue to invest feelings and feelings, gradually everything will be ruined, divorce will take the place of a beautiful relationship.

Common passions and hobbies can bring us closer, can strengthen our relationship. They can allow us to spend quality time together, so the relationship becomes stronger and stronger. Another tip would be to accompany him from time to time, even if we can't stand his partner's passions.

What can happen if you go fishing or shopping for a day? I know, it seems to everyone that each other's passions are a waste of time, annoying. But in such moments, remember what you thought during the courtship period. Didn't you then love any of your partner's passions, did you take advantage of them to spend time together? How do you feel? Didn't this remembrance arouse your warm, pleasant feelings? Wouldn't it be nice to relive such feelings every day?

Another tip is to try to refrain from being overly jealous, possessive, and trying to control any aspect of your partner's life. Give each other freedom, space, trust each other. If there is no trust, there is no happy marriage. You can't be happy while you're jealous.

When was the last time you secretly walked into your spouse's messaging? What about the inbox? Better a poor horse than no horse at all. Then it is better to talk to your partner and choose your words carefully.

The secret of a happy marriage is love, communication, and trust.

The secret of a happy marriage is to stay in the difficult moments and remember the beginning of the relationship, to remember what attracted you the most to your partner and how you conquered him.

Then try to get your partner back. Don't consider marriage self-evident! Behave daily as if you were at the beginning!