The overbearing is a knife

There are always some people in life, who often speak with a thorn, and words as soon as the words are spoken come with the smell of gunpowder, and such people often make people hurt.

Perhaps for these people, somehow may come with a sense of superiority, so often always condescending, used to show people with an overbearing mask.

It has always been difficult to enter the door, the face is difficult to see by the majority of netizens' criticism, in fact, to some extent is a kind of overbearing performance.

People and people get along, and most of the time through words and behavior to communicate, your words and actions, a smile in a way determine your impression in the minds of others.

It is often said that you should never overestimate your image in the minds of others. Sometimes the more you overestimate, the more you will be disappointed and may not get enough passing marks, especially when you are always used to being overbearing.

Overbearing, like a knife, knife through the heart, knife to see blood.

Before reading a story, quite alarming: in a village, there is a young man, the young man is extremely good, but he has a fatal flaw: often others speak out of turn. His parents and friends always advised him, and he always said: "What's the big deal, it's just a few words, what's the big deal?" And then still I did what I did.

So his father gave him some nails and told him to nail them to a small tree, and then asked him to find a way to pull the nails out of the tree, but no matter how hard the young man tried to pull the nails, the nails did not move at all, so his father seriously taught the child, saying, "Sometimes when a person often speaks rudely to others, it is somehow like a nail The nail is deep in the heart of others, how can not be pulled out over time, and slowly people will alienate you because your words make people's hearts bleed deeply."

From then on, the young man never spoke ill of others again, and the nail was deeply nailed in his heart, probably for life.

A good word is warm in three winters, but a bad word is cold in June.

In a difficult situation for others, a kind word can give encouragement, strength, and confidence; a malicious word can make people sad, lose their courage and strength, and chill their hearts.

As a song says: "If everyone in this world gives a little love, the whole society will become a beautiful earth".

Deep down in life, everyone often needs the echo of goodwill, and goodwill to respond to goodwill is often the most beautiful interaction.

Sometimes people are often so small-minded that even an occasional offensive remark can turn others away from you for life.

So, not to mention maintaining an overbearing posture, in life if you often keep the momentum, posture, words everywhere pressure on others, over time, will naturally cause others to resist and resent and even alienate and people can be afraid of the word, one to ten, ten to hundred, so your reputation may be in such a whisper of private discussion in the "coffin The "final word".

The performance of being arrogant is the performance of arrogance, invisible damage is their virtue, in the long run in the eyes of the people is a Ling Bing Bing people, not much temperature.

When you watch other people's faults, you can use them as a reference in your own life and adjust your behavior to guide your life in the future.

Life is like a healing process, we get hurt, heal, get hurt again, and heal again. Each healing seems to be in anticipation of the next injury. Perhaps it is always necessary to be completely desperate once to live again.

When dealing with people, an overbearing posture is like a knife that sticks deeply in the heart of others, leaving wounds, traces, and even lifelong traces that are difficult to fade away, so it is naturally intimidating.

Life is not short, not long, and no one owes you, if you carry too much debt, life is often too long to repay.

The overbearing is like a knife that cuts through the heart.