The Old Girl - A Nightmare and an Awakening to Life

"Old girls throw garbage out of the house in the sun when it rises and I fill my whole face with dust. That's why they didn't get married and they won't get married, not even the ones who do the dancing!"

This is how God speaks in an old Romanian folk tale. Be it or not, the status of "old girl" remains a nightmare for all girls in the world (I mean, of course, heterosexuals).

Women everywhere are generally strong. and optimistic, but may fall into the opposite situation when they neglect their specifically feminine intuition.

Have you ever been questioned as an old girl? Has the prospect of getting this far frightened you? If so, what did you do to prevent such a problem? What decision did you make when your intuition or experience suggested that you would never find your dream prince or soul mate?

If you find yourself in the characteristics below, you are really in danger of becoming an old girl! Do not panic! In the following lines, you can find some useful tips...

It seems to you that almost every word is an allusion to you

Everyone is attacking you! Every girlfriend who just got married is not embarrassed to make fun of you. Most men don't leave you alone, and potential partners just seem to be playing with you. You can't stand all this anymore!

Advice

I can't tell you that all this is happening only in your mind. Some of them reflect your doubts, others may be real. The daily stress does not only accumulate on the heads of the girls alone. If you are crushed by doubts, let them be scattered in the four winds.

How can you distinguish real things from imaginary ones? It doesn't matter. Give up everything at once and later you will be able to see which of them continues to persist. I know it may seem difficult, but it is much harder to defeat a complex developed from these fears and appearances.

You fearlessly watch the changes your body goes through

I give you good news! In time, you can prevent some of these things. All women, of all ages, should be aware of their physical condition, bone and breast health, menstrual cycle, wrinkles, and signs of old age. At the age of 40, you will look like a 25-year-old girl. Take care of yourself daily through exercise, healthy diets, and skin and hair care.

On the other hand, do not try to avoid what is happening to you. Do not give up looking in the mirror. You are not guilty of anything. Age is not a crime at all!

Problems with numbers?

Have you ever been told that you are 25 years old, even though you are already 32? If you did it unintentionally, then you need to refresh your being.

Advice

Hiding the true age is tantamount to lying. Lies signal that you have lost confidence in yourself. Eventually, you can become a hesitant person, intimidated by any simple question and ashamed of yourself. Did you care about the real age a few years ago? Keep your spirit young and don't give in to negative thinking. As I said, age is not a crime! Remember this!

You feel old even though you look young

I told you how good it is to keep fit! Tell me about your whims, your thoughts, your deep feelings. Some girls feel old even though they look great. Well, that's not good at all!

Advice

Life is too short to waste.

Don't throw yourself into endless reflections on your future, missing out on living every day. Let me tell you a little story a guy told me about his career. the fact that his efforts were not taken into account, he decided, at some point, to give up all his dreams related to the profession.

Said and done, but his body did not accept the decision of the mind, so one day he awakes that he has diabetes. The climax, shortly after that was taken by surprise by a spectacular promotion. Insulin has remained, however, until today in its daily menu.

How can you enjoy meeting your future life partner when you are sick (spiritually) and have a broken heart.

You wear excessive makeup and you become addicted to shopping

I know how something like this happens. I know some girls who have taken this slope. Either you try to prolong your loneliness by endless walks in the shops, or you try to prove to yourself, but also to others, that you are still beautiful and young.

Advice

Why a thick layer of makeup? When you exaggerate with something, it automatically means that you want that something with all your heart. The message sent by excessive makeup can be is that you are old and trying to hide this.

And what can mean the tendency to go shopping in excess? It means that you have resigned yourself to finding your happiness and you are looking to replace this aspiration with something else. You can fight against sadness in a positive way too!

A sudden transformation

Case 1 . Suddenly, you become a very sociable person. You've never had a love affair as it happened to you recently. You're nice to men, but you don't really care about any of them. For now.

Advice

Good news! Change has always seemed like a good thing to me. Keep it up. It seems like experience has taught you something, but don't give up on your pride. You can always find a middle ground or a compromise.

Case 2. Unexpectedly, you become a person isolated from society. You stay alone in your room for a long time, avoid meetings with acquaintances or friends, focus on prayers and/or books. than to fight back. You have given up your professional ambitions and all your dreams.

Advice

I said I like the change, but in your case, it's a withdrawal from life. You have to go back to your place in the world. You don't hurt anyone and you feel best when you believe in God and dedicate yourself to Him. Happiness is a decision that you need to make as soon as possible.

In fact, you can train yourself to be happy. All you have to do is avoid bad thoughts and people. Yes, people, Heavens are always by prey, but you can defeat them by your perseverance, by your work, thanks to your friends and family. You have one life, one life in front of you. Good luck!

You are ruled by envy

You don't just envy married or engaged girls. You don't look favorably on anyone who enjoys success. You envy your self-motivated colleagues to a greater extent. You envy your lucky sister. You tend to minimize any success. or positive thing.

Advice

Bad news! You can't stay in this state indefinitely. Envy is for you a tool to release anger and support your being. All you have to do is choose the wrong tool.

Focus on your inner self and try to transform yourself. increase your self-confidence. That's exactly what you need. Practice this way and share your successes and happiness with the people around you.

Everything will go smoothly, believe me!