The Man - The Greatest Psychological Mystery for Women!

Although the woman is said to be the most complicated being, the man does not let himself be outdone in a relationship either. Here are 4 reasons why we women have a hard time understanding a man.

Why do we find it difficult to understand a man?

Because a man is easily influenced by his entourage.

Unlike a woman, a man always needs his entourage to think and act. To make an analogy with the animal world, men walk in "packs" and that's why they need the approval of other members of the group when they make a change in their lives.

The man is easily influenced in the company of friends and, often, the ideas he expresses are not his own, but those of the "pack". Although it is essentially not wrong to consult with someone else when you want certain things, a man tends to give up his ideas in favor of those of a friend. That is why a woman can hardly understand the (even drastic) changes in her thinking.

Because a man avoids confrontations at any cost.

A woman will never know if a man has a problem because he will do everything in his power to avoid a confrontation with her. He will continue to say that everything is fine and will avoid open discussions.

A man does not like to admit what is on his mind, and the woman next to him will always have to figure out for himself if there is a problem because he will never take the initiative in this regard.

Because a man is led by the ego.

The ego is the one that dictates the personality or way of thinking of a man most of the time in life. That is why, when making certain choices, a woman cannot understand exactly whether the one next to her is doing what she wants or is being led by the ego.

Because a man lies pretty well.

Although it may seem hard to believe, a man is better at lying than a woman. Although the lies of a female representative are elaborate and full of sentimentality, a man will cover his inconsistencies very well, leaving no trace. Likewise, he will be able to hide any emotional expression that may give him away, behaving like a real actor.

Because a man is very concerned about his image.

For a man, his image is extremely important. If a woman destroys her image, then she destroys her identity. A man's partner needs to understand who his true self is and what image he exposes in society. If he succeeds in this, he will hold the key to a happy and fulfilled relationship.

Indeed, a man is not very easy to decipher, but, let's face it, he has much less mystery in him than a woman. With patience, love, and a little effort we can fully understand our partner, even when he does not want to be understood!

SO ARE MEN SIMPLE OR COMPLICATED?

When a man feels threatened in some way when he feels threatened by his leadership position or the role of a helmsman in a relationship, what does he do?

What is written in his DNA from the time he was hunting: to defend himself, ATTACK! It's just that this time he's not attacking the dangers lurking, but his girlfriend! He becomes critical, extremely critical, a harsh judge focused only on her flaws…

There is rarely a trace of transfiguration, of reporting to the woman he is in a relationship with as the ideal girlfriend of his heart (exactly the one with whom he started the relationship! ), a trace of compassion, love, divine complicity.

The man starts the power war. It's just that the woman is not built to fight! It is built to take care of the helpless, of those who recognize their weaknesses, their disadvantages and want to alchemize them in their qualities. The woman is built to feed (with love!), To soothe, to support with her enveloping strength!

One wants war and another wants peace! The problem is that many do not even realize that they have started the war!