The fastest way to abolish a person is to let him idle

Some people say that if you want to see if a person is good, then look at what he does when he is idle.

Some people in this world are busy, using the gap between the car and the queue, reading, thinking, writing, and some people spend their days doing nothing, wasting time.

Idleness is not a person's blessing. On the contrary, the fastest way to ruin a person is to let him idle.

As Romain Rolland said, "The heaviest burden in life does not work, but boredom."

1. idle and idle, a person is ruined.

Tsai Kang-Yong once said, "When you are not motivated, you are killing people, and you are not careful and kill yourself."

After graduating from college, my friend entered a large company with a high degree and thought that from then on a lifetime of stability, after the completion of this job will leisurely catch up with the drama.

There are colleagues around after work busy examinations, further training, she scoffed, that other people's education is not as good as their own, and then how hard it does not help.

Although she goes to work on time every day and does similar work with her colleagues, only when the tide goes out can she know who is swimming naked?

However, after five years, after the industry environment, the company faced reform, and the need to lay off staff, she was listed in a highly educated background.

Only then did she realize that facing the young people who were starting, her physical and mental strength had been unable to fight, and the experience and experience accumulated over the years had not been transformed into core competencies.

She was forced to return to the job market after eight years of graduation, but at that time she had made no progress compared to her graduation, and she repeatedly ran into walls in interviews.

Li Shanglong once said.

"The real stability is the lightness after experiencing the world, you have not seen the world, you want to retreat to the mountains, in the end, will only be the frog at the bottom of the well."

Life is like sailing against the current, if you do not advance, you will fall back.

In a world of superiority and inferiority, you must constantly improve your value.

The temperature in the nest is far less warm than the future harvest; in the story in the book, there is always a life you have learned, greedy for comfort, which will only make life rust.

Some people often lament that the mid-life crisis comes unexpectedly, but, before it comes, you have countless opportunities to let it bypass you, but perhaps it is because you choose to be comfortable, to allow it to take advantage of you.

2. people live to the extreme, and are not willing to idle.

Shen Congwen once said: my life is most afraid of leisure, leisure will be the meaning of life all lost.

His student Wang Zengqi once described Shen Congwen in an article.

In winter, he couldn't build a fire in his house, so he used a quilt to surround himself, but he kept on writing.

In his later years, he did not want to be idle and finished his study of ancient Chinese costumes by referring to a large number of materials.

When others were enjoying themselves, he was writing, and when some people questioned and criticized him, he was still writing.

Let busy become the norm of life, is the way to realize the value of life.

There are many good things in life, but it is only the result of long-term persistence, and those great people, without exception, live self-disciplined life.

"Idleness" is never what people call a fault or bad thing, but a commendation from God.

Climbing up 10 flights of stairs without taking a breath is difficult for a young man, but the 91-year-old Li Shaolu did it.

The secret to his health is: not to let himself idle.

Wake up at seven o'clock every morning, exercise for an hour, eat breakfast at eight o'clock, go out for a walk, come back at 9:30 to read the newspaper, listen to music and calligraphy in the afternoon, then continue to exercise for an hour, and help his partner to do housework.

There is a saying: idle people worry a lot, lazy people are sick a lot, busy people are happy!

This is true. When a person is idle, his mind and body will be tortured. Idleness will be prone to rumination and self-hatred, and physical laziness will keep us farther and farther away from health.

On the contrary, busy, but the world's precious medicine, busy, life will have a head start.

The Japanese writer Kazuo Ishiguro once said: After growing old When I look back on my life and see that I spent my life capturing the unique beauty of the world, I believe I will be satisfied, no one can make me believe that I wasted my time.

The story of a group of elderly people in Taiwan, with an average age of 81, who rode a motorcycle around Taiwan touched many people.

The ageless riders said, "Let's go, let's ride around Taiwan on the Ou Dou Mai (motorcycle)! "

So they set off, from south to north, from night to day, for thirteen days around the island. Two of them had cancer, four needed hearing aids, eight had heart disease, and everyone had degenerative joint problems.

One body and one mind must be on the road, and this matter has nothing to do with age. Staying quietly in the hospital is one way to live, and being brave enough to go out is also a way to live.

Busy and hard to live, although hard, if there is an afterlife, many people will still choose that rolling life, only then can realize the value of life.

3. too idle life is a disaster.

Zweig once said.

"Every gift given by fate is secretly marked with a good price."

A man in England, because of the lottery from a penniless garbage worker became a multi-millionaire.

He quit his job and spent his money on luxury homes, cars, drugs, prostitution, and gambling.

In just seven years, he lost £9.7 million and became poor again, while his wife and daughter abandoned him.

Material things can meet a person's momentary happiness, but when life is only pleasure and indulgence, it is difficult to experience the joy and sense of achievement from the heart.

As Albert Einstein said.

"I have never regarded contentment and pleasure as the purpose of life itself - an ethical foundation that I call the ideal of the pigsty."

Li Ka-Shing, the richest man in China, has been fighting in the business world all his life and has countless wealth, even so, he did not choose to retire until he was 90 years old.

Before he retired, he always got up at 5:59 a.m. after the alarm went off, no matter what time he went to bed. After that, he read the news, played golf for an hour and a half, then went to the office and started working for decades.

Li Ka-Shing's life is a testament to the saying: 10,000 years is too long, it's only a matter of time.

Idle, you may be happy for a while, but the repetition and nothingness will one day make you feel bored.

Busy may be very tiring, you need to divide the time into several parts, or even squeeze the time like a sponge, but it allows us to harvest a lot, such as wealth, happiness, and inner fullness.

Life a few decades, we always have to leave something for the world. Never take "leisure" as a gift from God, those things that make you happy will one day destroy you.

4. The "Cai Kan Tan" says: "If you are too idle in life, you will have other thoughts; if you are too busy, your true nature will not appear.

Indeed, too busy or too idle are not desirable, busy in the idle, idle in the busy, something to do, someone to love, something to look forward to, is the most successful state of life.

When you start to know how to cherish time, make good use of it, and arrange your life reasonably, you are extending the length of your life, widening the thickness of your life, and enhancing the height of your life.

The so-called not to disappoint this life is not ever to disappoint each stage of life.