humanity
For better or for worse, relationships reveal the core of the human condition.
Spending Christmas by myself
Christmas 2020 arrived faster than any of us have imagined and, with a global pandemic taking over our plans, a lot of us are left to spend Christmas alone away from family. Usually, Christmas is a time we spend with our family, friends and loved ones, but this year it might not be the same for everyone.
By Anastasia S5 years ago in Humans
New Year New You
Well I have to say that the beginning of this year has started off in not to bad of things. Like for instance, my new years kiss I had to work for it with my SO, while he played video games. My six month old son was already in bed. I know that I was suppose to be writing as much as I can but being a stay at home mom takes a lot out of me. I can say that I know the both sides of both parents and how moms do it by working and coming home to be with their child. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with that, but sometimes I believe we do deserve that break.
By Manda Marie5 years ago in Humans
A smile can make a big difference.
The past year has been such a difficult, life changing time for people all over the world. Every day we hear of how many deaths there has been from Coronavirus and restrictions getting tighter or a family business you have known for years has gone into liquidation. There is no surprise so many people are feeling anxious or depressed. I understand how it feels and I fight my inner demons everyday with the inner strength and belief I eventually found when I needed it most. Throughout this very challenging time of the pandemic, I have had time to think and reflect on my life experience, good and bad. Watching the news and seeing elderly people on their own feeling lonely and struggling to get their essential shopping, I decided to help in any way I can. There is a lady who lives opposite me called Ethel aged Ninety-Seven, registered blind and living on her own. Every week I drop off some milk, bread or whatever is needed and while keeping my distance; wearing a face mask, I have a chat with her. It is amazing how up to date she is with current affairs, has a brilliant sense of humour and not old fashioned as you might expect with a lady of Ninety-Seven. I admit I stereotyped her at first and feel ashamed of myself for doing so. When I turn up for our chat every week and drop off her shopping, you can just see her face light up. It is almost like a big weight has been visibly taken off her shoulders and she can stop worrying and relax. Ethel is always ever so grateful for what I do, calling me a 'saint' and trying to force money onto me, which I never accept, we end up jokingly arguing about it and end up laughing like drunken fools. I look forward to seeing Ethel every week and make sure she has my phone number to chat whenever she wants. I always phone to check with her if she needs anything else as she won't say because she feels like a burden and every time, I tell her 'don't be silly'. I have a friendship for life with Ethel and will always be there for her. It just proves that what you might originally think of somebody who seems tough and unapproachable is a friendly person who needs support or just some company. For me it is so rewarding to see the smile on peoples' faces and the positive change you are making by helping them. I have elderly Grandparents aged Eighty-Nine and Ninety-Two who I also get shopping for and safely visit them for a chat. My Granddad has become more confused recently with places closed and changes to his routine of walking to the Bookies every morning or his club in the evenings. My Grandmother always says that my Granddad seems more upbeat and chatty when I am there, so this makes my Grandmother happy too. They both still live together in a Bungalow, so she notices more often how confused he is getting. I make sure I see them as much as possible if it is safe to do so with how vulnerable they are. But they are also lucky that they have each other's company and family to support them. While there are lonely, elderly people struggling to get through each day with very little support or no help at all. Even a smile can go a long way to making somebody feel better or starting a conversation. I think something positive has come out of this pandemic as people are starting to notice their vulnerable neighbours or those in need and are helping each other a lot more. Therefore, once we have got through this, I think there will be a bigger community spirit to work together for a better future.
By Sam Hellier5 years ago in Humans
It is okay to think that.
It seems like there is always something. On December 31, 2020, I was writing a celebratory post on my fundraiser page. Now January 4, 2021, I am back in this pit of overwhelmingness. As soon as I felt like I could see the light at the end of the tunnel, I remembered what was still to come. How can something so necessary and vital be so challenging to reach? Why is it that when you “pay your dues,” you still end up at the bottom of whatever mountain you are trying to climb? Why is it that you even are hurt when you have endless amounts of love and support from hundreds of people because there is one person who hasn’t shown that love or support? Why is it that when society says go to college, get married, buy a house, start a family, you have to choose between the “American dream” or your overall health, both of which cost relatively the same? When does the battle end? When does the new beginning start? How many obstacles and how much heartbreak does one person have to endure before they should not have to go through anymore? Who even gets to decide something like that?
By Smada Leigh5 years ago in Humans
The World Unedited
There are many people in this world who say being humble is the best way to be. It has been my experience, with much bias, that being humble only allows you to accept what is already going to happen and acknowledge that it is a precursor to living. When you are young you want the world at your fingertips and patience is not a practice that comes naturally. The world is seen through so many eyes and the visions we see are different from one person to the next. The world is in chaos at this time and it is not going to get better. Do we shut out the cries from the wild, lie to ourselves that our children, our future, are going to be all right, and do we elongate the anguish by continuing down the path we are going? The load we, as humans, bear is larger than we can imagine, and we need all hands to participate in accepting our fate and becoming better biological beings.
By Chelsea Patrick5 years ago in Humans
FOR THE WORLD
For the World, the good deed would have been to give the 2,000 dollar stimulus checks to the awaiting American people. The 600.00 dollar check would be more than some Americans have in their pocket now, and I guess anything beats a blank. There are so many people out of work due to this pandemic. American people are hurting, unable to pay their bills, unable to feed their families. The first stimulus check of 1,200 was a big help to a lot of people. Many were hoping that after that check, America would soon go back to normal. However, that did not come to pass. It became worst, and the number of positive cases grew, and the death toll. Many people received their jobs back when America reopened; however, many did not because many places could not go back to full capacity. So that stimulus of at least the same 1,200 was much needed.
By Kandance Ferrari5 years ago in Humans
