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The Politics of Ghosting
The Politics of Ghosting On care, dignity, and modern dating We can, for any number of reasons, feel justified in withholding care from others, choosing instead to prioritize only ourselves. For much of my life, I've leaned in the opposite direction — neglecting my own needs while centering the needs of others. In an effort to recalibrate, to land in that radical middle space, I've sometimes swung too far the other way, treating self-care as if it were in conflict with care for others. These days, I'm working to right-size care in my life — making space for both self-respect and mutual responsibility.
By Burhan Afridi7 months ago in Humans
Common Relationship Mistakes People Often Make—Are You Making Them Too?
Introduction Healthy relationships are the backbone of happiness and well-being. When things go right, we feel supported and understood. However, even the most successful partnerships can encounter challenging times. Many common mistakes can cause misunderstandings, build resentment, or end things altogether. Knowing what to watch out for is key to making love last. This article highlights frequent relationship missteps and offers simple solutions to help you grow closer and stronger.
By vijay sam7 months ago in Humans
My Smart Fridge Is Trying to Ruin My Life
Title: My Smart Fridge Is Trying to Ruin My Life Story: It all started innocently enough. I bought a smart fridge because it was on sale and had a touchscreen. That’s it. That’s all it took to invite digital chaos into my kitchen.
By Wings of Time 7 months ago in Humans
Aries Woman and Cancer Man Compatibility Score. AI-Generated.
The relationship between an Aries woman and a Cancer man is a fascinating mix of fire and water, assertiveness and sensitivity, boldness and caution. On the surface, these two zodiac signs seem like complete opposites. Aries, ruled by Mars, is a fiery, action-oriented leader who thrives on independence, excitement, and new challenges. Cancer, ruled by the Moon, is a deeply emotional, nurturing, and protective soul who craves security and emotional bonding.
By Inspire and Fun7 months ago in Humans
The Dangers of Depression
There are definite dangers associated with depression. It can affect nearly all ages, with some groups and demographics being more susceptible than others (women are more likely to develop depression than men, for example, and teens are said to be more prone to depression than adults). Depression can even be fatal, warn medical professionals; and it's not just the disorder that poses risks. Medications can also present their own list of risky side effects.
By LaMarion Ziegler7 months ago in Humans
The Limerence or love, or being in love?
In love, illusion, or perhaps infatuation—these two or three states can truly multiply in our way of being, feeling, and experiencing what is good. It is good to experience all of this, but also to be aware and observe these nuances in our own behavior and how we deal with them, or to notice where the stimulus was strong enough to bring us back there, even for a moment. This is not dangerous, nor is there anything to fear if you are on the path to healing, and in this world full of mental illness and unhealed people, it is quite easy to get stuck or trapped in this state. What's more, the narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths who haunt us will easily lead us there, simply by functioning in the way they really planned to draw us in. The danger arises when we do not heal this within ourselves, do not notice it, or do not allow it to go away naturally, and we do not wait but rush things, rush the meeting, rushing into love, all without really getting to know the person or perhaps never reaching that point. The most important thing is to practice gestures and movements of self-awareness, because this is the easiest and most natural way to expel those behaviors that may ultimately prove positive, giving us a creative burst that will simply make them disappear from our system once and for all or for a while, and if we notice that they are mainly caused by abuse in everyday life, stress, and the need to escape, we can only survive this by slowing down our active and more than very active neurons will want to explain everything quickly, but when we look at ourselves and slow down, we will notice that something is wrong with one of our desires or the pace is too fast, or we are simply paying too much attention to this person without having a deeper connection with them, which is a warning sign to stop and think about it. As a highly sensitive or empathetic person, you may feel limerence towards this person, which is a kind of threat because you may feel it more deeply and strongly, and that's when you may notice that this person's energy carries something that your body can no longer cope with or is simply unable to bear, and it is always better to call it off before you test yourself further and decide to go for it, unless you are not a highly sensitive person, you can try, but you may well regret it later. The signs that highly sensitive people feel when they are overwhelmed by all this are headaches and tension in the body, and all of this will be sudden, intense, and abnormal, and you may notice a pattern of such behaviors or reactions of your body and mind, especially in the case of some people who may appear out of nowhere for the first time or reappear in your life, remembering you after very short conversations or contacts, which mostly did not go well and often ended in a toxic argument because gaslighting occurred. Another type of limerence is when you haven't met the person yet, but you create a fantasy without even knowing if the person is still alive. Narcissists are great at creating this kind of romantic obsession, but this obsession can be passed on to links that highly sensitive people can read, and it will certainly cause chaos in their lives. This is the moment when you are put to the greatest test, because in most scenarios, limerence does not come from living in a comfort zone, but from living every day in a war zone, without the opportunity to rest, be yourself, and find peace, so it can easily get to you, and most of them choose it for life because they will not have to face it in reality. At the same time, highly sensitive people who are very aware and very sensitive to all these emotions can easily become trapped by such an obsession with someone, especially if that person is lonely or has a more difficult life than others. For narcissists, it is often a lifelong journey because they are not willing to heal from trauma and so on, they prefer to inflict it and provoke it, so it is a losing game, but highly sensitive and empathetic people who become more aware of it find it easier to deal with over time and laugh it off with ease. People who heal themselves really discover more peace, more freedom, more relaxation, and a more real presence in the present moment in their lives, because this can happen to people who are already in a relationship, it can lead to divorce, separation in so many cases, it really does happen, because if left untreated, it will be permanent and will repeat itself over and over again, so it is often good or better to write or creatively express yourself through poetry, song, music, painting, dance, or in any other way, to finally let go and see or feel or simply regain true peace, true being, and you will notice that this experience in the end, it wasn't so bad.
By Darkos7 months ago in Humans
Do Guys Really Mind If You’re Always Late? The Real Truth About Tardy Habits
Do Guys Mind If You’re Always Late? Here’s the Truth Time can feel tricky. The clock, with its steady hands, sometimes moves like a sly cat. You get ready. You think you’re early. But suddenly, you’re late. Your hair, your shoes, your keys—all scattered.
By Milan Milic7 months ago in Humans
She cheated for money… didn’t know he was richer!
Daniel Carter wasn’t your typical billionaire. Tired of fake smiles and shallow love, he stepped away from the empire his father left him and started living a simple life as a barista in a small café in Seattle. His clothes were modest, his car old, and his apartment plain. But his mind? Sharp. His heart? Guarded.
By Lacey Morgan7 months ago in Humans
Real Love Stays Around Even When It Becomes Hard
Introduction Imagine Sarah and Tom have been married for more than ten years. They faced tough times—financial stress, health issues, and family conflicts. Yet, their love remained strong. They didn’t give up. Instead, they worked through their problems, proving that real love isn’t about perfection but sticking together during tough times.
By vijay sam7 months ago in Humans
I Found Home in a Stranger’s Smile
It was the loneliest Tuesday of my life. I had just moved to a new city—one of those decisions you make at 2 a.m. when your heart is too tired of its own story and you’re convinced that a change of scenery might rearrange your soul. I didn’t know anyone here. No friends. No family. Just an apartment that echoed with silence and a city that moved too fast to care.
By Jawad Khan7 months ago in Humans
Top 10 Dutch Dating Sites and Apps That Actually Work in 2025
Are you ready to dive into the vibrant world of Dutch dating? Whether you're an expat settling into the Netherlands or a local search for a meaningful connection, finding the right platform can make all the difference. In 2025, online dating is more dynamic than ever, with apps and sites tailored to every preference, from casual flings to lifelong partnerships. If you're wondering where to start, EliteDutchDate.site stands out as the premier choice for meeting high-quality Dutch singles. This article explores the Top 10 Dutch Dating Sites and Apps That Actually Work in 2025, offering insights to help you navigate the Dutch dating scene with confidence. Let’s uncover the platforms that can flicker your next great romance!
By Stella Johnson Love7 months ago in Humans
Aries Woman and Gemini Man Compatibility Score. AI-Generated.
When the daring Aries woman pairs up with the lively Gemini man, sparks are inevitable. This is a relationship full of passion, intellect, and endless surprises. Aries, a fire sign, craves action, adventure, and intensity. Gemini, an air sign, is curious, talkative, and always in motion mentally and socially. Together, they create a dynamic duo that can take on the world—if they learn how to balance their distinct energies.
By Inspire and Fun7 months ago in Humans