breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
"Intoxicating Desires: Tales of Lust and Love"
Her heart pounded in her chest as she watched him from across the room. His mere presence exuded a magnetic pull that she couldn't resist. Ethan Sullivan, a sophisticated and enigmatic man, had captured her attention from the moment she laid eyes on him.
By Roselien Linda A3 years ago in Humans
Understanding Behavior: Exploring the Complexities of Human Conduct
Understanding Behavior: Exploring the Complexities of Human Conduct Introduction Behavior is a fascinating and multi-dimensional aspect of human existence. It encompasses a wide range of actions, reactions, and patterns of conduct that shape our interactions with others and influence our lives. In this article, we will delve into the intricate nature of behavior, examining its underlying factors, the role of psychology, and its impact on individuals and society. By exploring the complexities of behavior, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
By Muhammad Shoaib3 years ago in Humans
What Cell Phone Does To The Shape Of Our Bones. Content Warning.
Introduction: In recent years, concerns have been raised regarding the potential impact of cellphones on our overall health, including the skeletal system. Some media reports have suggested that the use of cellphones and tablets can lead to serious and long-lasting changes in our bone structure. This topic has gained attention due to a study conducted by David Shahar and Mark Sayers, experts in biomechanics at Australia's University of the Sunshine Coast. However, it is crucial to critically examine the available information and separate fact from speculation.
By Classic World3 years ago in Humans
Betrayal
In the embrace of moonlit nights, their love flourished like a delicate flower, vibrant and pure. Sarah and David had built a fortress of trust, bound by promises of eternal devotion. Their souls danced in perfect harmony, guided by the belief that their love was unbreakable.
By JessyJones3 years ago in Humans
Exploring the Intersections of Race, Gender, and Sexuality in LGBTQ History
As society becomes more diverse, it is vital to explore the intersections of race, gender, and sexuality in LGBTQ history. The history of the LGBTQ community is complex and multifaceted, and it is important to recognize the many ways in which identities intersect and shape one another. The LGBTQ community has a rich history that is deeply intertwined with questions of race, gender, and sexuality, and exploring these intersections can provide valuable insights into the experiences of LGBTQ people across different cultures and communities.
By Durai Murugan 3 years ago in Humans
Mindful Grieving
Grief is a universal experience that touches everyone at some point in their lives. Whether it's the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or a significant life change, grief can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. But what if there was a way to navigate the grieving process with greater presence, compassion, and self-care? Enter mindful grieving, a powerful approach that can help you heal and find peace in the midst of loss.
By Agbesanwa Olamide3 years ago in Humans
The magic of not giving a FUCK. Content Warning.
Everyone, including me, has a story about de-cluttering their home. Gathering all of their possessions into the middle of the floor, deciding what brings joy, and then bidding farewell to a set of spatulas in pursuit of a calmer, happier life. But what if we could gather up all of the other stuff - tasks, events, obligations relationships - and drop it at the kerb without a single regret? And by doing so, be free to focus our time, energy, and money on the stuff that really makes us happy? Well, I figured out how to do it. It is great, and I call it, "The life-changing magic of not giving a fuck." I hope you'll excuse my language because there is more where that came from. Before I can teach you how to stop giving a fuck, we have to talk about what it means to give one in the first place. 'Giving a fuck' means you care, right? So, when I say, "I don't give a fuck about 'Game of Thrones,'" I mean, "I don't care about 'Game of Thrones.'" Now, let's take the concept a step further. Let's define your 'fucks' as your time, energy, and money. If you don't care about something, you should stop giving your fucks to it. I don't care about 'Game of Thrones' so I don't spend time watching it; I don't spend energy wondering where the next season is going; and I don't spend my money on the books, merchandise, or anything Westeros related. 'Game of Thrones' does not get any of my fucks. Make sense? By making these calculated decisions, you wind up with more time, energy, and money to spend on the things you really do care about. And I call that "making a fuck budget I'll get back to fuck budgets in a minute, but first, I want to tell you a little bit about how the life-changing magic of not giving a fuck happened to me. Two and a half years ago, I was a senior editor at a major New York publishing house. I had spent 15 years clawing my way up the corporate ladder, I had a roster of best-selling authors, and everything I always thought I wanted from my career was coming to pass. But I was really, really unhappy. The kind of unhappy that makes it hard to get out of bed in the morning; the kind of unhappy that makes it hard to commute 45 minutes on the NYC subway; and hard to spend eight - ten hours at your desk before turning around, going home, and doing it all over again. So, I quit. And making that decision was also really hard. A lot of red wine, a lot of tears. But what came after I quit was nothing short of life-changing. Once I removed myself from the culture and lifestyle of a job that had been making me so unhappy, I was free to focus my time and energy on what would make me happy - including working, but just in a different way - and eventually, on moving from Brooklyn to a tropical island. I stopped giving my fucks to working for a corporation, wearing pants, and taking those long subway commutes. And I started giving my fucks to working for myself, wearing bikinis, and taking long walks on the beach. I'm telling you, life changing. But none of that change happened because I had tidied up my apartment. It happened because I cleared out my mind. Let me try and explain. Imagine your mind is a barn, and inside it is are all of the things that bring you joy, but also, all of the stuff that annoys you. The potential for a happy life is there, but you have to clear out the annoy to make room for the joy. This is mental de-cluttering, and it is magical. I did it by accident when I quit my job, but it was so amazing that I developed a way for you to do it on purpose. I call it "the not sorry method." It has two steps. Step one: Decide what you don't give a fuck about. Step two: Don't give a fuck about those things. Simple, right? But I know what you're thinking: This sounds like a recipe for turning into an asshole. It's okay, I get that a lot. But that's where the "not sorry" part comes in. My method is all about not giving a fuck using honesty and politeness. So, in the end, you don't have to feel guilty. You are on your best behavior, and you have nothing to apologize for. You are quite literally not sorry. You're also not an asshole. So how might the not sorry method work for you? Well, let's say, you love 'Game of Thrones' and you've been invited to a Sunday night dinner party that interferes with watching your favorite show. You feel bad about turning down the invite, but you really love 'Game of Thrones,' and you don't want to record it to watch later because... spoilers. Well, you only have so much time, energy, and money to spend on Sunday night. So, you need to consult your fuck budget. Decide which activity brings more joy and allocate your fuck bucks accordingly I'm telling you, if you respond in a timely fashion, "No thanks, can't make it to that dinner party," you've done nothing wrong. You were honest, you were polite, and you don't have to be sorry about it. And that's just the tip of the fuck-berg. You can apply the "not sorry" method to anything: tasks, events, obligations, even people. You start by making a list of everything that's cluttering up your mental barn; all of the impositions on your time, energy, and money; the fucks you're being asked to give. To keep it manageable, I go by category. So, for example, work is one category, and five fucks on your list might be mandatory meetings, conference calls, your co worker’s charity half-marathon, a going away party for a co worker you don't even like, and doing your actual job. Once you've listed them all out, you perform the "not sorry" method. Step one: Decide what annoys you. Non-essential stuff you don't care about. Step two: Stop giving your fucks in the form of time, energy, and money to those things. Then cross them off your list with a big black marker. It feels good, just go with it. What I'm saying is, yes, you may have to get up and go to work every day, and you may have to attend some mandatory meetings. But you do not have to attend a going away party for a colleague you don't even like. But if you are still having trouble not giving that fuck? I recommend a visualization exercise. Picture how you're going to feel when you walk into that party: annoyed or full of joy? It's been a long day, your feet hurt, you don't love socializing with your colleagues at the office, let alone at a shitty bar You really don't love pitchers of warm Coors Light. So, what should you do? RSVP 'No' of course. Why would you spend your fuck bucks or your actual bucks on this party? I'll tell you why. You do it because you feel obligated and guilty. You are psyching yourself out of a perfectly fine response, "No," before you even try it. Most people just don't think this stuff through. They say "Yes" to things like this right away, then wind up wasting time, energy, and money on an annoying, unenjoyable night out. You waste even more time and energy just dreading the party a week beforehand. And even more, trying to come up with ways to weasel out of your commitment, then worrying you'll be seen as an asshole for
By Asmae El assri3 years ago in Humans
The power of Breakup
Numerous people over then are single can you please raise your hands okay we've a couple of single people over then how numerous are committed can you please raise your hands okay we still have a couple of people how numerous people over then have fallen in love okay all of you great how numerous of you have ever had a heartache Cabeza Cadell to tie yes so a caution before I start that I'll make sure that there will be one bifurcation in this room I can not guarantee if there's one new relationship also but one bifurcation for sure Bollywood has made us see love stories as the end destination we've always been brought up that the ideal story when a actor measures actress when the idol meets a zero in is the ideal state is the destination to be but nothing talks about what if the story ends what if the entire story ends what if there's a heartache what after that what after the happily ever after nothing talks about that thousands of times ago man was God man had measureless powers as God would have suddenly man started misusing these powers abusing these powers and the Supreme God realized that he needs to take these down so he asked his counsel where should I hide it so the first counsel said put it deep in the ground but also God said man would find that and dig it out the alternate counsel said put a deep in the ocean and God said that man will find that out as well the third counsel said put it at the top of the mountain and God said that man would climb that mountain one day so God so the Supreme God decided that this power the source of this part needs to be hidden in the heart of the man where it can not be set up yes the heart the key to this power are only two yes two one is love the other bone
By Asmae El assri3 years ago in Humans
Let it GO
Letting go can make you impregnable. I know because I let go of a relationship and reclaimed my life. And I know that letting go can produce the stylish of change for each and everyone of you. Let me tell you a story. When I was 41, the death of a relationship showed me how to truly let go of what was not working. See, over until that time, I did not really suppose about the future. I kind of lived my life like a canine- moment to moment. I chased balls; I ate whatever I could find on the ground. And life was good. I had a great job, great musketeers, a great apartment, a great factual canine, and a great swain. Well, sort of. See, Hector did not have any skin in the game, and I felt that. He danced around the veritably idea of marriage, and after 12 times, we did not indeed live together. Still, he gave me hope. Well, occasionally. More like living in a situation that had no stopgap just felt normal. Do not get me wrong. I stayed because Hector was a good looking, smart, dependable, and sensitive joe who watched, and while our relationship was not perfect, it worked in proposition. Until a wake- up call from a friend changed everything. So, my realtor friend called to tell me about a condo coming up for trade in my Chicago neighborhood. She knew that I was looking for Hector to commit and allowed,'' Well, perhaps this could inspire a little forward stir.'' Still, my first inclination was to say," We are not ready. Not yet."" Not yet." That was Hector's favorite banner. I would say,'' I want to get wedded.'' He would say,'' Not yet.'' I'd say,'' Let's live together.''" Not yet."'' Not yet'' was a hair I could not get out of my eye and a bad song I could not get out of my head. So, you could imagine my surprise when he said" Sure'' to meeting me at the condo at noon. Now, I arrived beforehand and eager. But Hector? well that was another story. 1215 came. 1230. 1245. 100 pm. No Hector. ultimately, he called, commodity had come up. So, we agreed to reconvene at three, but Hector was a no- show again. It was in that moment that I decided, after 12 times, it was time to let go. See, I had to let go of Hector and of the idea of marrying him or anybody because at 41, my options were scary. I could either stay with a man who could not commit, but was great on all the leaves and birthdays, or I could break up with him and be alone. Not that letting go of a good man I truly loved was easy. No, no. I had to survive the consequences of my epiphany, and that is when the pain stage demurred in." You and Hector will not be together ever. You will not be his person. In fact, he will presumably meet notoriety differently presto, marry her, and she will be his person. And also, you are going to have to live with the fact that you made a mistake." I unattractive cried, ate a lot of pizza, heeded to a lot of Joni Mitchell. And also, when I could not rub my eyes presently without hitting bone or imagine Hector in a marriage print with another woman, presumably in a size- 6 dress, I brushed myself off. See, I let go of the fear that I would grow old and die alone, that my musketeers would use me as an exemplary tale, that it was too late for me. No, no. In that moment, I had to eventually admit what I really wanted, which was more. You see, Hector not showing up, that was a gift, and that it gave me freedom because let's face it, I'd been chasing that ball for 12 times. No, no. It was time to move on, indeed if I risked rejection. So, I made a plan, one that got clearer with every step. Of course, Hector had a reason for his no- show. But by also, it did not count. I told him it was over. I quit my job, I hugged my musketeers, I vended my beautiful condo in the same neighborhood that delivered me that life- changing epiphany. I let go of everything to start a whole new life in New Hope, Pennsylvania. To which he said,'' Do not go, we'll get wedded.'' To which I said,'' You had twelve times.'' To which he said,'' I will come visit.'' To which I said,'' Not yet.'' Was it hard? you go. Was it worth it? Within a time of leaving, I met my hubby Dan online. I knew when he showed up for our first date, in the most wrinkled shirt I've ever seen, with a rain chapeau to keep me dry walking from the eatery to the auto, that this was my joe. You see, screens were for people who wanted distance. Too heavy a wind, you know, turned them outside out, and indeed the stylish of them only lasted so long. But a rain chapeau, you know, the kind with a string, and you tie it under your chin, Now, that is particular. And after four dates, it turned to love. Eventually, I understood why I had to stay so long. Dan was handsome and wise and soulful and kind, and he made me feel like I could do and be anything. We could. And we got married a time latterly. When I turned 50, Hector failed of cancer. And as you can imagine, I suffered for a veritably long time. But his death reaffirmed for me the pledge I made to myself when I was 41 that I would no way take time for granted again. rather, I would use it to let go, to produce space for the effects I really wanted and for what signified most. Then are five ways to let go I know work because I still use them every single day. One. Let go of taking effects tête-à-tête. I spent a lot of time wondering why Hector did not love me enough to marry me until I realized that his incapability to commit had lower to do with me and further to do with his duty to his family. Now, I am not saying that wasn't a hard lozenge to swallow, but there was a lot of peace in knowing that it was his issue and not some disfigurement in me. However, or if they are just carrying poorly, utmost times, if people are not giving you what you want. Two. Let go of what other people suppose. So, after my hubby and I dated for a couple of months, I took him home to meet my parents.'' He is veritably good- looking,'' my mama said.'' You know, Ted Bundy is veritably good looking. Now, I could've let this influence my conduct, could have let my imagination run wild with studies of my new beau pecking me while I slept but rather, I just chalked it up to my mama. There's a rule in business that states Whenever you're putting commodity out there, 10 of people will detest it, 80 will be indifferent, and 10 will be your raving suckers. And raving suckers are stupendous, but if notoriety’s not a raving addict, let that be okay too. Three. Let go of trying to be commodity you are not. Now, I've this crazy big personality that I actually call" the Big." Some people really like the Big. Some people are fascinated by it, kind of the way they're fascinated by jugglers. And others just run down. But it’s who I am. I've tried to turn down the current on the Big, but hard as I try, there it is. There are some effects we just can not change about ourselves, and that is a good thing. Four. Let go of the need to be perfect. numerous times agone, I wrote a column for Shape Magazine, and I got a lot of correspondence from compendiums, including a veritably sad letter from this teenage girl asking for my advice on how to ameliorate herself after her absolutely nightmare swain had her strip down so he could notice her body. This is a true story. I said,'' Dump him incontinently, and no way let anybody make you feel bad about yourself again." But we all know that feeling the need for perfection isn't just about our weight. It's also about keeping the house clean and the tykes prepped and the kiddies healthy and the heads happy and all the balls in the air. It's indeed about keeping our youth complete. And yet, who wants to be musketeers with someone who is perfect? suppose about that. And incipiently, five- my favorite! Let go of'' Not yet.'' You know, when I left Chicago, my life was enough good, it just was not Goodenough. However, make a plan and act, but do not stay, if there’s commodity you want to do. I still suffer for Hector, you know, it just comes in swells now. But it’s the phone call I can not make that reminds me to make every day count. And I encourage you all to do the same. Whatever that is, I say,'' Let go for it.''
By Asmae El assri3 years ago in Humans
Mastering the Art of Time Management: Boosting Productivity and Efficiency. Content Warning.
In today's fast-paced world, time is a valuable and limited resource. Whether you are a student, a professional, or an entrepreneur, mastering the art of time management is crucial for achieving your goals, maximizing productivity, and living a balanced life. By implementing effective time management strategies, you can unlock your full potential, accomplish more in less time, and experience a sense of fulfillment and success. In this article, we will explore powerful techniques to boost your productivity, optimize your time, and make the most out of each day.
By Carmen Galloway3 years ago in Humans
What It's Like Getting a PRP Treatment. Content Warning.
If you’re familiar with the mainstream procedures in the medical and aesthetic fields you may have heard of the treatment called platelet-rich plasma therapy. Platelet-rich plasma is a form of injection treatment used in a wide range of fields. You may have heard of PRP for hair loss or the famous “vampire facial”. Or you may have just heard of its amazing medical benefits for certain musculoskeletal conditions.
By mhealthand beauty3 years ago in Humans
