breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

Journey of Sands
Once upon a time, in a small village nestled amidst rolling green hills, there lived a young girl named Aisha. Aisha was curious and adventurous, always seeking knowledge beyond the confines of her village. She dreamt of faraway lands, and her heart longed to explore the mysteries of the dunes.
By Discover Gadget2 years ago in Humans
Exposing The Hidden Threat that Wrecks Relationships
So you see the person you fancy across the room at an event. You edge nervously towards them, wanting to make that crucial impression. You finally make the connection, and feel really happy. You punch the air with joy. A few weeks .. or even years .. later, everything stops in its tracks and you can’t understand it. End of beautiful romance, or marriage.
By Elaine Sihera2 years ago in Humans
How to move on from one a sided love?
How to move on from a one sided love? Lets start with a short poem, In the quiet corners of my heart, a tale unfolds, A story of one-sided love, its narrative untold.
By Salman siddique2 years ago in Humans
This Is What Your Car Color Reveals About Your Personality
When choosing a car, we often focus on practicalities like budget, brand, and size. However, have you ever considered the color of your vehicle and what it might say about your personality? The color you choose might reveal more about you than you think.
By Zondra Dos Anjos2 years ago in Humans
the bipolar person. Content Warning.
The bipolar person was lonely most of the time and alone when they weren’t. Lonely was a symptom of mania; alone belonged to depression. The bipolar person had not felt at ease while alone for many years; they needed music, drugs, or the distraction of friends. For years, they had not felt the security that comes from having spent a necessary day of engagement with the world and its people, looking them in the eye many times, laughing and reacting, noticing things of light and color and volume, and thoroughly exhausting themself in full health as a social animal only then to return home and expand in the silence of their moderately sized one-bedroom apartment to restore. But the bipolar person didn’t live alone anymore, so, lately, this restoration was so fraught with overthinking and condemnation that they wondered if they could still do it right. The moderately sized one-bedroom apartment had become a small—bordering on efficiency—two-bedroom. The bipolar person shared this small— bordering on efficiency—two-bedroom, complete with a murphy hammock and washer/dryer in the [flexion of two upright fingers to indicate the presence of scrutiny] kitchen, with their ex’s best friend. This person quickly became the bipolar person’s friend, muddying the situation further as the breakup between the bipolar person and their ex soured. The [finger flexion] kitchen had been a sacred place for the three of them—the bipolar person, the ex, and the roommate who happened to be the ex’s best friend. They made the most incredible things in that [f.f.] kitchen. The bipolar person agonized over remembering the meals made and eaten together: the curries, the soups, the sweet potatoes, the risotto, the rice and beans, the miso eggs, the pomegranates, the apples and peanut butter, the skillets, the mochi. Love was shared in the [f.f.] kitchen, and the bipolar person now struggled to fry an egg, let alone prepare a complete meal for themself. There was little to be done for the wave of depression settling over the bipolar person except to wait it out. Medications did not seem like an option for treatment due to the adverse effects of selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) on their mood. Without fail, SSRIs sent the bipolar person into fits of mania that usually ended with them balled into the fetal position on the end of their bed, in hysterical fits of laughter and tears, and attempting to open their flesh with a knife or a razor or scissors or a stapler or anything they could get their hands on as if the skin itself were diseased and requiring removal. These breaks would come at the end of an extended episode where the bipolar person felt as though tiny spiders had laid large nests of eggs all over their body, and those eggs were beginning to hatch. At times, the sensation was so intense the bipolar person swore they could see as deep as the dermis move; this movement extended from their flesh into the darkened corners of their room so shadows would climb and dance, taunting an inner child still terrified of the dark. This inner child bared itself to the ex and roommate on more than one occasion, and the bipolar person considered death to end the shame. After being so exposed, they felt there was no way to redeem themself in their own eyes. The bipolar person knew well enough at this point that other people would forgive all sorts of behaviors, and even if they wouldn’t, the only thing that mattered was whether or not the bipolar person could forgive themself. The answer was almost always a resounding no, but ultimately, death was not an option. So the small—bordering on efficiency—two-bedroom apartment, complete with murphy hammock and washer/dryer in the [f.f.] kitchen shrank under the weight of self-hate, blame, and resentment.
By kp2 years ago in Humans
"Resilient Bonds: Navigating the Challenges of Love"
"Resilient Bonds: Navigating the Challenges of Love" Amelia and Daniel had weathered storms that would have torn others apart. Their relationship was like a ship navigating through turbulent waters, but neither was ready to abandon the voyage.
By Tshepang Mokoena2 years ago in Humans
Aquarius and Leo’s Electrifying Connection
Aquarius and Leo, two vibrant and charismatic zodiac signs, come together in a cosmic symphony encompassing communication, emotions, sexuality, love, life path, and personality.
By Zondra Dos Anjos2 years ago in Humans
Expressive Nature Meets the Practicality and Ambition.
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By Zondra Dos Anjos2 years ago in Humans
Timeless
Timeless Travel without sharing with anyone, live a love story secretly, live happily without telling anyone. People destroy beautiful things. One day, you will ask me what is more important, my life or yours. I will say mine, and you will walk away without knowing that you are my life. If you love someone, let them go, because if they come back, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were. It is known that love does not realize its depth until the time of separation. If you cannot work with love, it is better to leave your work. If your heart is a volcano, how can you expect flowers to bloom? In the past, we obeyed kings and emperors, but today we only kneel to the truth, follow beauty, and obey love. Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit. Love when you bow in your mosque, kneel in your temple, and pray in your church, for you and I are children of the same spirit. Love has never been on speaking terms with doubt. It surrounds every being and slowly embraces all that will be. Love is trembling happiness. Yesterday is today's memory, and tomorrow is today's dream. Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. Your friend is your field, which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving. When you love, you should not think you can direct the course of love, for love directs your course if it finds you worthy. Marriage is like a golden ring in a chain, whose beginning is a glance and whose ending is eternity. Love is the only freedom in the world, as it elevates the spirit above the laws of humanity and the phenomena of nature. Love is the only flower that grows and blossoms without the aid of the seasons. Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. Love is the veil between lovers. Keep me away from the wisdom that does not cry, the philosophy that does not laugh, and the greatness that does not bow before children. Your children are not your own; they belong to life's longing for itself. You talk when you are not at peace with your thoughts. Out of suffering emerge the strongest souls. Beauty is not in the face, but in the heart. I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind. Tenderness and kindness are signs of strength and resolution. We are all like the bright moon, with our darker sides. It takes a minute to have a crush, an hour to like, a day to love, and a lifetime to forget. Giving of yourself is greater than giving possessions. Belittling requires one to be small. We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them. The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention. You may forget with whom you laughed, but you will never forget with whom you wept. Trust in dreams, for in them is the hidden gate to eternity. When you reach the end of what you should know, you will be at the beginning of what you should sense.
By Celine Dy👸🏻💜2 years ago in Humans
Navigating Friendship: Handling Offensive Comments and Banter
Navigating uncomfortable comments within friendships is an inevitable part of life's tapestry. These moments might arise from a playful jest that inadvertently strikes a sensitive chord or seemingly harmless remarks that unexpectedly turn sour. Knowing how to gracefully maneuver through these instances without jeopardizing the harmony of the relationship is essential. In this exploration, we'll delve deeper into three effective strategies, illustrated through real-life encounters featuring Jonah Hill, Julian Assange, and Jay Leno, to deftly handle such scenarios when a friend crosses the line.
By pavelas rodevicius2 years ago in Humans
The intuitive creation of a long life path with Pisces and Virgo.
The intuitive creation of a long life path with Pisces and Virgo. There is a dance of practicality and personal growth in this partnership.
By Zondra Dos Anjos2 years ago in Humans
Very Strong Connection Between These Two People.
Get ready to join the journey of Sagittarius, the adventurous and free-spirited archer, and Virgo, the practical and analytical maiden.
By Zondra Dos Anjos2 years ago in Humans