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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Signs You’re Ready For A Serious Committed Relationship
To be prepared to have a serious commitment relationship is not just a matter of desire to be with someone. It is the recognition of the obligations, emotional richness and long-term thinking commitment requires. Once you start to see that a relationship is based on hard work, sincerity, and a desire to help one another, then you start to approach a relationship with maturity. A relationship that is committed is not only about romance, but rather about establishing something that is stable, meaningful and long term. This knowledge will assist you in assessing your preparedness with acuity and deliberation.
By Stella Johnson Loveabout a month ago in Humans
Boundaries With Male Friends That Keep Things Clear
It's important to set appropriate boundaries with male friends so that we may stay clear-headed, emotionally stable, and respectful of each other. This is especially true when we care profoundly about our connections but also want to avoid misunderstandings. As relationships develop, boundaries serve as the framework that keeps interactions clear, respectful, and free of uncertainty. We will discuss strong, useful, and emotionally intelligent boundaries that help us keep our friendships healthy while also protecting our personal space and the integrity of our relationships.
By Bloom Boldlyabout a month ago in Humans
The Message I Was Never Supposed to Read
I was never the kind of person who checked old messages. If something was done, it was done. If someone left, I let them leave. That was my rule—simple, clean, almost cold. But rules collapse the moment real memories get involved.
By TariqShinwariabout a month ago in Humans
The Kindness I Didn’t Know I Needed
The day started like any other—too early, too noisy, and too heavy. I hadn’t slept more than three hours, and I hadn’t eaten anything except coffee that tasted like burnt hope. Some days are like that. They begin tired and stay tired.
By TariqShinwariabout a month ago in Humans
The Missing Language Every Engineer Should Speak.
Materials Engineering: The Missing Language Every Engineer Should Speak.. When most people think about engineering, they picture drawings, site coordination, schedules, and meetings. But quietly sitting under all of that is something far more fundamental: the materials themselves.
By Sayed Zewayedabout a month ago in Humans
How to Stay Emotionally Connected Through Life’s Storms
No relationship goes through without periods of trouble--surprising turn of events, emotional issues, financial crisis, family force, or self-disaster. These hurricanes will shake the most solid relationship unless the couples are conscious enough to remain close to each other emotionally. When things are going bad, it is easy to shut oneself down or get stressed out and inadvertently create some distance. But these are also the times when the intimacy can be enhanced and the trust strengthened. The relationship is then stronger when you set out to tackle challenges with others rather than being alone.
By Steve Waughabout a month ago in Humans
When You Finally Learn What Healthy Love Looks Like
At some point, you have an idea that love is not meant to be confusing, tiresome, and inconsistent. Healthy love substitutes emotional turmoil with emotional lucidity. It is safe, not that it is not intense it is constructed on a foundation of trust, respect, and consistency. Once you lastly feel healthy love, you find your nervous system has slackened in a couple of ways you had not been aware of. You are no longer waiting to find out what argument is coming next, what withdrawal will occur next, what disappointment will follow next. Rather, you feel as though you are on your feet.
By Steve Waughabout a month ago in Humans
Why Emotional Reciprocity Matters More Than Romance
Romance tends to take the center stage of relations. It is not hard to think that love is cafe lit dinners, unexpected presents, and memorable things. These are just magical moments, and they are not what can keep a relationship going in the long run. With time you will realize that the richness of a relationship lies not in the number of times your heart has gone wild, but in the level of consistency with which your partner is willing to appear emotionally. The giving and receiving of emotional support between one another is what is called emotional reciprocity; it is what constitutes the real basis of enduring love.
By Steve Waughabout a month ago in Humans
How to Protect Your Relationship From Silent Distance
Silent distance is hardly loud or dramatic. It starts subtly and is usually not visible; the partners begin talking less, sharing less and bonding less. Where laughter and talk were before, silentness takes its place. This silence does not necessarily indicate that there is no love in it but it is often a manifestation of unspoken concerns, a tense situation that was not finished or it can be a kind of emotional exhaustion. With time, minute silences become emotional disconnects and the partners find it more difficult to get close. It is imperative to identify this change in time to avoid further alienation.
By Steve Waughabout a month ago in Humans
How To Show Love Daily Without Saying A Word
Love is ushered in by verbal expressions but it can be equally expressed by nonverbal expressions. Care, empathy and affection can be expressed through gestures, body language and little gestures of care without having to say it. Such phrases produce an emotional appeal and make the partners feel loved and heard. Realizing that love is something that can be demonstrated in action helps the couples to be more conscious and deliberate in their everyday actions. Nonverbal communication helps to establish bonding, trust and intimacy and to create a powerful yet not verbal language that help to build relationship in the long run.
By Emeri Adamesabout a month ago in Humans
Reasons Healthy Boundaries Make Relationships Much Stronger
Emotional intimacy, trust and respect in relationships can only be nurtured by having healthy boundaries. They establish individual boundaries, where both partners are safe, appreciated, and heard. Boundaries enable an individual to still be self but at the same time be loyal to the relationship. Couples can be resentful, experience burnout or lose defined responsibilities without having clear boundaries to demarcate them. It is important to know that boundaries are not obstacles but means to connect and partners can understand each other. By defining these boundaries, people show respect to each other and at the same time, they are able to participate in the relationship fully and in an authentic manner, which in the long run, will make the relationship strong.
By Emeri Adamesabout a month ago in Humans
