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The Human Mind
The things we learned without having to differentiate between right and wrong during our childhood when we reacted completely based on our emotions. It is the set of rules and our foundation that define our actions and thoughts we think of. It is the map of our mind and everything beneath. The reason we cannot get along with everybody at the same level is because they have a different paradigm than us, their thought process and ours are on different level. It is important to understand this because no matter how steady you walk how carefully you set your steps you will never rich your goals if you are walking on a wrong map. Suppose you need to reach Toronto but you have a map of Collingwood you may be at the first position in the race but you will never rich Toronto because you have a map of the wrong destination. The wrong map in this concept refers to the mind unless you have a clear mind filled with burning desire and complete faith towards your goal no matter the time and effort you show you will never achieve it. You may argue that through time and effort you will becomes better or even perfect at something you do but remember if you practice a mistake you may master it but still it counts as a mistake at the end. What really matter it did you make it or not no one cares about anything else. Remember more than 1000 people start what you started everyday and in the same day as you and everyone of them feels thinks what you did at a certain point so what makes the difference is the perception of how you view thoughts you think of remember every one of them is putting effort and time but not everyone will figure the right map and not among the people who have the right map will figure the right direction so to make the difference count you must have a mind filled with burning desire to make it to the finish line and faith that you will make it there. Remember looking back at your life you must have had moments when you thought things are over and everything is going to collapse but look at you now everything turned out fine right so same is going to happen you will face bigger problems but remember you are also big your dreams are big and you have figured out the map this time. To figure out the map in anu situation all you have to do is look at the problem though a third perspective and think with a open mind not by your usual thinking process.
By Aashish Khadkaabout a month ago in Humans
Signs You’ve Met Your Soulmate (Even if They’re Not Perfect)
Have you ever met someone and felt like your soul already knew them? Like a whisper deep inside saying, “There you are”? That instant spark, the comfort, and the inexplicable familiarity — these are the signs that you may have met your soulmate, even if they’re not flawless.
By F. M. Rayaanabout a month ago in Humans
The Lucky One
At age 18, I knew what the word 'pedophile' meant. I considered myself book smart, mature for my age. When I actually met one during my first year in university though, the thought never occurred that this man was pursuing me mainly because of how much younger I was than he. He was 42.
By Alycen Sparrowabout a month ago in Humans
When You Lose Value in a Relationship: My Real Story
Table of Contents The Beginning: When Love Felt Like Everything The Subtle Shift: When Priority Becomes an Afterthought The Awakening: Recognizing the Signs of Being Taken for Granted The Pain: Living with Diminished Self-Worth The Breaking Point: When Enough Becomes Enough The Healing: Reclaiming Your Value After a One-Sided Relationship The Lesson: You Teach People How to Treat You To Anyone Who Sees Themselves in My Story Moving Forward: Building Healthy Relationships
By Zayn Naseerabout a month ago in Humans
When Black Friday 2025 Teaches You What Truly Matters
Black Friday 2025 is already sitting on the edge of the calendar, and people are waiting for it with the same mix of excitement and worry that comes every year. Some hope to save money. Others hope to buy something they have been putting off for months. But beneath the rush and noise, there is a quiet truth most of us rarely stop to notice. Big sales reveal more about our fears, habits, and dreams than we think.
By Muqadas khanabout a month ago in Humans
Effective Ways To Handle Relationship Disagreements Respectfully
Conflicts are an unavoidable aspect of any relationship, and how couples are able to manage conflicts will define how strong the relationship is. Due respect forms the basis upon which the conflicts do not degenerate into emotional harm. By engaging partners with empathy and not confrontation, a non-threatening environment is established where the two partners feel listened to. Respect helps to avoid turning arguments into battles and retain love even in the stressful times.
By Hayley Kiyokoabout a month ago in Humans
