The Human Mind

The things we learned without having to differentiate between right and wrong during our childhood when we reacted completely based on our emotions. It is the set of rules and our foundation that define our actions and thoughts we think of. It is the map of our mind and everything beneath. The reason we cannot get along with everybody at the same level is because they have a different paradigm than us, their thought process and ours are on different level. It is important to understand this because no matter how steady you walk how carefully you set your steps you will never rich your goals if you are walking on a wrong map. Suppose you need to reach Toronto but you have a map of Collingwood you may be at the first position in the race but you will never rich Toronto because you have a map of the wrong destination. The wrong map in this concept refers to the mind unless you have a clear mind filled with burning desire and complete faith towards your goal no matter the time and effort you show you will never achieve it. You may argue that through time and effort you will becomes better or even perfect at something you do but remember if you practice a mistake you may master it but still it counts as a mistake at the end. What really matter it did you make it or not no one cares about anything else. Remember more than 1000 people start what you started everyday and in the same day as you and everyone of them feels thinks what you did at a certain point so what makes the difference is the perception of how you view thoughts you think of remember every one of them is putting effort and time but not everyone will figure the right map and not among the people who have the right map will figure the right direction so to make the difference count you must have a mind filled with burning desire to make it to the finish line and faith that you will make it there. Remember looking back at your life you must have had moments when you thought things are over and everything is going to collapse but look at you now everything turned out fine right so same is going to happen you will face bigger problems but remember you are also big your dreams are big and you have figured out the map this time. To figure out the map in anu situation all you have to do is look at the problem though a third perspective and think with a open mind not by your usual thinking process.

The inside out method is the process to make change in any field of life. Change begins from the inside no person can influence other to change unless they have the desire and believes placed on the same principles. A wise man knows dependence and independence both are beginning the final form of freedom is interdependence. A wise person is aware that he can do better himself but with the help of other(master mind) he can do the best. The world doesn't function like we see and know it doesn't align with our beliefs and perspectives it only follow the beliefs and principles set the nature. People can have a similar way of seeing things but they all have different way of understanding the same thing. The best and the most natural way to change is to sow the thought of change and take actions on that thoughts then repeat that actions time and again making it a habit and then continue that habit along with improvement until it aligns with you character. Personality and character are two different things a personality can be faked but character doesn't lie it cannot be faked. That's why there is personality disorder people can knowing and unknowingly fake their personality traits to fit in or manipulate but cannot decisive their character because character is their soul their very basic structure their subconscious paradigm which cannot be changed without a paradigm shift.

Perspective matter in everything the problems that come in our life are not what cause of our stress but the way we think about the problem and react are the main cause of the stress. Problems falls under two circle, circle of concern and circle of influence. Circle of concern is everything we are concerned about health money future family history politics and every other thing, these things are the stimulus that cause a reaction off of us. Circle of influence are the things we can control and influence back and forth like our health finance study these things are changeable if we response to the stimulus. Now we know about both the circles, it is important that we focus on circle of influence as things that fall under this cause a strong stimulus and the way we response to that stimulus is the important part of our life. For ex, we are getting bad grades rather than making it a circle of concern and saying my brain is dull the teacher is biased we need to be self aware and accept the fact that we didn't put required efforts, this way of thinking changes the perspective of how we look at things and problems and make the solution of them easy we have the catalyst that caused the grades to go down and which is lack of study and now can influence it. Circle of concern is for reactive people who find is easier to blame somebody else and never reflect themselves for the response to the stimulus. Circle of influence is for the proactive people who are self aware that what has caused the stimulus is them and they have all control over the response. Always be in circle of influence and keep a broad view at the problem because no one is crazy everyone has a valid reason that met all the criteria because of which they took the action and got the results, what makes sense to you may sound and seem immature to other and vice versa because of the paradigm and the way their though process works. A true change comes from within no matter the situation a person will act of his natural instinct that was shaped during his childhood when the subconscious mind was being shaped. Another proven and most important thing is to speak positively words have power that's why they are called spells. Think positively speak like that positive though has happen or is going to come true. Don't talk bad about yourself or others this is not for being good or great but for a very selfish nature it's for not letting the negative energy flow into the mind because a small infection is enough ruin the manifestation.

Having a core is important. Remember everything runs and function in a set pattern or follows a principle even the nature nothing is random everything has a define cause and a conform consequence. So is with your life whether you are aware or not but you follow certain pattern and principle, that how you think and act. This is important because if you want change to happen you need to start with the core without it you cannot change your life.

Always speak in terms of goodness in words and as well as thoughts. I need to visualize my burning desire to get rich with absolute faith in my dream coming true and my effort being directed towards it. When I visualize it I need to make it personal, positive, present and emotional. I need to get as much emotional as I can when I visualize my desires with positive thoughts in present moments.

Change comes from within so private victories precede public victories. One can only become truly interdependent when they are independent from within. Every problems and setbacks in the way of your goal is an opportunity in itself all it matters to identify them is perspective. Once you overcome the problem them you become one step close to achieving your goal and who knows that the very problem may have been the last door which you have to open to see everything you wished for all along. It's is strong people who don't talk bad about themselves and others because they are busy getting stronger and better. What may seem good may be stopping you from becoming the best.

Reading writing speaking and listening are they ways to communicate, many people think and practice the first 3 only but the most crucial is listening. People speak a lot and if you listen carefully you will know a lot about them. Speaking is a form of representation people many control their words but they cannot hide their paradigm so if you listen good enough you will discover a lot about their character and thought process.