advice
Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Mature Love
Have you ever loved someone so much that even after decades of not seeing them, you care about them just as much as you did when you were with them? I unfortunately know that kind of pain. To come across a love that deep is such a beautiful thing, but it’s a painful memory that you can’t scrape away. When we were together, the universe was determined to keep us apart. I now know why. I would have never traveled 2,500 miles and met my husband. My two beautiful girls wouldn’t exist, and my husband would still be living the toxic life he was in.
By Jessica Briggs8 years ago in Humans
R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
I was afraid to even bring up this topic out of fear that people might become either too defensive or too opinionated about it. However, I am witnessing more and more that a lot of people are being offended or are feeling uncomfortable by another person’s actions for whatever reason, whether it is seen as racist, sexist, etc. Also, some of this behavior does carry over into cultural appropriation. After discussing this with a few friends I think it’s important to have a serious talk about these things.
By Tatiana Parker8 years ago in Humans
Should You Follow Your Heart or Your Head?
I used to despise the saying “Follow your heart.” Then I picked up some book on finding purpose and decided I liked it. Then the saying let me down, so I disliked it again. Now I have learned to partially get along with it.
By Brooke Gallagher8 years ago in Humans
How to Deal with Cheating. Top Story - December 2017.
Having been in multiple relationships, (tqo — it still counts) as per is the norm for a young man, I know both how lovely and stressful relationships can be. Yet the logic is that if the person is worth working for, then you work to make things work, right? Yet, you're not reading this because you're trying to make things work. Odds are you couldn't make things work, or your significant other took a flamethrower to things and burnt up anything that could be salvaged by cheating. My condolences. Now, let's talk about how you can get on the road to feeling better.
By Jacob Harold8 years ago in Humans
5 Red Flags You're in an Abusive Relationship
Most of the time, people don't notice the signs of abuse in their relationship. Or, they see it, but are in denial about it and they need some kind of wake-up call. If you're suspicious, or feel like you need that call, these points could help you determine whether or not you're in a partnership you need to get out of.
By Savana Verret8 years ago in Humans
7 Sure Things Every Girl On Tinder Wants You To Know
Swiping can very well be my favorite activity in the world, but only if I’m buying shoes and swiping a credit card not left or right swiping potential dates off Tinder- that kind of swiping is no fun at all. When it comes to dating matches these days, the more the merrier. Call me crazy or call me old fashioned but I happen to be part of the select few who still value quality over quantity. I’m not interested in starting a harem, like every girl I’m just looking to find the yin to my yang. In my search for Mr. Right. I've obviously met many Mr. Couldn’t be more wrongs if your life depended on it, and then so many of them that I couldn’t take it anymore and deleted my profile. Then I thought well maybe these guys deserve to know how we feel and so on behalf of all the girls on Tinder I have decided to share these 7 tips that every girl on Tinder, at one point or another, would want you to know.
By Erika Potap8 years ago in Humans
How to Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Alive
Long Distance Relationships are the hardest type of relationship to be in. They're the hardest to keep alive, too. But, they're the most rewarding, in my opinion. Long Distance Relationships depend on the unbreakable trust and strong communication of both people. Sometimes, there are moments in your LDR that'll seem so dull... and stagnant (as a girl who has been in ten different LD relationships, these moments are imminent!). During this time, you might lose faith in your love, or your lover's love. Worry no more! Here are some tips to keep your relationship alive!
By Candace B.8 years ago in Humans
Why I No Longer Chase People
I understand that people get busy with their lives, but if you don't message me ever and you don't have a good reason, why would I want to keep chasing you or try with you? If you don't try with me, why would I try with you? My former best friend accused me of starting drama which I wouldn't and didn't, and she was victim shaming me after my sexual assault, which she may have done without knowing, but still. So when she started to not message me anymore I thought OK, I knew this was coming, so that's fine. I think that she also had a problem with my kink lifestyle. So I decided to move on, I figured I outgrew her and she got busy. Guys, sometimes people don't message you and you realize that it was a blessing. You also realize sometimes that you out grow people and it's OK. I tried to message her recently to no answer and I knew it was time to move on. Does it hurt? Yes. Does it suck? Yes. Can you get over it? Yes.
By Lena Bailey8 years ago in Humans
Love, When You Least Expect It
Love. Whether unspoken, or shouting it from the top of your lungs, holding hands, or shamelessly PDA-ing it in the middle of Walmart, having a partner to share this treasured emotion with is so fulfilling. But, from observing the constant relationship problems and forever alone posts, not all of it is smooth sailing out there.
By I Am A Pizza8 years ago in Humans
