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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

You Don't Like What?!
When I was young, I was tall, lanky, and, as my mother would put it, "I had arms and legs going everywhere." During that time, I didn’t like my body. I am still tall, lanky, and have arms and legs going everywhere, but I have come to LOVE my entire body but especially one part… my legs. *SMILE*
By Reaux Tinkleflower8 years ago in Humans
The Rights and Wrongs
Talking from a place in my life where my relationship is at a crossroads. Meaning; either we'll continue being together or fall apart. It's made me think and reflect on every mistake I (mainly) and my girlfriend have made in our time spent together.
By Harry Davidson8 years ago in Humans
3 Reasons Why Ghosting Is a Good Thing
This week's episode is all about ghosting. Why it's a good thing, why it's here to stay, and why you should just get used to it already.
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
How To Drop the L Bomb the Right Way
Love makes the world go around. Love conquers all. It’s all about the love. Truly, love is one of the most important basic human needs. So why is it so hard to say? The L bomb is just what it sounds like…the first time someone says "I love you." Apparently, some men (I’m guessing the eternal bachelor types) compare saying "I love you" to an explosion with potentially disastrous consequences. But falling in love is an amazing experience and life just wouldn’t be the same without it. Nothing else in the world can make a person feel as special as when they are told they are loved. So I have come up with some helpful guidance when it comes to dropping the L bomb…proceed with caution!
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
How To Navigate Social Media and Dating Like a Pro
As if dating in the modern world wasn’t complicated enough, with the advent of social media, it’s become downright convoluted. While social media can be a great vehicle to obtain more information about the person you’re dating, it’s made the mating ritual awfully chaotic. From Tweets to Facebook statuses to Instagram hashtags…is anyone else feeling confused? Well, it doesn’t have to be if you follow my guidelines. Here we go…
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
Tips to Make the First Date Great
Chemistry is a very tricky thing. The definition of chemistry is a strong attraction between two people. Science can’t describe it or explain why it’s there. It could be anything from the sound of his/her voice to the way he or she smells. But if you’re really listening to your intuition, you should be able to tell if there’s any chemistry on the first date.
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
How To Make the Dating Revolution Work for You
In this Modern Age, there is a revolution going on between the "old" and the "new" way of thinking when it comes to relationships. As the divorce rate climbs higher, we celebrate because life is too short to live unhappily. But part of the learning process in life comes directly from intimate relationships—yet many of us today find ourselves single. Nature ensures that we continuously seek out a mate by the modern ritual we call Dating.
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
Here's Why You Leave University As A Different Individual
Everyone changes. It's inevitable. But what does university teach you? It doesn't just teach you about your course. There are a plethora of other things beyond your course that you will learn about. These things will change you. Before I became a student I had a schema of how and what university would be like, but I never thought about how it would shape me into the person I am today.
By Ri8 years ago in Humans
Defining the Relationship
The moment a man hears the phrase “we need to talk”, he immediately breaks out in a cold sweat. Yes, I’m talking about the dreaded where is this relationship going talk. Well, I have news for you men, some women dread it too. But wherever you fall on the dread scale, defining the relationship is something that needs to be done. After all, who revels in waking up day after day not knowing where your relationship is going? It’s brutal! And so DTR (defining the relationship) becomes a necessity…
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
Go Ahead, Judge Me
I am sick and tired of hearing people preach about how we shouldn't judge others. We all judge everyone else whether you want to admit it or not. Every single person instantly forms opinions about other people in their mind when they meet them. Whether it be something small or something complimentary, we all still do it. We may later find out that opinion was wrong, or it might be proved to be correct. Whatever, it still happens and it is OK.
By Hannah Amiee8 years ago in Humans
My Love Language
We all have a love language. It is what our significant other can do to speak volumes to our heart and soul. It is what makes our heart pound, our smile widen, and our butterflies to flutter in our stomach. It is what is conveyed in every love story and rom-com. Sometimes others share certain words, metaphorically, that is in our dictionary. So through my list of what really brightens my day and warms my soul, you may find something that you want in your life. It takes time to find what language you hear the loudest, but never be afraid to ask if someone is willing to learn some of your words. You will have to learn theirs too, because after all love is two people with enough desire in each other that the compromises seem like a walk in the park. Well enough of this metaphor crap, for now, here are the things that speak volumes to me.
By Cali Love8 years ago in Humans
17 Conversation Starters for Long Term Relationship Life. Top Story - June 2018.
That moment in a long-term relationship, when you look at your partner and realize you have just been telling them that one story about your aunt's crazy dog for the seventeenth time.
By Bekah Writes8 years ago in Humans