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When Your Ex Dies
So a few months ago I got news that I was expecting about any one but the person that I got it about, if that makes sense. My ex-boyfriend had died too young. He wasn't taking care of himself, and well, just died. When it came to my ex-boyfriends dying I was sure one of my older ones would die first of old age in a few years, or that there would be a tragic accident with a few of them who have not made the best decisions. When it came to this ex-boyfriend, he told me he had changed his ways and that he was doing better, but of course he could have been lying, and this was a year before his death. I actually found out about his death on Facebook, because I was still friends with his roommate. He then asked me to call him so we could talk about it. Of course we talked and dealt with it the only way we knew how.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Humans
Small Voices and Gut Feelings
Have you ever wondered about that small voice or gut feeling you have sometimes? My story has a message and them both; a belief in God and a strong gut feeling got me through a rough situation without a warning. But that’s the way it’s supposed to happen. The message is simple, listen to your gut and that small voice when it’s strongly telling you to move from a bad situation.
By Kristi Wright6 years ago in Humans
The Way that Heartache Is Absolutely Necessary
I’m not even going to sugarcoat my thoughts on this. Heartache sucks. I’m one of those folks that doesn’t like to really feel things. Yet I was fabulously gifted with the ability to feel everything deeply—the irony. Most of us, if not all of us, don’t like to feel the yucky, sad heartache feelings. Being more of an analytical kind of gal, I’d probably be okay with trading in all feelings so I didn’t have to deal with the crappy ones… but that’s not how it works. And honestly, that’s not a healthy approach at all. Logically I know all this stuff.
By Laura Tran6 years ago in Humans
Modern Male Behavior Is All Women's Fault!
Listen ladies, before you tie me up and burn me at the stake, make sure you read this article until the very end. I’m not necessarily saying male behavior is all your fault, but rather, it’s collectively women’s fault ingeneral. If you’re sick and tired of the insane things men do (um, I am!), then this article is for you. It’s important to remember that just one woman cannot single handedly change all men and their inappropriate behavior, but there are things that you as an individual can do to stop this craziness. Just imagine if all women starting working together to stop the unacceptable things men do! Let's start right now.
By Heart Centered Universe6 years ago in Humans
No One Practices Heaven
Not enough people practice the idea of goodness in their lives. Seriously, heaven is just a place that is mentioned in many holy books, and people adore it. Still, the actual engagement of practicing this heaven idea is not being practiced on Earth. Just about everyone in this reality tries to be good, but, when it comes down to the real deal, people opt out. Of course, this is not done consciously. For the most part, most people are not even aware that they are not practicing righteousness.
By Bazooka Teaches6 years ago in Humans
How to Take the Sting Out of Rejection
Who likes getting rejected? The most likely answer for most people is, "Not me!" Rejection is often an unpleasant feeling for most of us. Many people fear it and go to great lengths to try to avoid being rejected. This can even mean passing up opportunities that because of that fear.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Humans
Help! Telltale Har: I Can't Stop Provoking My Girlfriend
Today I address an email from a woman who wishes her girlfriend of four years would “flip her lid” once in a while, and goes as far as to purposefully do things she hopes will make her girlfriend mad just so she’ll freak out.
By Harley Myers6 years ago in Humans
How Do You Catch a Cheater?
Mobile dating apps like Tinder and Bumble and social media platforms, have made it easier than ever to meet and connect with new people. It’s also easier than ever for our significant others to cheat—you can chat with a potential lover just as quickly as you can order a pizza for delivery.
By Claire Peters6 years ago in Humans
