What is Love?

Love... a simple word with 4 letters with an enormous sense behind it. What does that mean? Well, it’s personal for everyone but, for me, it’s the feeling when you are with someone who loves you the way you love them and that every time you’re with them, you feel at peace. However, love isn’t always as bright as it should actually be. Effectively, some relationships aren’t all unicorns and princesses. If you want some advices with your relationship, you are at the good place!

First of all, the most important thing to remember is the communication between the two partners. You should be able to talk and to express your feelings without being scared and feeling judged. Also, to listen is as important as the words you say to your other half because, he/she wants you to be there for him/her too and to help them with their concerns or feelings.Even if it’s as simple as a story about a shift at their workplace, it’s essential to listen...

Also, giving them your affection and time is really important. It’s true that when they need you, it would be good for them if you could be their shoulders where they can cry. Unfortunately, sometimes, you need space too and you need your personal free time, being with yourself. I know it’s hard to stay away from your lover but it’s important to create a sort of distance between you too. That way, there’s a lot of things you can talk about when you come home or when you are on a special date with them.

Also, another important aspect to a healthy relationship is to, sometimes, surprise them!! When you are in a long relationship, it’s easy to create a routine and habits. However, it can become boring at some point. So, what you want is to give them something new, a little gift, it doesn’t have to be something material. It can be a little hug or a kiss when they don’t expect it.

Finally, just love and respect each others. As simple as it sounds, it’s not quite easy for everyone. Don’t let someone who treats you badly in your life, someone who makes you feel useless or insecure. You gotta fight for your happiness, even if it’s giving up on someone you love BUT, that someone is TOXIC! You need a lover who feels like home, who makes you feel wanted and loved. I wish for you all to find someone special and awesome like I did. It can be hard sometimes but it’s a mountain you can climb with perseverance and ambitions. YOU CAN DO IT! If something feels weird with your partner, tell them and be yourself. That’s the advice I’m giving you ;)

Aurélie