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Stop Making Noise

Start Becoming Magnetic

By Edward SmithPublished about 6 hours ago 3 min read

Eve wondered how a true gentleman does not fall in love with sound, but substance? The loudest individual in the room does not appeal to him, but he is attracted to the deep, gracious, and quiet confidence one.

Funny, you can have the right traits and get a man to pay attention, without even trying, is that truly possible?

Below are ten traits genuine men secretly crave for and secretly obsessed over. so if you want a man to be obsessed with you, read till the end, subscribe and share

SELF-RESPECT

A woman who respects herself would set the pace on how she is treated. An admiring gentleman will be proud of a woman who is cognizant of her worth and is not shrinking to fit people.

It is difficult to overlook that type of energy.

KINDNESS WITH A BACKBONE

Soft doesn't mean weak. A woman who manages to lead with a pleasant smile and at the same time knows how to be tough makes her mark on a man who appreciates power in a package of a nice person.

It is a balancing act that is hard to come by nowadays.

EMOTIONAL MATURITY

A gentleman is not seeking disorder. He is attracted to a person who can communicate without being judgemental, critical, or storming.

Peace feels like gold, right?

CLASSY CONFIDENCE

Not arrogance. Not loud confidence. Nothing but the silent knowledge that you make a good impression.

Most things are said by the way you walk, speak or even smile. A gentleman is aware of that at a glance.

AUTHENTIC FEMININITY

This kind of femininity has nothing to do with dresses or make-up, it has to do with the tenderness, sensitivity and elegance which are inherent in you.

A gentleman would love a woman who is not pretentious or acting.

GOOD LISTENING SKILLS

It is the woman who listens and the man notices this.

Listening with intent helps a gentleman to open up more and it seems like a woman opens a door in him which he had not intended to open.

POISE UNDER PRESSURE

Everyone can be nice when everything is fine but the woman who remains herself when life has gone down the drain? She stands out.

A man understands that constancy to be an indication of maturity and inner strength.

HUMOR WITH FINESSE

When a woman is able to laugh, slightly tease and savor little things, she invigorates.

Gentlemen delight in laughter, but they like it all the more when it is not boisterous.

PURPOSE

An independent lady who has her own ambitions is interesting at once. She's not clinging.

She's not needy. She's growing. That is insurmountable to a gentleman since purpose demonstrates ambition and self direction.

Puzzle that keeps him speculative.

There is no need to tell it all at once. There is a certain degree of mystery that makes the dialogue active and interaction complex.

It is that type of allure that draws a man yet makes him even more interested even without his knowing about it.

CONCLUSION

Drama or noise does not attract a gentleman. He is attracted by profundity, elegance, tenderness and power combined.

Develop these qualities with yourself and you will not need to hunt the right type of man, you will just find one.

The idea that counts here is as follows: what do you think you have mastered out of these traits, and what is the trait that you are covertly trying to correct?

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About the Creator

Edward Smith

Health,Relationship & make money coach.Subscibe to my Health Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkwTqTnKB1Zd2_M55Rxt_bw?sub_confirmation=1 and my Relationship https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCogePtFEB9_2zbhxktRg8JQ?sub_confirmation=1

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