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Stoicism

The reality of stoicism

By Masungulo NgobeniPublished 3 years ago 7 min read
Stoicism
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we're born into this world hungry

susceptible and stressed as we undergo

existence we strive to get rid of these

emotions by trying to control the

situations of the world around us we

are seeking for to accomplish and gain things

reap better status gather wealth or

repute broaden electricity and so forth we stay

with the persisting hopefulness that during

the destiny we are able to have and manipulate

sufficient stuff to unfastened ourselves of our

vacancy vulnerability and confusion

and locate a few final happiness and

security out of doors of ourselves this

hopeful imaginative and prescient of the future might sound

affordable however perhaps it's miles what continues

us contained in our issues to help us

better apprehend and deal with our

seemingly unquenchable hunger for

remaining control and happiness out of doors

of ourselves we will appearance to the historical

philosophy of stoicism stoicism is a

philosophy that started in ancient

Greece and turned into then similarly popularized

in ancient Rome stoicism is an

especially unique philosophy and the way

potently it has withstood the test of

time throughout heaps of years arguably

the lessons and knowledge of stoic

philosophy are similarly if now not extra

relevant these days than ever in latest

records stoicism has determined big attraction

it changed into used and encouraged by means of latest

historic leaders like George

Washington Thomas Jefferson and Nelson

Mandela written approximately via modern-day popular

authors like Tim Ferriss Robert Greene

and Ryan excursion simply to name some and

has determined a as an alternative big network on

the internet stoicism is enduring

popularity is not without appropriate cause

the ideas of stoicism can assist us

locate calmness presence and resilience in

a world of increasingly overt chaos

tension and insatiable choice for more

in stoicism we exist in a truth that

does not care about our non-public opinion

of it we can't ask it well to remove

the chaos suffering hassle and

uncertainty nor can we will ourselves

onto it with force in an effort to do so

but stoicism indicates that that does

not imply we are problem to be helpless

sufferers of the sector as an alternative stoicism

publicizes that there are two domains of

existence our outside being the things

outside of our thoughts which we can't

manipulate and the inner our

interpretations and reactions to the

outside which we can control when we

stick with the belief that matters

outside ourselves or matters within the

destiny

will offer

with the shape of ultimate happiness we

emerge as dependent on things that aren't

part of us nor a part of what we will

control and accordingly remain endlessly

unhappy and unhappy we are able to and

ought to pursue the matters that we deemed

greatest and interesting and not live

an inactive existence however we have to make sure

that on our interests our consciousness stays

on the inner and that we paintings to

derive our feel of pleasure from how we

think and act inside our pastimes no

be counted what venture we adopt we will do

it wastefully if we anticipate that any of

what comes past the mission will offer

some thing higher than the revel in of

awareness and presence in the task itself

there's not anything inherently incorrect approximately

operating in the direction of and accomplishing wealth

fame or strength however inside the Stoics thoughts

these things are simply to be loved if

they do workout but no longer to be depended

on for one's happiness for if one is

depending on them their happiness and

peace in lifestyles are specifically inclined

to being inconsistent taken or by no means

accomplished at all

stoicism suggests that the signal of a

clearly a success individual is a person who

may be ok without the things he or she

commonly goals or depends on for

consolation for no wealth materialistic

abundance reputation or electricity has any cost to

a happy lifestyles if the person that possesses

them has no longer but discovered to live

properly with out them Roman Emperor and

stoic truth seeker Marcus Aurelius changed into

the maximum effective character within the world

at some stage in his time he had get entry to to

something he could have ever desired

but he writes nearly not anything cloth is

wished for a glad lifestyles for he who has

understood life with get entry to to the

global Marcus Aurelius lived with little

hobby inside the self-indulgence of

things outdoor of himself to be able to

broaden this fortitude a common practice

and stoicism is to now and again

quickly strip oneself of the matters

they on the whole depend upon for comfort in

order to prove to themselves how robust

they simply are with out the things they

think they want within the peace of classic

literature entitled letters from a stoic

Roman statesman and one of the most

famend stoic philosophers Seneca

writes till we've got started to move without

them we fail to realise how needless

many stuff are we've got been the usage of them

no longer because we wanted them however because

we had them it is not our consistent

expectation that some thing out of doors

ourselves or within the future is needed for

a worthy experience of lifestyles that reasons

our incapacity to ever find worth experi

in life within the first vicinity and led us

from a stoic Seneca discusses the idea

of how to correctly cope with ones time and

derive significant enjoy while

referring to time Seneca writes I suggest

you to keep what is in reality yours and also you

cannot begin to early for as our

ancestors believed it's miles too late to

spare whilst you attain the dregs of the

Cask of that which stays at the lowest

the amount is moderate and the first-class is

vile it's miles now that we have to find time

and it's miles now that we ought to discover

happiness if it is both that we're

in search of for if we do now not consciousness the lens

via which we view existence right now

the whole lot we see from this second

forward will stay out of recognition for the

stoic the ability to find happiness in

spite of what occurs around us is

developed thru man or woman and

perspective we must understand that nothing

is ideal or bad inherently but handiest our

judgments and interpretations of factors

may be correct or awful the sensible guy Seneca

writes is neither raised up by using

prosperity nor forged down with the aid of adversity

for always he's pushed to depend

predominantly on himself and to derive

all pleasure from himself in different phrases we

have to attempt to shape our angle to nice

serve our capability to stay with

happiness and marvel no matter the

usaand downs of existence

stoicism suggests that we are however a tiny

characteristic of the entire frame of nature and

everything that occurs to us is a

matter of relevance and necessity to

everything past us on this we must

try toward an acceptance and

indifference closer to the whole thing that

takes place to us and as an alternative cognizance our

interest on controlling our reactions

to the things that occur we need to put

our high-quality foot ahead appearing and living

with self honesty humility and suitable

virtue and welcome regardless of the international

offers us in go back top or horrific with this

we are able to start to loose ourselves from the

chaos of the world and find a few form of

happiness and presence within ourselves

the exercise of stoicism is not smooth by way of

any stretch and arguably to stay a

completely stoic life is impossible

probably no man or woman may be with out moments

of desire or terrible response to the

global around them but stoicism gifts

us with a goal of know-how to aim for a

happiness and tranquility to attempt for

when matters are at their obvious worst

in a time where chaos and tension run

rampant across our displays wherein

cultural

to stay positive approaches and obtain certain

things overwhelm us 24/7 where we spend

a massive amount of time evaluating

ourselves to and wanting the approval of

others our feel of happiness and peace

is becoming an increasing number of inclined and

it's miles perhaps via stoicism that we

can attempt to keep directly to it starting

from birth we apparently run if now not

dash thru existence racing out of each

moment unsatisfied with what life is and

continuously looking to the destiny for

what existence could be if we simply attain

some thing greater or special our way of life

is crush us with the reinforcements

of this idea convincing us that in order

to be satisfied we must acquire by very own

and stay best unaffected lives this

delusion however frenzies us with an

tension that we're then instructed by lifestyle

we will rid ourselves of if we simply

acquire a few greater matters make a little

extra money be a bit greater popular and

buy a touch greater stuff creating an

limitless comments loop of unhappy

starvation if we cave into this we give up

our life we surrender ourselves we ought to

now not like sheep observe the herd of

creatures in the front of us making our way

in which others pass not wherein we have to pass

Seneca writes in the stoic view the

stuff we frequently find ourselves chasing in

life revealed to be as an alternative Petty and

meaningless from a sufficient distance

we don't have much if any manipulate on

what happens to us how human beings see and

deal with us nor what occurs because of

what we do and in the big photo none

of it honestly matters all that tons and

so we should define our happiness now not by means of

what we very own or attain no longer by way of how others

see us not by means of some bigger image of

existence but by means of how we think and notice

ourselves and stay our very own lifestyles thru

what we deem virtuous and relevant

stoicism tells us we can at remaining if we

want frivolously receive the situations of our

and specific reality and one-up it with

our very own and one of a kind mind-set in go back

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