Seven Things About You That You Should Keep Secret
Keeping secrets is important
Don't allow yesterday to steal your tomorrow. Don't judge yourself by your past… you don't live there anymore. It allows you to be, to grow, to move on with your life. As we age, we begin to realize what we need and what we need to leave behind.
Sometimes giving up certain things or certain people can be a step forward.
Don't waste a minute regretting what you did yesterday and start doing what you have to do now so that tomorrow you won't regret today. It's not too late. If you feel this, it means that your inner fears are strong and they are trying to lie behind you.
But remember that fear exists only in your mind. It is difficult to follow your heart, but it is a tragedy to let the fears of the mind stop you.
Judgment of others. If you do something different than what is happening you are chopped, but we must not let anyone chop our dreams, destroy our dreams. But no one has the right to judge us. It is said that when you put on my slippers and walk my path, you may be judging me for a situation, but what I have experienced you have no way of knowing.
And then that's called envy, gossip. And from those who judge you, run away eating the earth no matter how precious that friendship would be. A man who judges you is not a friend.
In any person's life, there are things, experiences, and moments that should not be shared, and their disclosure will not bring you anything good.
Find out the following seven important things that you should keep secret for the rest of your life.
1. The most ambitious plans for the future
Keep quiet about your most ambitious plans and share your success with your loved ones. A long and ambitious road can be full of trials and tribulations and all you need is a person who could discourage you or who would like to compete with you.
2. Good deeds
The greatest virtue is to do something good without hope of recognition and by sharing such things you risk becoming arrogant. If, however, you feel the need to share them, you should rethink the situation and realize what the real reason is for every good deed, instead of altruism you may discover the desire for praise.
3. The secrets of your lifestyle
It is not worth bragging about the way you lost 5 kilograms, the diet followed, the time spent at the gym, or the creams used. The important things in this situation are your spiritual state and the way you feel about yourself.
So, I advise you to give up the desire to receive praise or be the center of attention in exchange for a harmonious emotional state and a quiet lifestyle.
4. Courageous moments or when you showed heroism
Every day is a challenge in which you are tempted to share everything with those around you, but the facts that are truly worthy of recognition will become public and without your will.
5. Opinion on the situation of other people
Do not share your opinion on life and death issues. Most of the time you don't know all the details of a story or the reasons why those around you have made certain decisions so you can't have an objective opinion, on the contrary, you risk being considered critical and mean.
6. Family problems
Such things are not worth sharing with those around you, it is preferable to focus all your attention on solving problems in the privacy of your own home.
7. All unpleasant things and experiences
Try not to talk about all the nasty things people say or do, and try to ignore the dirty shoes of your guests, the stained blouse of your office colleague, or the high-pitched tone of a nervous neighbor.


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