Really high-level women, treat men on these 5 words

There's a classic Hemingway quote about talking:

"It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us 60 years to learn to shut up. Most of the time, the more we talk, the farther away we get and the more contradictions we have."

Indeed, in daily life, there are many people who can talk, few people know how to hold their tongues when appropriate, many people can see through things, and few people see through without talking.

As the so-called big sound, the elephant is invisible, see through not to say often can best reflect a wisdom and cultivation.

In the relationship, a really high-level woman most understand this truth, treat men, see through, know how to repair the mouth and heart, which can not only narrow the distance between each other, but also enhance mutual trust, let the feelings heating up.

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See through not to say, is respect

Men are face-saving, especially outside, want to show their superior side, to satisfy vanity.

To get along with others, a woman should know how to maintain a man's decency, offer encouragement in times of trouble, and stick together in times of trouble.

Know each other difficult, choose not to say, not embarrassing. Give him the utmost respect and he will be grateful to you.

Just like in the TV drama "Little Joy", the middle-aged Fangyuan was unfortunately laid off. He was unemployed and dared not tell his family. He pretended to go to work every day but actually asked for job introductions.

His wife Tong Wenjie accidentally found the abnormality of Yuan Yuan. Instead of blaming and complaining her husband, she silently hugged him, calmed his anxiety and encouraged him to take this opportunity to have a good rest.

In order not to let the children worry, Tong Wenjie actively cooperated with Fangyuan's arrangement, agreed to let him go to the Didi to make money, and even sold his house to pay off his parents' debts. Without making any noise or complaining, they survived the economic crisis together, and the couple became more sympathetic to each other.

As the old saying goes:

"See through not to say, face is better."

Men sometimes so-called "face", in fact, only want women to respect his feelings.

A woman of high rank knows that there is something to see, but does not have to say it, thinks for the other side quietly, understands the other side's weakness, leaves room for the other side, and wins favor for herself.

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See through not to say, is wisdom

Life is not only the wisdom of the world, but also a kind of wisdom and pattern of life.

There are always some people because of the personality of the straight mouth, the truth to expose, the idea to break, but lost the sense of propriety to speak and do things, let the scene into embarrassment.

A high-level woman, must have its extraordinary courage and wisdom, just the right conversation, appropriate silence, eye-catching.

I still remember an impressive scene in "Every Step of the Heart", in which Emperor Kangxi went to the Fourth Master's personally planted garden on a temporary impulse, in order to feel the ordinariness and happiness of ordinary people.

Speaking points occasion, pay attention to the timing, can be quietly for the sake of others, will quietly give people a step down, emotional intelligence high woman, has a deep cultivation, as well as the transparent orchid heart.

To see through is a kind of insight, but also a kind of great wisdom, especially rare.

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See through not to say, is care

Kang Yung Tsai said:

"I don't care about the art of speaking, but the way of speaking, and my way of speaking is to put you in my heart."

To love someone is not to say "I love you" all the time, but to put yourself in the other person's shoes to protect him or her silently, without declaring it in your mouth.

In real life, see through the unspoken behind, not only the good will to shut up, but also understanding each other's pain deeply care.

In "Wang GUI and Anna", Wang GUI comes from a poor family with many brothers and sisters, so he always secretly takes his salary to subsidize his family. Sometimes his elderly parents get sick, and he has to send some of Anna's change back home.

Seeing that the daily family expenses are getting more and more tight, Anna is aware of this, but considering Wang GUI's family circumstances and his filial piety, Anna has not pointed out.

Anna has always been convalesced in the countryside with her daughter to pick up others leave cabbage, make pickled vegetables to save money to buy vegetables, Wang GUI see distressed, reflect on their behavior, the love of Anna more than before, the couple convalesce.

A woman of high level treats the people she cares about. She knows that compared with the care of her mouth is worse than her mouth, the tolerance of seeing through is more acceptable to people. It not only takes into account the decency of others, but also makes her heart more abundant.

Only in this way, can have more sweet love, harmonious and happy family.

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As the saying goes:

"Words to the mouth to leave half a sentence, things from the principle to let three points."

See through not to tell, is a woman to understand the man's heart of the real mind, and not to deliberately puncture, to leave space for both sides, grasp the sense of proportion, maintain a good sense of distance, in order to be long, not tired of small talk.

Finally, the women who want to read this article can have high emotional intelligence, understand the way to get along, sober, silent more than sound.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~