RE: Your EMOTIONAL (So-called) TRIGGERS. Are Not our problem!

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RE: EMOTIONAL (So-called) TRIGGERS

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Following the "Trigger" analogy through....

It is the sole responsibility of the owner of any metaphorical gun, for that gun’s "trigger",

(It is ONLY their responsibility and NOT anyone else's, to tiptoe around them.)

(- do not act like a spoiled precious princess!)

(Your problem is NOT everyone else problem!)

(Your pain, is in many ways unique and yours alone to bear!)

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THIS IS TRUE!

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…However

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Either as the owner of the gun or as a passer-by.

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If you are enough of a ‘dumb arse’ to be at the wrong end of the gun barrel when the "trigger" is pulled,

...On purpose!?!

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Then you fully deserve to get shot in the face!

So always make sure the figurative barrel is pointed in a different direction!

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Gunfights are always best viewed from a safe distance and behind a foot of tempered bulletproof glass.

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Poke any violent base creature and that creature will act within a nature, that mentally imprisons it.

Scorpions will always sting, Cats will always scratch, Plants always turn their leaves towards the burning sun.

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So, do not tiptoe around peoples triggers

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Also don't step into a line of fire on purpose,

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AND

DO NOT Point a barrel of your emotional “gun” constantly at your own head all the time!

Then act all surprised when you accidentally blow your own metaphorical brains out!

Or/and then blame any other people for your emotional mess…

…That is now spattered against the back wall of your crappy life!

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DATING THE MENTALLY ILL!

(SOME NOTES and strongly some offensive language!)

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“Never give up on someone with a mental illness.

When ‘I’ is replaced by ‘We’,

Illness becomes Wellness.”

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- Shannon I, Alder

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(SHE IS WRONG!)

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(It is worth noting that the above also applies to the ‘Mentally ill’ themselves!

"Do not give up on yourself!")

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BUT!

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It is worth noting that the below ALSO applies,

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DO NOT let someone use their “Mental Illness” or “Tragic Past” to ‘License’ themselves to be an emotionally or physically abusive romantic partner!

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You still retain the right to human dignity and the choice to walk away from a toxic manipulative relationship without needless guilt!

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EG,

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Yes, I am sorry a blood relative touched you inappropriately

or beat you

as a child,

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But that does not mean that I am,

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“Unsympathetic”

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Or

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"Unloving”

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Because I will not let you steal from Me and fuck other people!

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I am not going to let you control me or feel guilty about dumping your arse if you act like a total 'shit head' to me!

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You, being a victim in the past,

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Does NOT in any way give you a 'license' or ‘Golden Ticket’ to be a crap person to Me now!

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Tragically, sometimes - Shannon I, Alder is wrong, and you DO have to walk away!

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You have a duty of care, true

But your first duty of care is always to yourself.

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Real-life is not Disney's “Beauty And The Beast”

Real-life is domestic mental, emotional and physical torture and death.

You are not a “martyr to love”

You are just being turned into yet another mere victim statistic!

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(“They” are constantly lying!)

To both you and themselves!

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(They are NOT REALLY sorry!)

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(They will NOT change!)

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(They WILL do it again!)

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(You did NOT “make them” do anything!)

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(You did NOT “Make them” “that way”!)

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(You did do NOT “Bring out the worst" in them!)

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(They are NOT “Different” or an “Exception”!)

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(It was NOT your fault!)

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(It WAS their fault each and every time!)

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GROW UP!

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STOP DELUDING YOURSELF!

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STOP LISTENING TO “THEM”!

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AND LEAVE!

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NOTE

There is no sexuality of gender barrier here.

Women also abuse men!

Men also abuse men!

Women also abuse women!

Because being a sadistic arse hole in a relationship is a game every cunt can enjoy!

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And if my use of swearing is what you are finding offensive here,

In a world too full of domestic abuse,

Then you are being offended by all the wrong things!

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