Passion is expensive, please do not waste

Too much enthusiasm, too easy to get the feeling, but not cherished.

It is undeniable that human nature has a "cheap" nature, perhaps a cold attitude, but will attract attention, a passion will only spoil the favored people.

It is not that you are not good enough, but to meet the wrong people.

Instead of being passionate about anyone, you should learn to curb your emotions and give your passion to the right person and use your heart for your heart.

1.

In this world, good people and bad people do not have absolute boundaries.

Some people do not have any problems with people, but they are bad at being unfaithful to their feelings, they do what they want, they are spontaneous, they are bad and not bad, and they are good and not good.

He does whatever he wants, and no matter how good people are to him, he will not deliver his heart, sometimes one second he will call you brother, and the next he will betray you.

If someone tries to use his heart to get his heart, no doubt the basket is empty, paying more can not warm each other's hearts, but also seems worthless.

It may seem to you that you have given a lot, but in his view, you are just a one-sided self-interest, no measured attempt to invade his life, he was willing to let you in, but does not mean to accept you.

Sometimes, the one-sided pay, only to hurt themselves.

All your giving, touched only by yourself.

The actual story of two people is a one-man show.

It may seem like a misplaced feeling, but it is self-interest.

Instead of spending time in pleasing others, it is better to try to improve themselves, only they become better, to meet better people, otherwise, stop can look up to the good.

2.

Heard a story.

A person is willing to help others, the face of others for help, regardless of whether they should be able to cope, a brain to agree, and finally work hard, to the time or not finished, not thanked, but to provoke each other to blame.

Without the enthusiasm to act according to their ability, in return is more than worth the loss.

Later, he learned to be smart, want to refuse to help can not help, which just refused to attract accusations, that he picked people to help, help others but not help themselves ...... make the wrong person inside and outside, help or not to help are wrong.

There is no sense of proportional enthusiasm, raising the insatiable villain.

The starting point of "being nice" is right, but lost proportion, it is easy to raise "bad guys", you pay, as a matter of course.

You are good to him again, in his opinion, are supposed to be.

Once you change, no longer good for him, he will not resent the cruelty of life but will resent you for not helping, think it's all your fault, and have not thought about what's wrong with themselves.

With people, you can be enthusiastic, but not excessive, everything to help, will only indulge the bad heart, in exchange for insatiable greed.

It seems to be doing a good job, but in reality, it's raising an enemy.

Although enthusiasm should be given to the right person, but excessive will also burn people.

If you have a good relationship, you have to pay attention to the right amount, otherwise, you will not be thanked for doing more good things.

It is important to know that gratitude deteriorates from the good without boundaries.

Your enthusiasm is good intentions, but without proportion, it is easy to lose weight, let the bad ungrateful people, and hurt their loved ones.

Instead of giving passion to others, you should love yourself more.

Passion is expensive, please don't waste it!

Only when you take yourself seriously, you can let others see you.