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Love yourself, to transcend everything

Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

By Timothy J CarrierPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

But many people are not aware of this truth, they will love the dedication to others, a lifetime of living for others, and others happy, while they suffer a lot of aggravation.

In the long years, people should face up to what should be their own, the world can accompany you, to please you, the only ones are themselves.

Perhaps we grew up in different environments, some of us have been instilled by our elders to devote ourselves since childhood so that when we grow up, many of us will take the emotions of others as our priority.

But when catering becomes a habit, when happiness needs to depend on others to give, that life must be less than desirable, because once the dependence in your heart collapses, that darkness will envelop your entire life.

Since we were born, every road we take is parallel to others, some rub shoulders with us, some walk side by side with us, but in the end, the road they took is not the one you took.

People are independent individuals, and they can't empathize with your joys and sorrows.

Maybe you love someone else and get a certain level of spiritual satisfaction, the love is never mutual, and your unrequited contribution will eventually end at a point in time when you don't get anything back.

In this world, the only time you can love yourself is when your love can come back to you completely.

La Rochefoucault said, "Affection is nothing but self-love in its many forms."

Whether in life, in business, or relationships, there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving yourself.

Loving yourself will make life go more smoothly.

Some people face life always like to give in, to their various surrender, and then will be all kinds of good to others.

It's good to be kind, but it's really bad to be kind regardless of yourself.

You will slowly find more and more trouble in life, and because you do not know how to refuse the mentality, you will gradually be overwhelmed by these things.

Many things in life that you do not want to do, and no one can decide for you.

If you make yourself depressed every day because of doing this thing, it is more than worth the loss.

Know that sometimes, rejection is also a way to love yourself.

Love yourself and make a career out of it.

Turgenev said, "Self-esteem and self-love, as a drive to strive for perfection, but the source of all great endeavors."

Everyone has to work to achieve self-worth, and a rising career is the most obvious manifestation of one's value.

Some people want to chase their careers so much that they wear themselves out.

Young guys work late at night and can't wake up; middle-aged men faint on the ground from multiple odd jobs to take care of their families; strong women in the workplace have been working for years without breakfast and suffer from stomach problems ......

News such as these abound. Sometimes we can think differently about what work is really for.

If you need to get paid for hurting yourself, is it a worthwhile thing to do?

Someone said, "The most fearful thing in a person's life is that after working all your life, you will end up spending all your money on medical care."

Then look at what life is like for those who love themselves.

They don't get involved in those meaningless drinking parties because they love themselves; they take good care of their bodies because they love themselves ......

The world of adults needs a lot of socializing, but some meaningless socializing can be rejected, there is this time you might as well be with your family and go through the years together.

As we all know, a career can only be done more efficiently with clear thinking, and they will be able to take care of their bodies to make their career rise quickly and steadily.

Therefore, the best way to rise in your career is to be good to yourself.

Love yourself, the relationship will last love.

Because love themselves, so even others will love and cherish you.

Simply put, love yourself is an example, just like a clean street will not be thrown trash, and full of trash streets others will have to follow suit and throw it away.

Some people live in a very humble relationship, it is because you never take yourself seriously, you carry all the responsibility in the relationship, allowing the other party to hurt you.

And you still foolishly want to get each other in return.

You know, there is a difference between a rose and a weed, and whether you are a rose or a weed depends entirely on how you see yourself.

Smart people know how to please themselves, rather than spending all their time and energy on others.

Some people like to play "bitter drama", with the "I paid" face to others to ask for a return, which is the same reasoning as being forced to buy and sell.

No one needs to live for anyone, whether you have your own family or not, you have to remember that you are always an independent individual.

You've been worrying about others for most of your life, and it's time to take a break and take care of yourself.

When you understand to love yourself, you will find that the whole world will be turned upside down, that is the power of love, is a new life for you.

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