My Ex Saw Me and Ignored Me (My Ex Saw Me and Looked Away)

The break-up of any relationship is emotionally draining. You cry a lot. You lose sleep. You can't eat and at times you can't even do your work. There are some ways to make your ex want you back instead of avoiding you. The root word here is "avoid". Your ex can't avoid you if you are not around him/her. Therefore the first thing that you should do is not to stalk your ex.

Don't stalk your ex...Rather avoid them... Resist the urge to call or send your ex text messages. You should act as if you have accepted the break-up amicably. Avoid going to places where you know your ex hangs out. Even if your being in the same place as your ex's is legitimate, your ex might think otherwise. Keep yourself invisible but let your ex feel that you are available.

Assess the situation...Do a deep analysis... Understand why your ex broke-up with you. A break-up is not a spur of the moment decision. Know that the decision to break-up came upon after a long time of consideration and thought. Were you the one at fault? Was it your ex's decision to split-up for some unknown cause? Try to figure out what the real reason is. If there is a third party involved, then it's a different story.

Get a new look for a new you... Have you let go of your looks while in a relationship with your ex? Now is the time to make yourself attractive all over again. Work out for a fitter and slimmer you. Enroll in a class of Pilates or Yoga. Get a new haircut. Buy a few new clothes for a more fashionable you. Your ex might actually reconsider if he/she sees a "new" you.

Get your life back. Move on... Who would want to hang out with a depressed you?! Not even your kin and friends would want to be with you if you continually have a long face. Wake up! It is not the end of the world. There are more pressing global problems that are more important. Contribute to the society you live in by being productive.

Do you really want your ex back? Well, do you? Your ex left you. Your ex broke your heart. There are relationships that are not meant to last. You have to dig deep and find the answer to that question. Truth be told, there are a lot of possibilities out there for you.

Get Your Ex Back - What to Do and What Not to Do

If you want to get your ex back after a relationship breakup, the good news is that in many cases it is a realistic and achievable goal to aspire to. Unfortunately some relationships are not salvageable, but if yours falls into this category I think you will know, if you are really honest with yourself. In this type of case the healthy thing to do is to lick your wounds, and move on. If however you feel you have a chance, then it's time to do something about it.

The first thing you should do in your attempt to repair your relationship is nothing. This means no contact with your ex of any kind. All breakups uncover some painful emotions, and it's best to let these subside, the only thing that can do this is time. You really need to let the dust settle. It will also give you and your ex time to reflect on what has happened, they may come to the same conclusion you have, and want you back again. This can't happen unless you give them time to miss you. Remember this saying "how can I miss you if you wont go away."

Once they have had time to reflect it's time for you to make your move. At this point you have two paths you can choose, one we will call the aggressive method, and the other we shall call the passive method.

Aggressive:

This approach has its risks, and depends a lot on your ex coming to the conclusion that they may have made a mistake by ending things in the first place. To accomplish your reconciliation using the aggressive method, you will basically begin to pursue them once more. Ask them out on a date, and seduce them again, just like you did the first time.

Imagine you are going out on a first date, with someone you have just met, dress to impress, act seductively. Keep the conversation friendly, you have a great advantage on this "first" date in that you know this person very well indeed, so use this advantage to its full potential. You will soon know if you have any chance of getting them back. This method works in most cases where there is any chance of a successful reconciliation in the first place.

This may be called the aggressive method, but don't actually be aggressive in your actions. Also if it doesn't seem to be working, don't beg with your ex to take you back, this never works. However you should ask if they will give you another chance, and tell them you want them back. If they agreed to meet you in the first place, then you already know there may be a chance, so go for it!

Passive:

If you choose a passive approach then you should also dress to impress. However the meeting should be an "accident," by this I mean you should arrange to be at a place you know they will be. When you meet you should start a casual conversation.

You should not talk about your relationship, but keep it friendly, casual, and general. Let them know by your appearance and manner how well you are doing without them, this will naturally start them wondering if you are ready to move on, and will invoke the most powerful of all emotions jealousy.

If they do harbor any feelings for you this will get them to surface.

Don't overdo the accident thing, as it could be classed as stalking. Also be aware that this approach works less often, but as it allows things to develop naturally, even if the passion never returns you could still end up with a lifelong friend. This matters to a lot of people just as much a getting back with them romantically, if this describes you, then the passive path is the one I would recommend.

If you decide to get your ex back, your path can be filled with many obstacles, but if you avoid the pitfalls we have discussed, you have every chance of succeeding. At the very least, you could end up making your ex into a good friend. You may also end up with a stronger healthier relationship, because of the trouble you have been through.

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