Love

Love, so many ways that you can love people. Love is such a strong emotion. Love is the best feeling in the world. However, there is love you feel for general folks in your life that mean the world to you as friends or family or just in general people you do not really know or just know about. If you are like me, we try to love every single person that has entered our realm of life even if its just a picture of someone on social media that you feel a connection to, a child picture you might see on social media that may be cute, funny, or dealing with health issues. Love for our fellow man. Love for just life or life for love. However, there is this amazing, drive you insane lose your mind love. The love for your other half, your soul mate, your best friend love of your life. This love can not be denied as the most fantastic feeling of all time. The love for someone that you know beyond any doubts in your mind that you can spend eternity with them, and it would never be long enough. That one person, The one, The only, love of your life.

I have come to realize that if everyone would wait for that undeniable force that is pushing you toward someone, that crazy fall that you have absolutely no control of. If everyone would be patient and wait for that person that just fulfills everything inside them. That one person that you cannot get enough of, or that you have see be close to talk to every day and when you cannot you miss the sound of their voice. You miss looking into their eyes. You miss their smile. You miss everything that makes them who they are. You miss everything that connects you with them. If everyone would wait for that wonderful magic to happen there would be no divorces. I honestly believe that. If you would wait for that feeling of souls combining into one and hearts merging into each other. That beautiful feeling of becoming one with someone, then I have to say there would not ever be a divorce. Because this love cherishes, this love honors, this love is what was intended to be from the beginning of time.

If you love someone, emotional abuse, mental abuse, and physical abuse could not possibly enter into your relationship. This stuff is things that are used to confuse and distract you from what real love is supposed to be. If you adore the person, you are with you could not possibly want to hurt them. Only lift them up and cherish the moments. When it is right you cannot get away from it. When it is meant to be you cannot deny it. There is a magnetic force stronger than the ocean waves stronger than gravity pulling you toward each other. There is no way you can get away from it or deny its affect on you. I call it fate, or destiny. Your fate and destiny were set forth before you were ever born, and you cannot escape your destiny.

There are many steppingstones and learning we have to go through to get to that place we can appreciate and accept our destiny. The road is most of the time rocky and ridden with obstacles in our way, but it leads us to the point of no return, our destiny. Some people find love early in life some people waste their time on what they think might be love and years go by and they wake up middle aged and wasted their whole life on people that did nothing but hurt them.

Love is patient, Love is kind, Love iso not meant to hurt you, but rather protect you. Love is a gift and meant as a gift not to be abused. If I had one thing to advise young people of, it would be to wait for that magical pull from forces greater than we are that will push you right into the arms of the one that is meant for you. Wait for that moment of no questions, no doubts, no what if’s just peace that yes this is what is meant to be. If you have doubts or wonder, its not the one.

Yes, I believe in fairytales. Yes, I believe in happily ever after, but you must wait for the magic and accept nothing less than that magical love that lives on even after we leave this world. Yes, the magic is real and do not let anyone tell you it is unrealistic to want that happily ever after. Be patient, it is so worth the wait.