Looking beautiful is not your credit, living beautiful is
Looking beautiful is not your credit, living beautiful is
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Aura, more gravitational force than beautiful
The fifth anniversary of graduation party, Sasha quietly sitting in a corner, even if not talking, I can still feel her strong aura.
Her dressing, elegant in a not vulgar temperament.
Both dignified and fashionable, but do not let people feel extravagant and ostentatious, especially suitable for such occasions as class reunions.
Sasha and I, from high school to college classmates.
When she was in high school, she never received love letters because of her ordinary looks. She does not seem to care, calmly study, and watch us whispering, who is chased, who is with whom.
When she was in college, Sasha remained completely unobtrusive. Her family conditions were as ordinary as her looks.
When a few of our friends were going out to hot pot, Karaoke and shopping, she always stayed in her dorm in silence, organizing her closet, cleaning, or holding a book, turning on the lamp and watching the whole afternoon.
In the eyes of several of my good friends, Sasha is a delightful Cinderella, not fighting for favor, not arrogant.
In their hearts (and mine too), they never thought that five years later at the party, Sasha would shine and become the brightest girl.
Did you notice Sasha? Her bag is the one I've always wanted but haven't had the time to buy eh. And her shoes, I do not know if it is a limited edition of what brand, the market has not seen.
In the bathroom, my best friend finally had a chance to say what she was confused about.
I really did not expect that Sasha has such a good temperament now. These clothes on her body, simply complement each other.
My friend, who was the class flower in the class, was surprisingly outclassed by Sasha tonight.
The first half of the party has been a problem for her and I confided in her.
I said, "No, Sasha is a potential stock.
She spent all those years in the library, reading books with a small lamp in the dormitory, and later in the workplace to make her today.
The company is now a large company's HR, her aura, is the light of confidence, but also the pampered calm.
She has more depth than the other girls in the room, and she is funny, I am ashamed of myself.
That night, my biggest feeling is: beautiful, really is something like a vase. What is more important than beauty is a strong aura.
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The beautiful look is not your credit, live a beautiful life is
A little girl, from childhood, was praised for being beautiful, inevitably complacent up.
Whether in school, or play with friends, always feel that they are the center, everything has to be according to their hearts.
When they grow up, because they are beautiful, they will get more attention from boys.
Going out to do things, will also be smoother. Even graduate to find a job, are easier than the average girl.
Pretty does have a lot of benefits, but the girls should be clear in their minds, look pretty, not your credit. Parents inherited to give you good genes, you should be grateful to them.
Live a beautiful life, you are responsible for your own life.
Although I do not believe in the word "red-headed", but in modern society, there are still many girls, because of the red-headed, tainted with the curse.
For example, because of the beautiful pursued by many boys, and later drop out of school too early to mix with society; for example, because of the beautiful was adopted but was abandoned.
Although these are only a few cases, but the beautiful girl should grow a heart, early for their own life planning.
Wang Fei, Fan Bingbing, Liu Tao, Zhang Ziyi are both beautiful and live a beautiful example.
They have their own careers, their own lives to make their own decisions, public opinion or prejudice or, can not affect their choice.
The first thing you need to do is to respect your heart and do it as long as you feel right, because people live once, it's too tiring to think too much, you have to live for yourself."
So, you see her love, from Huo Qishan to American Vivi, and then to fall in love with Wang Feng.
She will always be generous romance public, never listen to gossip, not left and right suspicion, only seek to live their own spontaneous real.
In her acting career, she strives for excellence: "I care too much and want to do well, and I think I can indeed do better."
For life, her view is: "All experiences are for memories, not for regrets."
Work hard, be confident, follow your heart, and pursue your happiness so that you can live your life as you see fit and ultimately live the life you want.
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What is more important than beauty, is connotation
Pretty makes people salivate, wisdom makes people impressed.
No connotation and soul, even if you look beautiful is also uninteresting.
Obama's wife, Michelle, does not look very beautiful, but she is definitely a wise woman.
I have seen Michelle at the beginning of Obama's inauguration, on the issue of education speech, was deeply shocked.
This is a caring, visionary, educated and capable first lady.
A few days ago, Obama broke down in tears when he mentioned Michelle in his farewell speech in Chicago. On stage, he just said the name "Michelle" and it caused thunderous applause and cheers from the stage.
The audience spontaneously formed a circle near Michelle, who was standing on the stage, and greeted the first lady with applause.
My girl from the South, for the past 25 years you have been not only my wife and the mother of my children, but also my best friend. With your grace, poise, courage and humor, you have excelled in a role that you had not asked for.
Obama's gratitude to Michelle is genuine between the lines.
A successful family, an appreciative husband, and the adoration of the American public, Michelle is considered one of the most beautiful women to have lived, right?
And not to mention celebrities, we ordinary women, no matter how they look, can also enrich their own connotations, live as they want.
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How to improve the inner content and live beautifully?
Work hard and develop hobbies. Read ten thousand books, travel ten thousand miles, and go through ten thousand things.
Work is our foundation, it brings us, not only economic gains, but also the circle of their lives.
Many girls, after marrying into a relatively wealthy family, give up work, full-time housewife, enjoy life.
This may not be impossible, but it requires taking risks: once the marriage lights up, the family falls apart, the woman's spiritual pillar will collapse at once, there is no corner to heal.
I always feel that a person's life should be composed of several parts: family, children, work, hobbies, circle.
Each part has its own meaning. When you are in love, you may not appreciate, but if you are hurt by someone you love, you will definitely understand how important it is for you to have a job and a colleague.
Hobby, in fact, is about our interest in life.
The woman who lives beautifully must have her own hobbies and interests.
The interests of a wide range of either, specializing or fine, make our lives richer, more pleasant mood.
Hobby makes your life more three-dimensional, fuller emotions.
Read a million books, the belly has a poetic book.
People who read more books are more open-minded, and do not take the bull by the horns when things go wrong, and think more from the other side's standpoint in everything.
Reading is also the same as traveling thousands of miles by ten thousand things, can broaden the horizons.
If you have seen the eyes of the world's most famous paintings, listened to the ears of Beethoven's symphonies, reached the Egyptian pyramids of the feet, your insight, must be very different from the time confined to a small world.
The experience is rich, the realm will open up.
A thoughtful and insightful people, to calmly face life in a place of chicken feathers. The simple days, the taste to live.
When I was young, I was particularly envious of other people's beauty. But now, I only envy people who live a beautiful life. I admire a girl like Sasha, confident and self-motivated, so that everyone can see her light.
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